sex before marriage?

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VansRComfy11

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I don't know if I have commented on this thread yet or not, but I am not going through all 600+ posts to see If I did or not.

I had sex outside of marraige with one woman when I was 17, it wasn't my idea, yet through giving into the tempation I consented. It really complicated things, and I also had developed an addiction to sex. She ended up being unfaithful to me (that hurt sooo bad at the time). Really neither of us were even ready for a serious relationship anyway; but because of that addiction that I had developed, the relationship, (if you can even call it that) dragged on much longer than it should have. Finally, I had ended it but was left emotionally scarred for some time after this, and my addiction to sex quickly morphed into an addiction to pornography.

God has since healed the wounds and delivered me from the bondage of my addiction. Having premarital sex led me into a downward spiral, that only by the faithfulness and grace of God was I lifted out of it. It is possible that it may not affect others the way it did myself, but why would anybody want to risk reaping the same outcome? Besides....God said not to do it, that should be enough on it's own. Take my word for it, sex outside of marriage is not what it is hyped up to be by the people of this world; just wait!!!...for your sake, your partner's sake, and above all: for the love of God. Peace be with you!
God bless you KING and I'm sure your personal story will inspire your fellow Christian brothers and sisters to get on the right path and stay there. Have a blessed Christmas and I wish you a joyous 2012 and the same goes for all of you on CC and to all your friends and family!
 
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See_KING_Truth

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God Bless you Rocco! Keep on keepin' on my brother, God is faithful to finish the work that He began, that goes for all of us :). Merry Christmas and a happy New Year to you and to all my other brothers and sisters here on CC!!! <3
 

Pheonix

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Why does this question keep comming up???????

GOD SAYS NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Jullianna

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I think the same thing every time I see one of these threads, Pheonix (wow..it's tough to intentionally misspell that haha) :D
 

Pheonix

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I think the same thing every time I see one of these threads, Pheonix (wow..it's tough to intentionally misspell that haha) :D
well I had it easy jullianna, I misspelled it by accident :D
 
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rodogg

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Wow Christian Chat and look at how many people said yes...
 
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Wow Christian Chat and look at how many people said yes...
I just want to know why this even needs to be a topic. Maybe the purpose is connecting people who desire sex before marriage.
 
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rodogg

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It shouldn't need to be a topic. I think we probably all DESIRE sex before marriage, it's those who are supposed to be Christians and believe it to be ok that need to be educated otherwise! Don't know how we're going to round them all up though...
It's an interesting statistic though, those who answered "yes" and "if committed" and "if engaged". I've said this before, there's a strange variety of half-Christianity that I can't for the life of me understand or describe.
 
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JamesofLinHood

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I've said this before, there's a strange variety of half-Christianity that I can't for the life of me understand or describe.
I think that a lot of people tend to treat Christianity like a buffet: "Oh, I'll have a double serving of forgiveness but please hold God's judgement of my sins. Oh, and that grace looks fantastic! Ewwww....taking the Bible literally?! No thanks!"
 

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Wow Christian Chat and look at how many people said yes...
Its true this is a Christian Chat, but we shouldnt forget that not everyone who is called a "christian" is truly one unless they live by the cross. (And yes its a shame that apparently there many that are not living by the cross here...and Im NOT judging.)

This is just a reminder Im saying. I dont wanna start another topic with my reply here, so if you reply back with that intention I wont reply again. :)
 

el

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]Its true this is a Christian Chat, but we shouldnt forget that not everyone who is called a "christian" is truly one unless they live by the cross. (And yes its a shame that apparently there many that are not living by the cross here...and Im NOT judging.)

This is just a reminder Im saying. I dont wanna start another topic with my reply here, so if you GUYS reply back with that intention I wont reply again. :)

(P.s. Since the editing time for this post is up, I had to post it again cause I had to add that "guys" part referring to all of you friends and not just to Rodogg) God bless! :)
 
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cari6

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The only complain I have about no sex before marriage is that I do think sex is important for a married couple. What if you find out only after you are married that you are not compatible in that area? This leaves me with the question: when then is it a good idea to have se once engaged maybe?
 
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gwayne

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The bible speaks clear on this issue,any sex outside marriage is sin.I sayno.
 
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BlueAngel

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Gosh... and my parents grounded me for months when I kissed a guy....
No, I don't believe in giving my virginity to a man I'm not married to...
Mostly because that's just wrong and God says NO. But also because I think it would be absolutly AMAZING and WONDERFUL to be able to tell my husband that I'd saved myself just for him.
I'd also like to know that the man I marry respects me enough to love me for WHO I am, not WHAT I am. And, that he respects my standards, and I'd like him to know that I respect his.
 
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Yes, in the ideal world people meet there sweet heart in high school. They fall in love. Go to the prom together. Get married. And on there honeymoon they have sex, or rather make love. And they live happily ever after.

Like come on!!!!!! Get real. That really happens???

That didn't even come close to happening to me. Not even close. But I guess it doesn't really matter anymore. Anyway, it's unfortunate but I don't think that happens very often at all. I think most people end up getting used, abused, heartbroken, so they settle for whatever they can get and usually start having sex within a few weeks of knowing the other person. Some marry and many of those get divorced. Those that don't are usually miserable for some reason or other. I mean the whole idea of love and or marriage just seems so foreign to me. I have no clue. All I've seen and experienced is lots of pain.
 
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BlueAngel

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Yes, in the ideal world people meet there sweet heart in high school. They fall in love. Go to the prom together. Get married. And on there honeymoon they have sex, or rather make love. And they live happily ever after.

Like come on!!!!!! Get real. That really happens???

That didn't even come close to happening to me. Not even close. But I guess it doesn't really matter anymore. Anyway, it's unfortunate but I don't think that happens very often at all. I think most people end up getting used, abused, heartbroken, so they settle for whatever they can get and usually start having sex within a few weeks of knowing the other person. Some marry and many of those get divorced. Those that don't are usually miserable for some reason or other. I mean the whole idea of love and or marriage just seems so foreign to me. I have no clue. All I've seen and experienced is lots of pain.
Wow... I'm sorry. :,(
Also sorry to say, that's actually very true. But there are people out there that believe in the law of chastity... People like the one's that said "no". I'm proud of those that did say no. I'm proud of those who have repented and tried to change.
Change isn't easy. I know from experience. :)
 
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I say No because sex was created only for married people that is husband and wife.
 
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GodsavemeifyoureallyExist

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Nope anything but that i made a promise to my mom no sex before marriage and shes trusting me not to fail where she did so i have to carry it out i don't

break promises i take them very seriously i use other ways for sexual satisfaction me and my bf but nothing forbidden


 
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BlueAngel

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LOL!!!! That picture is awesome!
Reminded me of my one-year-old brother when he does that... :)
 
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