Are We Really Predestined?

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valiant

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How sad that someone who calls himself JesusChristisLord is the epitome of Satanic thought. He vilifies the very One Whose Name he bears. He is so evil in his words that I for one will no longer reply to him. I have committed him to Satan as a blasphemer.
 
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JesusistheChrist

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This isn't intended as criticism... rather CLARIFICATION.

It is more accurate to say "GOD is HOLY and JUST--- and therefore HE is LOVE"... when I read your <above> statement MPW I personally get the impression that "LOVE" comes before HOLY and JUST and that is not so... the character and nature of God is HOLY and JUST and <may I add merciful and gracious>... which is how he conveys HIS love.

God also HATES, he gets angry, you can grieve and offend him.... giving emphasis to "LOVE" when humanity as a whole has an entirely warped/fallen comprehension of love... being whatever feels good or I perceive as good to ME... is an error.

The beginning of wisdom is to fear God... hmmm, that is a requisite instruction... give REVERENCE to HOLY GOD and then wisdom will be opened for you...

I can't make decisions for others'... but I surely do want wisdom... God's kind of wisdom... isn't it GOOD and GRACIOUS of him to tell us how to get it!:D
I once heard a preacher say something so simple, yet so profound, and I believe that it ties in perfectly with what you just said. He said:

"The Bible says that God is love. The Bible does not say that love is God."

His point was that we need to read the entire Bible to have the entire character of God revealed unto us and then and only then can we properly understand what love truly is because God is love. The major error which many make, of course, was addressed when he said that the Bible does not say that love is God. IOW, we're never to approach the Bible with a preconceived notion of what love is or else we run the risk of fashioning a "god" to meet the definition of love which we already bring to the table.

Anyhow, none of that was meant for MPW because I have no idea whether or not she agrees with what you just said. I'm simply making a general statement based upon what you said about God and love.
 
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JesusistheChrist

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How sad that someone who calls himself JesusChristisLord is the epitome of Satanic thought. He vilifies the very One Whose Name he bears. He is so evil in his words that I for one will no longer reply to him. I have committed him to Satan as a blasphemer.
You couldn't even get my username right. Why am I not surprised?
 

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I think our imagination of God is telling on ourselves. Somebody will say that God is strict and is just waiting on an opportunity to smack you down if you dont do as been told, while others will say he is pure love and nothin more/less. Now, I dont know what God is like, and I dont think nobody else can know that either, despite what they are claiming in the forums here.
Pray that you may know God personally, intimately, unmistakably. It is promised in Scripture that those who seek diligently shall find, and that if you pray according to the will of God, your prayers will be answered, that God reveals Himself to those He loves, those He loves being those who do as He commands, to love Him and your neighbor as yourself. Then when you experience Him, you can say you know Him; it is not just head knowledge, or something you read in a book, but something you know in your heart of hearts, something that is True and that you will defend with your life because the purity of the love contained in that knowledge surpasses anything you have ever known or will ever know.
 
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BarlyGurl

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How sad that someone who calls himself JesusChristisLord is the epitome of Satanic thought. He vilifies the very One Whose Name he bears. He is so evil in his words that I for one will no longer reply to him. I have committed him to Satan as a blasphemer.
"In the name of JESUS... it is written, A CURSE WITHOUT CAUSE SHALL NOT ALIGHT"
 
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JesusistheChrist

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"In the name of JESUS... it is written, A CURSE WITHOUT CAUSE SHALL NOT ALIGHT"
Don't sweat it. The guy is only showing just how deceived he actually is. He's the one in league with Satan and such is evidenced by the many erroneous statements that he made on this thread. It's scary how he regularly projects his own condition unto others, but what can one do to stop him? He's already accused all of the Old Testament saints and prophets of not even knowing about Christ, so why should it surprise anybody here to see him go after me in the same manner? The guy is like a runaway train headed for derailment if not destruction. Hopefully, somewhere down the line, he'll come to his senses and repent before it is too late. At my end, I'll certainly be praying for him even as I already have been. As far as him turning me over to Satan is concerned, I literally laughed.
 
