Why is it assumed by many here that Grace Folk live in blatant, unrepentant sin?

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Tinkerbell725

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Because we are abusive by nature. We abuse God's grace. Everyone is capable of evil given the circumstances like moments of weakness. We are a work in progress and God is not done with us like silver we are being polished until God can see His reflection in us.
 

TMS

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There are people out their that CLAIM salvation and continue to live in sin.
There are also people out their that have a FALSE assurance of salvation.
We all need to understand that many have no clue what salvation or Christianity really is.
Hebrews clearly teaches that God will chastise His children.
A person that lives in unrepentant sin and does not feel God's chastisement should seriously check their true standing before God.
agree
we all need to be searching our hearts like God told Israel to do before the day of atonement.
the condition to forgiveness is repentance and some people don't really understand what that means.
 
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1Co 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
1Co 6:10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
1Co 6:11 And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.
1Co 6:12 All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any.


by being washed, sanctified and justified you no longer do the sins that Paul lists.


Gal 5:18 But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law.
Gal 5:19 Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness,
Gal 5:20 Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies,
Gal 5:21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
Gal 5:22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,
Gal 5:23 Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.
Gal 5:24 And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts.
Gal 5:25 If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit.
Gal 5:26 Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another.


If your lead by the Spirit you will not do the things of the flesh and will have the fruits of the Spirit.
Are you saying that the flesh never wins? That you never sin?
I am lead by the Spirit, but I will confess that I fail to follow His lead from time to time.
Every time I do, that same Spirit points out what I have done (SINNED) and leads me to repentance and asking forgiveness.
 

JGIG

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It's because of man-made religion has a stronghold over our minds. The number 1 enemy of the Lord Jesus Christ is the Christian religion. The message of the gospel of the grace of Christ exposes this religion for what it is and it makes people angry.

Sometimes we think we are "defending the faith" but in reality we are "defending our traditions and church upbringing teachings".

The established church for 100 years wanted to kill Martin Luther because he said "The just shall live by faith". it went against the church teachings and exposed it for what it really was.

Religious zeal wants to kill those that stand against it. The law-keeping Jews killed Jesus. The religious people stoned Stephen. The religious Saul - blameless as to the righteousness of the law of Moses - killed Christians because of his religious zeal "for God". The catholic church wanted to kill Luther and others because of their religious zeal.

As it says in Galatians 4 - the son of the flesh ( self-effort - Ishmael ) persecuted the son of the free ( grace - Isaac ) and Paul says it is still happening to this day.


For those interested in this subject...this is a great video talking about why the gospel of the grace of God is being attacked. Interesting this video was before the "hyper-grace" term being used in a disparaging way to discredit the gospel.

https://vimeo.com/11804054
That's a great video - part B is here:

[video=vimeo;11810822]https://vimeo.com/11810822[/video]
 

JGIG

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There are people out their that CLAIM salvation and continue to live in sin.
There are also people out their that have a FALSE assurance of salvation.
We all need to understand that many have no clue what salvation or Christianity really is.
Hebrews clearly teaches that God will chastise His children.
A person that lives in unrepentant sin and does not feel God's chastisement should seriously check their true standing before God.

I understand what you're saying, but to repeat, this thread is not about people 'out there', it's about people on this forum and why it is assumed that because we preach grace that we are also living in sin.

-JGIG
 

TMS

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Grace Folk believe in obedience. And we don't see that as legalism, we see it as, well, obedience! We obey because of who we are in Christ - we love others as He has loved us, and love fulfills the Law. If we are walking in love we are not stealing, committing adultery, lying, etc. It is the Fruit of God's Spirit working in us, not what we have to do to be in Christ.




What people?


We who post on this forum are not random, unknown people 'out there'.

Many of us have been here for several years and have been constisent in our demeanor and in communicating what we believe and why.


I'm asking why it's assumed that those of us on this forum are living in blatant, unrepentant sin.

-JGIG
sorry i wasn't talking about a person on this forum, people in general sometimes generalise.
If people on this forum are judging you than that is their problem and please forgive them.
I'm glad you believe in obedience, because love fulfils the law. i believe the same.
 

