A reminder for the bdf

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Depleted

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Besides kaylagrl along with depleted starts a lot of calamity then Utah comes in to seal the deal. Blue_ladybug is innocent as we know in scripture " all people who like orange tabbys are innocent" Bob 2:7.
So we have quite a dilemma here saints.
I think the hyper hatred threads need to be banned.
As it says in the book of Bill 54:71 those who stroke the keyboard in anger will be deleated. Imo...
​Warning: I really do think you'd make a good mod.
 
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Depleted

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I agree that it should not be so amongst brethren. Jesus said that there would be tares right in with the wheat.

We will laugh together as brethren should...so my view is we should just laugh off the insults and malice as it does no good to revile back. It seems to come natural to "believers" too just as the world. When I first came on CC - was totally shocked at how some people treated others that held a different view then they did. The amount of malice and deceit was appalling - and these are supposedly some that are pastors too.

The funny thing was it was those that said we are to live righteously and godly that were the worse offenders and constantly accused others of loving sin. Go figure...

Me...I'm going to laugh in the joy of the Lord and just not interact with those that continue to insult and name-call others.

Psalm 2:4 (NASB)
[SUP]4 [/SUP] He who sits in the heavens laughs, The Lord scoffs at them.
Poking and then laughing when the pokee pokes back really isn't funny either. The Lord gets who the scoffers are just fine. It's up to us to stop being one. To turn this around and think everyone is scoffing at YOU is what the Lord is scoffing about? Not. Even!

I love Utah's challenge. He handed it to Stephen. I hand it to you.
As a proprietor of angst and disrespect yourself, do you dare have the wherewithal to modify your own negative behavior and attempt to become more Christ-like?
 

Desertsrose

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It all boils down to love, doesn't it.

How I'm guilty of not always making love the goal of my life in my treatment of others.


And they're the two greatest commandments.

The command that says all men will know your my disciples because of the
love you have for one another.

What is love and what isn't love:

it's patient
and kind
but not jealous
it doesn't brag
and it's not arrogant
it doesn't act unbecomingly
nor does it seek its own
it isn't provoked
and doesn't keep a record of wrongs
also it also doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness
but instead it rejoices in truth

Love bears all things
Hopes all things
Endures all things

..............His love never fails..............
 

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I wish you would, instead of the rest of what you do.
LOL..that's one of the things I love about you Lynn - you are an "equal opportunity insulter" - you even do it to yourself. I do enjoy your humor. We are going to have a wonderful time together for all eternity! I want to live close by you. God bless you!
 
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Amazing-Grace

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It all boils down to love, doesn't it.

How I'm guilty of not always making love the goal of my life in my treatment of others.


And they're the two greatest commandments.

The command that says all men will know your my disciples because of the
love you have for one another.

What is love and what isn't love:

it's patient
and kind
but not jealous
it doesn't brag
and it's not arrogant
it doesn't act unbecomingly
nor does it seek its own
it isn't provoked
and doesn't keep a record of wrongs
also it also doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness
but instead it rejoices in truth

Love bears all things
Hopes all things
Endures all things

..............His love never fails..............
If I could rep you again, for this I would.
 
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pottersclay

Guest
You do realize that leaves room for only about 5 people on this whole site, AND neither of us are in that group, right? lol
Exactly sis and that's why I thank God every day for not making me like them.
 
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pottersclay

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In all seriousness I think depleted should Change her name to rekindled.
I thank god for the work he's done in the passed year for her and hubby...don't know why but I'm love this saint to death.
May the Lord keep shining on all the saints here....even lauren tm.

All in favor .......depleted to rekindled ......say I.







Ever notice when God told depleted she was drop dead gorgeous how it affected her?
Rumor has it she is trying out for sport illustrated. I think she can win but will it be a good thing? Lord knows.
 

blue_ladybug

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*Wonders if I should try out for Sports Illustrated*

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Ariel82

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In all seriousness I think depleted should Change her name to rekindled.
I thank god for the work he's done in the passed year for her and hubby...don't know why but I'm love this saint to death.
May the Lord keep shining on all the saints here....even lauren tm.

All in favor .......depleted to rekindled ......say I.







Ever notice when God told depleted she was drop dead gorgeous how it affected her?
Rumor has it she is trying out for sport illustrated. I think she can win but will it be a good thing? Lord knows.
Phoenix..,,fiery and rising from the ashes,,,
 

PennEd

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I've been on this site nearly 6 years. It has been like this the entire time. Many people make suggestions on how to deal with it. But admins give the same answer over and over, 'we're leaving it like this'. Really to take any serious action to change this would cause a sizeable drop in the sites popularity and traffic. Or, if the BDF was shut down, many would just spread to the rest of the site and take their vitriol their. The past year some of them have already been branching out and the overall vibe of the site has tanked as a result. To keep the site active, and minimize ruining the rest of the site, the BDF is a necessary evil.
I agree with most of this post.