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BarlyGurl

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Don't sweat it. The guy is only showing just how deceived he actually is. He's the one in league with Satan and such is evidenced by the many erroneous statements that he made on this thread. It's scary how he regularly projects his own condition unto others, but what can one do to stop him? He's already accused all of the Old Testament saints and prophets of not even knowing about Christ, so why should it surprise anybody here to see him go after me in the same manner? The guy is like a runaway train headed for derailment if not destruction. Hopefully, somewhere down the line, he'll come to his senses and repent before it is too late. At my end, I'll certainly be praying for him even as I already have been. As far as him turning me over to Satan is concerned, I literally laughed.
No sweating here...<smile>... just practicing faith... seemed appropriate and surely SOMEONE will benefit from it:D
 
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MadParrotWoman

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It's time this thread was closed down - too many people trying to be "holier than thou" trying place themselves ahead of everyone else with their "knowledge".
 
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BarlyGurl

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It's time this thread was closed down - too many people trying to be "holier than thou" trying place themselves ahead of everyone else with their "knowledge".
What does that mean? In truth... some people ARE ahead of others in their knowledge, that does not mean they are "holier than thou"... just means they have more knowledge.

IF somebody decides to take an "oppositional" stance toward others who attempt to "open" the scriptures for people who lack understanding... then there is a biblical word for that condition... and it isn't a very nice one.:(
 
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It's time this thread was closed down - too many people trying to be "holier than thou" trying place themselves ahead of everyone else with their "knowledge".
Well, I'd imagine that you view me as one of those "people", but I came here solely to attempt to address your OP and consequently to defend the integrity of both God and His Word. My simple advice to you, which you're certainly not obligated to take, would be the following:

Forget about WHO said what and just concentrate instead on what was actually said. IOW, there have been arguments given here from both sides, arguments which simply cannot both be correct in that they're in great opposition to one another, so look at the arguments themselves and see if you can discern by the Spirit of God where the truth actually lies. If none of the aforementioned people whom you deem to be holier than thou or puffed up with knowledge had ever been born, then God's Word would still be here and we'd still each be in need of rightly dividing it. Some of the things which have been presented here are so patently false in that they fly directly in the face of things which have been plainly revealed and stated in scripture that I hope that you're at least taking personal note of the same. I say that "I hope" because your comments seem to be more related to the people involved here than to what any of us have actually said. Basically, I'm just suggesting that you don't throw the proverbial baby out with the bathwater. IOW, I get that you don't like the infighting and what you've described as "testosterone flying around" (or something to that effect) and I get that the BDF gets heated at times, but this doesn't mean that we still cannot learn anything in the midst of such an environment. I'd hate to even think that everything that transpired on this thread over the last few days was in vain or just a giant waste of time and effort, but I suppose that some might view it that way. I certainly don't.
 
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Well, I'd imagine that you view me as one of those "people", but I came here solely to attempt to address your OP and consequently to defend the integrity of both God and His Word. My simple advice to you, which you're certainly not obligated to take, would be the following:

Forget about WHO said what and just concentrate instead on what was actually said. IOW, there have been arguments given here from both sides, arguments which simply cannot both be correct in that they're in great opposition to one another, so look at the arguments themselves and see if you can discern by the Spirit of God where the truth actually lies. If none of the aforementioned people whom you deem to be holier than thou or puffed up with knowledge had ever been born, then God's Word would still be here and we'd still each be in need of rightly dividing it. Some of the things which have been presented here are so patently false in that they fly directly in the face of things which have been plainly revealed and stated in scripture that I hope that you're at least taking personal note of the same. I say that "I hope" because your comments seem to be more related to the people involved here than to what any of us have actually said. Basically, I'm just suggesting that you don't throw the proverbial baby out with the bathwater. IOW, I get that you don't like the infighting and what you've described as "testosterone flying around" (or something to that effect) and I get that the BDF gets heated at times, but this doesn't mean that we still cannot learn anything in the midst of such an environment. I'd hate to even think that everything that transpired on this thread over the last few days was in vain or just a giant waste of time and effort, but I suppose that some might view it that way. I certainly don't.
I'm trying not to be personal - that comment was not aimed at any particular person, it's just the way the thread has become.

What does "IOW" mean???

In my own opinion the best response and the one I'm inclined to believe is Angela's response on page 4. Read it and tell me your thoughts? Some of the best comments on my original question were on the first couple of pages but now the whole thing has deteriorated into a "I have to be right" frenzy - even my post on God's attributes which I apparently stated in the wrong order! Yes there does appear to be testosterone flying about in the main but women are jumping on-board too now. You are correct, prayer is needed for discernment.
 
