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Thanks for your post, Lynn. 
Gonna ask you to clarify the above; my understanding is that "sexy" is provocative.
Gonna ask you to clarify the above; my understanding is that "sexy" is provocative.
Three years later, and I was still wearing polyester shirts and high-waist jeans, which was the fashion of the time. (Many people -- gals and guys -- kept telling me to unbutton one more button. I wouldn't. I know who I was after. A guy who wasn't going to judge me by my cleavage.) He saw me in front of the church asking my new pastor if I could add to the announcements. I didn't know it was a Discipleship Movement church, because the discipleship part had just wrecked it. But hubby liked a woman brave enough to ask that in a church where that had been carefully trained out of people.
I got the man I was after. It wasn't intentional for him, but we're women. We really really know how to dress for the man we want, even when we don't know who he is in the crowd. That is our sexy! We don't have to look easy to attract a guy. We don't have to be easy to attract a guy. Matter of fact, we work at our shield thing that Lihle speaks of in another way in a different culture. We know our sexy!
You've been taught the same thing as a guy, albeit, I suspect the information given is different. (I don't know. Never got the opportunity to listen in as guys talk about how to attract women. I just can tell they have to be talking about it, because guys know what they're doing too. And I can see their variations on sexy and can tell who they're after.)
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I couldn't flirt if you put a gun to my head. Never figured that art out. Never was interested. The only way I got future-hubby to FINALLY ask me out was to be wherever he was and the second a seat vacated next to him, strategically plant myself there. (And he's Mister Outgoing/Friendly/Listens Well Guy, so everyone wanted to sit near him.) I even had to drink three hot chocolates before I was brave enough to mention I HATE hot chocolate.
We had our mojo working for us. We both got husbands that like us for our inability to flirt. lol
We had our mojo working for us. We both got husbands that like us for our inability to flirt. lol
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Be mindful that Im a dozen meds for the flu. Im gonna try again...I see people here saying they have so and so on their ignore list.I dont put people on ignore.I pm them and see if we can have an understanding and if not I simply dont answer when they speak to me. Ive never put anyone on ignore since Ive been here.I think adults should be able to work things out,especially in a Christian forum.Worked so far for me. Did that make better sense? If not give me a week to get the nyquil out of my system.
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And if you're particularly upset with me: http://christianchat.com/miscellaneous/121016-give-peacefulwarrior-piece-your-mind.html#post2253450