1 Peter 5:7 - Cast all your cares on Him, for He cares for you.
This is wonderful verse, instruction, God tells us that we are not to worry about things, to not have angst, or, anxiety, because He ANXIETIES for us.
That 'cap' word might seem a bit odd, but......
Think about it. It is an axiomatic relationship, same word, 'cares,' but with noun meaning the first usage and verb usage the 2nd. To me, this speaks of God's utter ability to usurp ALL our anxiety, our cares (anxieties, worries) are taken care of by Him, completely. He BURDENS all our anxieties.
We CAN give our marriage scares to Him and He 'cares' them right OUT of our thinking.
It is not good to have anxiety either, it causes 'divide' of ourselves, and, that can affect our Christian life walk. Our reasoning for scared of getting married is based on fears and that means we are not letting God be our ever-present help in times of our trouble, as Psalms 46:1 states.
'Trouble' can mean an actual physical situation but it also can be mental anguish that troubles us.
So, don't fear this marriage thinking, He does not want you too, for He knows it creates a divide between you and Him and, worse than that, or, compoundingly as bad, the Devil can then enter into our worrisome thoughts, causing our Christian life to suffer, greatly, as we (not God) decide we don't want to be intimate, we are afraid of being a pawn, we are afraid of their divorcing us, we think our beliefs will change, we think we will lose the Christlikeness of our singleness, we will marry for wrong reasons.
Cas t ALL ( not 'some') your cares upon Him, for He cares for you. This verse is speaking of a dynamic reciprocating relationship .
My Christ peeps, THESE scared of marriage thoughts rueing in your, and, my, mind are NOT placed by God. And, that means only the other power(Devil), who is infinitely weaker than His (God) power , is placing those defeating thoughts in your mind. Don't give the Devil an inroads to your thoughts, humbly turn over EVERY CARE YOU WANT TO CONTROL, for God will control your cares, there will be no reason for us to be scared
And, consequently, this turning of your cares shows a humbleness to God. God says in scripture that IF we humble ourselves in His sight we will be lifted up. So, not only by humbly understanding He will take care of ALL our cares, He will lift us up, which means, to establish us with blessings and recognition and strength, as I understand that verse.
God cares, and, the Devil scares. Choose The One who cares.