It sickens my stomach to imagine a young person coming onto this site reading your violent post. To advocate rape on this Christian site is absolutely dreadful! What in the world possessed you to post that?!?
Usually it takes a number of reasons to destroy a marriage, starting right from the selection process. If one marriage failed, chances are future marriages will follow similar patters. As Christians our reason for being isn’t to cleave to other flawed people. It is to cleave to Christ. Trying to please another person or have them please you, is a distraction from serving the Lord.