Men-
Power tools/cars/electronics fascination...?! Why?
Why are your hats so sacred?
Some women think it's cute to take something that belongs to their boyfriend...hoodie, t-shirt, etc...but more often than not, I've heard guys say this really annoys them. So, is it annoying, or cute?
What is it that allows men to get sooooo focused on games (football games, video games, whatever...)? It's like some of y'all have a switch in your brains that shuts everything else off for the duration of said game.
Alright, I'm going to answer your questions as 'nicely' as possible.
1) Power tools/cars/electronics - these are gadgets that 'work'. It is a psychological thing. A man is comfortable working with gadgets because their 'behaviour' is defined.
If I give a +5V to an LED, I know that it will burn. If I connect all the points of an IC 741, I will get an output on pin 6. If I apply a +12V on a 12V-relay, it will switch. The same works with power tools. I know I can use a power-drill to drill a hole in the wall. All the gadgets we work with have well-defined behaviour patterns.
Consider this. Would an LED slap me or kick my shin if I give it a +5V supply? If it did, then I would take it to the shop and get a replacement guarantee (not for an LED, but you get what I mean). But complimenting my gf on her looks
really depends on her mood (and on how well I prayed that day). If she is in a pleasant mood she may blush and smile. If she is in one of those I-better-not-see-you-around moods, she may retort "Why? Was I never beautiful until today?"
Now I can't take her to the shop and get a replacement guarantee, can I?
2) I have two hats - one for formal and another for casual wear. It's a pity I can't use them in the place I live though.
Hats are sacred because, as Charcoal said earlier, they complete our plumage (so to speak...). The same holds for suits. Don't ever ask us for a hug when we are suited up. Unless you're getting married, in which case an exception can be made ...
And I have to mention that we
are particular about our shoes. Don't step on it and then give us those 'puppy dog eyes'. Nothing puts me off more than a lady who steps on my shoes. I put a lot of effort into polishing and maintaining them, so I would appreciate it if you would not step on them.
3) We like our gfs/wives wearing our stuff because we like seeing them in it. But taking something that belongs to us is
NOT cute. Ask, and if we permit, you may borrow it for a while. But that means you have to return it. A man is very particular about his stuff. It may lie unused in a corner, gathering dust and dirt but that doesn't mean you can simply take it.
I liked my gf (my ex, now) when she wore a few of my shirts for our dates. But I made sure I collected it back.
4) A man needs his 'personal space'. Time-out with his buddies, an hour spent in the loo, a half an hour spent singing in the shower, a long walk, a long drive .. we need those. It is vital for our survival. That's our source of strength to carry on with life. That's where we solve our problems, plan our next move or rejuvenate ourselves. Never deprive a man of his 'personal space'.
And another thing.. If a guy takes you along on a long drive and speaks nothing, don't ask him 'What are you thinking?' First of all, it is not polite to disturb him during his 'personal time'. Secondly, He may not even be thinking anything.
why do guys hate it when we touch their hair?
I don't because I never comb my hair. Guys who keep their hair short and ruffled would not hate it. Just don't pull our hair. Or complain that it is curly. Or that it is straight. Or this. Or that.
Men- do you ever experience 'butterflies in your stomach' or whatever when you see a lady that you're crushing?
I have never crushed a lady before. I don't know where to dispose her after crushing..
But I have crushed ON a lady before. "Butterflies in my stomach"? Nope. I know the secret words to approach a lady.
(P.S. To be honest, I think that's a creepy thing to say to a lady. She may appreciate it if she has a sense of humour. Or else you better be ready to explain yourself to the cops.)