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VioletReigns

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Most of the compliments I've gotten in my life from acquaintances and strangers alike have been for my smile and for the light in my eyes. I know for certain it's Jesus they see because He is the source of all my joy. \:)/
 
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Be mindful that Im a dozen meds for the flu. Im gonna try again...I see people here saying they have so and so on their ignore list.I dont put people on ignore.I pm them and see if we can have an understanding and if not I simply dont answer when they speak to me. Ive never put anyone on ignore since Ive been here.I think adults should be able to work things out,especially in a Christian forum.Worked so far for me. Did that make better sense? If not give me a week to get the nyquil out of my system.
Obviously didn't go over too well, but that "Huh?" was intended to be the punch line..... Sorry, my attempts at humor can sometimes be kind of vague.
 
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kaylagrl

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Obviously didn't go over too well, but that "Huh?" was intended to be the punch line.....
Hahahaaa Nope cant even remember my own name.Got this pre-fall flu and been coughing my brains out.So I dont have enough left to get a punchline apparently.Hopefully the juices will crank back up after the flu and I'll catch the jokes a bit better.Not promising anything though.
 
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BarlyGurl

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Hahahaaa Nope cant even remember my own name.Got this pre-fall flu and been coughing my brains out.So I dont have enough left to get a punchline apparently.Hopefully the juices will crank back up after the flu and I'll catch the jokes a bit better.Not promising anything though.
that entire post was a good punch-line...I even heard the "ba-da-bump-bah" at the end! Good job!!!

... passes kayla a box of tissue, can of chicken soup and some apple juice... prayers for you.
 
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kaylagrl

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that entire post was a good punch-line...I even heard the "ba-da-bump-bah" at the end! Good job!!!

... passes kayla a box of tissue, can of chicken soup and some apple juice... prayers for you.

Awww thank you! I appreciate it.Hubby and I are both down with it.I was feeling better Friday but I think relapsed. :( Just need a lot of rest.I dont think the meds do anything but make you sleep anyway.lol
 
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PeacefulWarrior

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Because he wasn't judging her profile. He was trying to make a point to Lihle that no matter HOW you dress, you're still going to receive attention from the opposite sex. Zoii chose to think he was targeting herself specifically just because PW used a pic of hers to illustrate his point. This whole thing has gotten out of proportion and I'm going to ask a mod to delete all these posts up to Lilhe's last response, because it's not fair to derail her thread like this. :/ People need to learn how to accept advice (and criticism) on here. If they can't or won't, then they won't do well either on here OR out in the real world..
Furthermore, I don't think my wife would appreciate me private messaging 15 yr old young ladies. :)

Also, I think I might need to learn better forum etiquette; while I don't think I blatantly broke any rules, I am not aware of any specific guidelines for forum communication.
 
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PeacefulWarrior

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Also, has anyone asked... -- Lihle, Do you have a support group out there? Are there any family members or friends you can turn to?
 
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OK Ive taken a deep breath & thought about things. I'm sorry - the post set off a trigger and so... apologies for the result.

The chatter asked for advice to improve his post. May I suggest that if a pic is necessary to illustrate a point, perhaps choose it from google image and not from someones profile or album and esp Dont label it as 'Zoii's profile pic' or whoever. That will diminish personal attachment to any particular point your trying to make. If you dont ... well i cant see your body language...I dont know you...so I can only go on MY inetreptation of words/pictures you use. I'm totally struggling with the comment about my avatar given i had jeans n tshirt n ensured it was totally out of focus - ie I was totally blurred.... but I'll drop it.

As for the rest of comments - yea I got up some teen anger n realise I was like some run-away train. My personal appearance n mens comments about it...I realise I am super sensitive about it *work in progress* n dont handle being around guys let alone being confronted by them in a way i think might be personal.... intended or not by that person. Gosh I usually try to be so measured..wow... the points about dont write while ur annoyed - hmmm I'm thinking that was good advice
I'm rambling - Summary: sorry everyone esp to OP
 
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lihle

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Okey people, post officially closed, class dismissed. Someone start a new thread please!
 
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atwhatcost

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Obviously didn't go over too well, but that "Huh?" was intended to be the punch line..... Sorry, my attempts at humor can sometimes be kind of vague.
I got it and chuckled. She'll get it when she doesn't need the NyQuil. lol
 
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Eva1218

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It is not the mourning year that you need but Healing from the passing on of your husband. Only GOD can truly Heal you and see you through. There is nothing wrong with mourning tradition or not. But Healing must take place. So know I'm not going against your tradition. Just advising you to seek Healing which will help you in moving forward whether it be for marriage or not. Do what makes you feel comfortable.

Blessings!!!!!!!
 

blue_ladybug

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Okey people, post officially closed, class dismissed. Someone start a new thread please!
It is not the mourning year that you need but Healing from the passing on of your husband. Only GOD can truly Heal you and see you through. There is nothing wrong with mourning tradition or not. But Healing must take place. So know I'm not going against your tradition. Just advising you to seek Healing which will help you in moving forward whether it be for marriage or not. Do what makes you feel comfortable.

Blessings!!!!!!!

The OP has asked us to not post on here anymore..she wants this thread to die.
 
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lihle

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Only because people were using this as a battle field, going on at each other about stuff that didn't have anything to do with the original post. Anyone who who wants to have any input about the original post is most welcome to do so.
 
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PeacefulWarrior

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Only because people were using this as a battle field, going on at each other about stuff that didn't have anything to do with the original post. Anyone who who wants to have any input about the original post is most welcome to do so.
How has it been going lately, anyway?