It must be my classic liberalism (not today's liberalism), but I'm a HUGE free speech guy. Yes I understand this is basically a private site and although people have a right to speak and NOT be heard, I think this site does a fantastic job to allow the free flow of thoughts and opinions. We have become so soft, and such babies, that we can't tolerate someone else's opinions? IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT SOMEONE IS SAYING, OR THEIR REPEATED NASTINESS, THEN THE SITE GIVES YOU AN IGNORE FEATURE!!!!

Aside from that, I would like those asking for more bans and even dissolution of the BDF to please describe the gunmen forcing them to not only view, but respond to a post or poster.

Don't you see the value, in even nasty posts? This place can be used as testing and proving grounds for real life situations. It can hone our skills in reacting with love to the World. If we can't react with love to supposed brothers and sisters in Christ with love and respect, how on earth are we going to show the world that we have been changed and that they TOO can be changed through Jesus Christ.

I look at the work the Holy Spirit has done to some here, myself included, who have seen something not right with their Christian walk, and used CC to soften.

If I may be so bold to use Depleted as an example. Here is a woman who obviously has a beautiful, caring, yet down to earth heart, that recognized that maybe her brusqueness could be counter productive to the mission of love that Christ has called us to, and has actively searched to change.

The same for myself. I have said many possible "bannable" posts through pride. But there were patient, loving, MATURE, Christians that gave time for the Lord to work more in my heart. And all this spills into other parts of our lives.Now giving others patience and love, instead of judgement in pride.

So my take is to let the BDF be. The trolls will be exposed. The legalists will be exposed. The body will learn how to relate to different people in different circumstances, and we will ALL be better for it. And when you need to take a break from it, just do it.

May peace, love and Grace fill all your hearts and minds. In Jesus sweet Name!
 
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Depleted

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In all seriousness I think depleted should Change her name to rekindled.
I thank god for the work he's done in the passed year for her and hubby...don't know why but I'm love this saint to death.
May the Lord keep shining on all the saints here....even lauren tm.

All in favor .......depleted to rekindled ......say I.







Ever notice when God told depleted she was drop dead gorgeous how it affected her?
Rumor has it she is trying out for sport illustrated. I think she can win but will it be a good thing? Lord knows.
All my comebacks would discredit that God thinks I'm drop-dead gorgeous. lol
 
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Depleted

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I agree with most of this post.

It must be my classic liberalism (not today's liberalism), but I'm a HUGE free speech guy. Yes I understand this is basically a private site and although people have a right to speak and NOT be heard, I think this site does a fantastic job to allow the free flow of thoughts and opinions. We have become so soft, and such babies, that we can't tolerate someone else's opinions? IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT SOMEONE IS SAYING, OR THEIR REPEATED NASTINESS, THEN THE SITE GIVES YOU AN IGNORE FEATURE!!!!

Aside from that, I would like those asking for more bans and even dissolution of the BDF to please describe the gunmen forcing them to not only view, but respond to a post or poster.

Don't you see the value, in even nasty posts? This place can be used as testing and proving grounds for real life situations. It can hone our skills in reacting with love to the World. If we can't react with love to supposed brothers and sisters in Christ with love and respect, how on earth are we going to show the world that we have been changed and that they TOO can be changed through Jesus Christ.

I look at the work the Holy Spirit has done to some here, myself included, who have seen something not right with their Christian walk, and used CC to soften.

If I may be so bold to use Depleted as an example. Here is a woman who obviously has a beautiful, caring, yet down to earth heart, that recognized that maybe her brusqueness could be counter productive to the mission of love that Christ has called us to, and has actively searched to change.

The same for myself. I have said many possible "bannable" posts through pride. But there were patient, loving, MATURE, Christians that gave time for the Lord to work more in my heart. And all this spills into other parts of our lives.Now giving others patience and love, instead of judgement in pride.

So my take is to let the BDF be. The trolls will be exposed. The legalists will be exposed. The body will learn how to relate to different people in different circumstances, and we will ALL be better for it. And when you need to take a break from it, just do it.

May peace, love and Grace fill all your hearts and minds. In Jesus sweet Name!
Ah nuts. I got the spreadability problem again. would someone rep this man for me?