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GaryA

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missy2014 said:
Guys are visual be very careful ladies what you say and do with body I personally try my best not to mention myself showering in the past i might have thgt it was funny that i mention in a story to a guy how i found my nephews optimus prime toy in the shower and think nothing of it but that can cause my christian brother to stumble he not only thinks of your naked body in the shower but he replays it in his mind he gets trapped. I wasnt aware of such things in my ignorance untill christian men spoke up about the battle in the mind . Its not old fashion its wisdom .
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"I did my very dead-level best - with all sincerity - to try to explain the 'mechanism' behind this 'visual' phenomenon in this thread -- only to have some people severely misinterpret my intent for the thread - and get upset - and burn-me-at-the-stake over it -- and, because of their actions - the thread ended up locked..." :rolleyes:

( "So much for a mature discussion about..." :p )

Be careful about posting regarding this subject --- there are many people on CC who cannot handle a mature and objective discussion of it. ;)

They will "trash" any thread where it is mentioned... :eek:

As for me -- I have made a promise to the entire membership of this site that I will no longer make any attempts to explain anything from "a man's point-of-view"... And, as much as I am able, I intend to keep that promise.

( "There are just too many people on CC who cannot handle 'deep' discussion..." :( )
 
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GaryA

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Sugarplum said:
Do you see someone who speaks in haste? There is more hope for a fool than for them. (Proverbs 29:20)
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I think this has an application for posting in a forum... ;)

:)
 
Utah

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jsr1221 said:
Communication. Communication. Communication. It's all about the ability to fully communicate with one another. If you can't do that, then you have no business being in a relationship.
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WHAT!!! You mean we're supposed to talk!!!! Good gravy! :mad:
 
melita916

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What if there was no bacon on the first date?
 
shineyourlight

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Don't do anything Michael Scott would do and you'll be all set.

 
jsr1221

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shineyourlight said:
Question. Did he get that girl he was on a date with?

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As a matter of fact yes. Yes he did. Holly was as quirky as he was.

Lesson learn. Men, find a woman as quirky as you. And women, vice versa, if not more quirky.
 
Utah

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blondieindahouse said:

Huh? God calls us to not be unequally yoked. Dating 101 for a Christ follower right?

Why would a saint go on a date with someone they are not sure is their sibling in Christ?
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I'm not usually left speechless but your post almost made that happen. The whole point of dating is getting to know someone. I've had plenty of dates where I did not initially know the faith of the woman. When it is revealed that they are not Christian and have no interest in knowing Him, then there's no second date. Gimme a break.
 
shineyourlight

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jsr1221 said:
As a matter of fact yes. Yes he did. Holly was as quirky as he was.

Lesson learn. Men, find a woman as quirky as you. And women, vice versa, if not more quirky.
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As a matter of fact, no he didn't. Not that date.

But, sure. lol
 
garet82

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Talk little (lol for talkactive one )☺
Be good listener n give encouragement
Dont ask too much but give more to your love one
Accept him as the way he is (even his joke sometime not funny) ☺
 
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GaryA

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blondieindahouse said:
What?!!! Dont hate! I was just trying to be funny :)
hahahahahahahaha
who me?
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9 minutes...

That is pretty good... :cool:

There are some who have you beat, however... :eek:

I have seen them post their 'reactionary' thoughts in three minutes while suggesting that they have deeply considered all that was said in [ the post they reacted to ] ( and being several paragraphs in length, having taken me over an hour to write ;) ). :rolleyes:

( BTW - "who me?" - "not you" ) :p

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