I was just standing in my room asking God to give me His words so I don't rely on mine. And I was reminded of that man whom Jesus healed of blindness. The religious leaders in the temple questioned him about Jesus. But all the man could verify was, "I know this: I was blind, and now I can see!"
So I'm looking back at my own life and realize that once I was ruled by fear & anger, once I was a daily pot smoker, once I was an alcoholic, once I was a whole lot of things that were ungodly. Once I was a sinner. But now I'm not.
I don't know the day I ceased to be those things, don't even know how God changed me. And I say to him all the time, "You're so awesome, Father! How'd you do that? How'd you get me to trust and believe you? How'd you make your desires mine? How'd you make me see? You amaze me, God!"
Mind you, I know before this day is over my mind may think something motivated by the flesh because the carnal mind doesn't change. And you can call that sinful thought. Maybe I'll eat too much ice cream (gluttony) or get worrisome about something (doubt & unbelief) or turn my nose up to someone (pride) or judge others (self-righteousness) or whatever. That's the flesh for ya!
But if I do, I have an advocate. God will change me. He will get my attention, his Holy Spirit will shed light in my heart, and the Lord will change my mind because his truth sets a man free. He will make me see and make me more into his image. HE will do it.
How do I know? Because he's already done it over & over, and I know it wasn't my doing. I have no wisdom of myself. I am ruled by God. We all are.
All I know is once I was a woman in the flesh, and now I am a spiritual being. I didn't do it. God did.