TMS

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Are you saying that the flesh never wins? That you never sin?
I am lead by the Spirit, but I will confess that I fail to follow His lead from time to time.
Every time I do, that same Spirit points out what I have done (SINNED) and leads me to repentance and asking forgiveness.
No i'm not saying we need to be perfect. I'm saying that to believe your being lead by the Spirit of God and to continually be practising the sins of the flesh is a contradiction. we fail and fall and we are all at different stages in the sanctification process, No one is perfect. To knowingly live in unrepentant sin and think that grace will cover you is not what the word teaches.
 
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I have never heard anyone say "Go out and sin all you want" and do not "obey Jesus" and I have listened to over a thousand different messages from various teachers of the grace of Christ.

I do see where some people all the time accuse grace believers as doing the above.

Most people once you tell the truth of what you believe - they are ok. Others no matter how many times you tell them the truth - they say the complete opposite and it is almost useless to discuss things with this type of mindset as they continually "twist" what is really being said.

As far as Christians "sinning in the flesh" ( it does happen despite some that preach "sinless perfection in the flesh" and if you do sin - then you are of the devil and not born of God )......there are a few reasons that I see that can get Christians caught in this deceitful web.

People do get stuck in various things that are destructive but the real Christian does not want to be in that. They want to walk free from those things - not live in them happily.

IMO... This is why we need to be preaching grace as only the grace of Christ has the power to change a person from the inside out. We can temporarily change ourselves outwardly by our own self-effort and human will but usually that does not last.

As we see Christ and keep our eyes on Him and in His finished work for us - the Holy Spirit transforms us outwardly to manifest our true nature in our new creations in Christ. We are created in righteousness and holiness. We need to participate in this process and desire to live by the spirit within.

The true Christian that is living in continuous sin is the most miserable person on the planet
. ( there are believers that go to church every week and read their bibles and pray all the time and they can be in this category as well as the person out shooting heroin in their arms )

He is living against his true nature on the inside and is constantly trying to cover up this miserableness. This describes those that deliberately refuse to even desire to walk in who they are in Christ and perhaps in some cases they are not really "in Christ" at all.

Perhaps they are in fact "in Christ" but have never really heard the gospel of the grace of Christ and thus live defeated by various things? I'll let the angels at the end of the ages separate the tares from the wheat.


In the meantime - preach and teach on the love and grace of Christ that is in the true gospel so that the Christian will have the "nutrients" needed to grow up in Christ.
 
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...probably because there is a nasty brand of modern Christianity that convinces people that so long as they believed the words in that cute little Sinner's Prayer(tm), that as long as they are "sorry" for all their future sins, then it's quite alright to keep living like the rest of the world as long as your butt warms a pew on Sunday and you sprinkle some folding money into the collection plate as it passes your way.

Grace vs. Works is one of my favorite soap operas to watch around here. It always descends into a mud fight.
You wouldn't know grace if it bit you in the mule.
 
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No i'm not saying we need to be perfect. I'm saying that to believe your being lead by the Spirit of God and to continually be practising the sins of the flesh is a contradiction. we fail and fall and we are all at different stages in the sanctification process, No one is perfect. To knowingly live in unrepentant sin and think that grace will cover you is not what the word teaches.
I agree. We all fail from time to time.
Personally, I can not comprehend a saved person living in unrepentant sin. I just don't see how that is possible.
I have a serious concern for the soul of a person that can do that.
 

mcubed

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There are a lot of answers to that question. One of them is people that have a Calvinistic belief that salvation can be lost so how a parson seams on the outside, overt sin, is of high importance because they get to judge if your saved or no. But I have never had a Calvinist answer about overt sin; the sin of their thoughts, heart, grumblings to themselves when no one can hear. But then there is the other extreme, Dr. Michael Brown calls it hyper grace. I like that term. What does is matter what sin you commit or how much you commit it we saved by grace; no need to become a new creation we’ll get to heaven anyway. There is a big flaw in that to because the Holy Spirit convicts us of sin and if someone is not convicted maybe there are not saved or for sure in a really back sliden state, or have never properly grown. Only G-d knows if they are saved or not because one cannot tell by their fruit. At least the other type has visible fruit.
 
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I agree. We all fail from time to time.
Personally, I can not comprehend a saved person living in unrepentant sin. I just don't see how that is possible.
I have a serious concern for the soul of a person that can do that.
I understand this thought. There are people in churches all over North America that have malice towards others in the body of Christ and slander them as if it is nothing - and they don't give these unrepentant sins a second thought.

