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"You know, these male / female threads inevitably always come in pairs..."
I did not want to derail the 'mate' thread to this one, 'From woman to men'.
So...
Whether serious or humorous -- men - give your best advice to women...
~ THE absolute best thing you can do to destroy your relationship with a man is "play games" / "toy" with him.
Sincere honesty and straight-forwardness is the best way to deal with a man.
~ If a woman asks the question:
"Does this make me look fat?"
Then - assuming that she is a sincere, honest, and loving woman - she really and truly wants an honest answer.
And, she should get one.
And then, she should be able to "handle" the answer -- knowing that her man loves her - and would not so much as want to hurt her feelings - but is giving her the honest answer that she has requested.
Otherwise -- she is not a sincere, honest, and loving woman.
It is as simple as that.
It is entirely ridiculous for a person to "push aside and forget" the total depth and extent of love and caring in a relationship over the answer to such a silly and needless question as this.
Men -- if a woman asks you this question - and she is not actually wanting a sincere and honest answer -- she is "playing games" with you - or herself - or both...
"O.K. -- quick - someone post something funny..."
I did not want to derail the 'mate' thread to this one, 'From woman to men'.
So...
Whether serious or humorous -- men - give your best advice to women...
~ THE absolute best thing you can do to destroy your relationship with a man is "play games" / "toy" with him.
Sincere honesty and straight-forwardness is the best way to deal with a man.
~ If a woman asks the question:
"Does this make me look fat?"
Then - assuming that she is a sincere, honest, and loving woman - she really and truly wants an honest answer.
And, she should get one.
And then, she should be able to "handle" the answer -- knowing that her man loves her - and would not so much as want to hurt her feelings - but is giving her the honest answer that she has requested.
Otherwise -- she is not a sincere, honest, and loving woman.
It is as simple as that.
It is entirely ridiculous for a person to "push aside and forget" the total depth and extent of love and caring in a relationship over the answer to such a silly and needless question as this.
Men -- if a woman asks you this question - and she is not actually wanting a sincere and honest answer -- she is "playing games" with you - or herself - or both...
"O.K. -- quick - someone post something funny..."