They wouldn't think of smoking or any thing else that is a "biggie sin" to them but they will go to church every time the door is open but think nothing of slandering others
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These types of people are in the exact same boat as those people that are living in a homosexual lifestyle and think it is ok to live like that.
 

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I think this comes down to both not understanding grace and clinging to legalism. Repenting of sin can become a subtle form of legalism or salvation/spirituality by works. We are saved by grace and the spiritual life is lived by grace. Everything about Biblical Christianity revolves around grace.

We begin the Christian life by accepting the God's gracious gift of salvation. We continue the spiritual life by listening to the teaching of the Word of God, given by God to the prophets of old, preserved for us thorough the millennia by God, and taught to us by men given the spiritual gift of pastor-teacher by God. But we continue to sin so we follow the grace procedure of confession of sin as described in 1John 1:9, return to the filling of the Holy Spirit, and continue growing in grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior. This procedure requires only the naming of sin to God, no works, no promises not to do than sin again (self deception), no repentance. It is a grace procedure free of all legalism. It frees the believer to continue growing spiritually, and live in the filling of the Holy Spirit.

The plan of God is 100% grace. The enemies of Christ during the first advent were all steeped in legalism.
 
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I understand this thought. There are people in churches all over North America that have malice towards others in the body of Christ and slander them as if it is nothing - and they don't give these unrepentant sins a second thought.

They wouldn't think of smoking or any thing else that is a "biggie sin" to them but they will go to church every time the door is open but think nothing of slandering others
.

These types of people are in the exact same boat as those people that are living in a homosexual lifestyle and think it is ok to live like that.
Yea, some folks want to ignore the Bible definition of sin and use their own.
As I have said, I am very concerned for their eternal soul.
 

Ahwatukee

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I understand this thought. There are people in churches all over North America that have malice towards others in the body of Christ and slander them as if it is nothing - and they don't give these unrepentant sins a second thought.

They wouldn't think of smoking or any thing else that is a "biggie sin" to them but they will go to church every time the door is open but think nothing of slandering others
.

These types of people are in the exact same boat as those people that are living in a homosexual lifestyle and think it is ok to live like that.
Hello Grace777,

It is a mystery to me as well. For some reason not being under the law to them equates to free reign to sin. They can't comprehend the meaning of being under a different covenant, saved by grace through faith, apart from the works of the law. To them it seems to be either or. Our focus should be on the One who provided salvation for us, for it is by trusting in him for our salvation that we are saved. True believers who are under grace are zealous to keep from sinning against God and eager to confess them when we do. Yet we are not under the law.
 

JGIG

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Because we are abusive by nature. We abuse God's grace. Everyone is capable of evil given the circumstances like moments of weakness. We are a work in progress and God is not done with us like silver we are being polished until God can see His reflection in us.
What have those of us posted that prove abuse of God's grace so that it is assumed that we are living in unrepentant sin?

It is my experience that the more I understand God's grace and walk in it the LESS sin there is in my life! And not just the 'big' sins, but things like anger, worry, pride, etc.

Is it actual sin that is being assumed or potential sin that is being assumed?

And if it is potential sin that is being assumed, how is that in line with 'love rejoices with the truth' and 'love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things'?

Are those who are implying that Grace Folk are living in rebellious sin walking in love toward us? We have given them no reason to imply the things they do.

And if it's potential sin, do they not know that the Bible tells us that Grace teaches to say no to ungodliness and that Law actually stirs up sin? If Grace Folk are living and teaching in Grace, how is that leading to more sin in their lives?

It doesn't add up.

So why do they do it?

-JGIG
 

JGIG

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agree
we all need to be searching our hearts like God told Israel to do before the day of atonement.
the condition to forgiveness is repentance and some people don't really understand what that means.
Question: How many people did Jesus require to repent before He forgave them and healed them? And the New Covenant Scriptures say that we must believe and receive the forgiveness of Christ, not that we earn it (conditional). Repentance (Biblically difined as a change of mind and heart) precedes belief in Christ and receiving His gifts of forgiveness, righteousness, and new life, but it is not defined as turning from sin - in essence 'cleaning ourselves up' - to be acceptable to God. No, 'while we were yet sinners, Christ died for the ungodly.' He takes us as we are - we simply need to recognize it and choose whether or not we believe what He has done and then walk in the newness of life He gives us.

-JGIG