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JesusistheChrist

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I'm trying not to be personal - that comment was not aimed at any particular person, it's just the way the thread has become.

What does "IOW" mean???

In my own opinion the best response and the one I'm inclined to believe is Angela's response on page 4. Read it and tell me your thoughts? Some of the best comments on my original question were on the first couple of pages but now the whole thing has deteriorated into a "I have to be right" frenzy - even my post on God's attributes which I apparently stated in the wrong order! Yes there does appear to be testosterone flying about in the main but women are jumping on-board too now. You are correct, prayer is needed for discernment.
I'm sorry. "IOW" is an abbreviation for "in other words". I'll look at Angela's post and get back to you.
 
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I'm trying not to be personal - that comment was not aimed at any particular person, it's just the way the thread has become.

What does "IOW" mean???

In my own opinion the best response and the one I'm inclined to believe is Angela's response on page 4. Read it and tell me your thoughts? Some of the best comments on my original question were on the first couple of pages but now the whole thing has deteriorated into a "I have to be right" frenzy - even my post on God's attributes which I apparently stated in the wrong order! Yes there does appear to be testosterone flying about in the main but women are jumping on-board too now. You are correct, prayer is needed for discernment.
IOW= shorthand for "in other words"

I STILL think you are missing that... "I HAVE TO BE RIGHT" is not the stance being taken. FOR EXAMPLE, you mention my comment of your comment in the above comment... MPW, I SPECIFICALLY said "this is not intended as criticism but for clarification". But apparently you did not read it that way... rather the opposite. WHEN a person says... "I gather the meaning for your post to be this..<whatever>, but I think the scripture illustrates this <whatever> then there is a issue of WHAT the scripture says vs what a comment implied.

INSTEAD of being defensive... you could think about how my comment "adjusts" the implications I personally perceived in reading YOUR comment. WE <as in you and I> are not the only people here or who will ever be influenced by what has been posted and I do TRY to always keep that in consideration when I make comments <like right now>... so IOW... I was not criticizing you... I was clarifying what I understood from your post... and adjusting it to more closely align with scripture.

Some people will appreciate that "adjustment" for their own understanding... it will be an AH_HA for them.
 
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MPW, I'm going to address Angela's post that you referred to in parts:

First, there is no where in the Bible that it says people are predestined to hell. At Seminary we had some Reformed students, (Baptist and real Reformed!) I challenged them one day to show me in the Bible where it said God predestines some to hell. They couldn't come up with a single verse! But they still believed because of the Calvinist logic that if some are predestined to be saved, then the rest must be predestined to hell. I would challenge anyone to find a verse that says God predestines people to hell.

So that does leave the problem of what is God's choice for those who go to hell?

"This is good, and it is pleasing in the sight of God our Savior,4 who desires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth." 1 Tim. 2:3-4

So God's heart is that everyone will be saved. And certainly, we are to preach the gospel to everyone, because we have no idea who will be saved. And sometimes our words are breaking up fallow ground, planting seeds, or watering or maybe part of the harvest, according to the working of the Holy Spirit.
This part I totally agree with. The only part that I'd be cautious about though is in attributing these beliefs totally to Calvin or to Calvinism. IOW, although Calvin has certainly greatly influenced people throughout the ages along certain lines, there were some "early church fathers" (ECF's) who believed somewhat in his brand of "predestination" as well. Even then, however, there were even "earlier church fathers" who totally rejected any such thoughts of that type of "predestination". In either case, "early church fathers" or not, we still ultimately need to prove everything according to scripture because there were apostates even back in those days as well.

But God DOES know who will be saved.
I agree, but this only speaks to God's "foreknowledge" and does not in any way even suggest that God arbitrarily hand-picked certain people unto eternal life and others unto eternal damnation. There is a world of difference between "foreknowledge" and "predestination". Again, I go back to my example of Noah's Ark:

Noah's Ark was "predestined" to rise above the flood waters and to eventually come to rest upon the mountains of Ararat. God, in His "foreknowledge", knew who would get aboard the ark, but He still strove with everybody by His Spirit for 120 years and He still ordained Noah to be a preacher of righteousness. IOW, God genuinely gave everybody an opportunity to hear and to get aboard the ark and whoever boarded the ark was "predestined" to go where the ark went, but this is not the type of "predestination" that some here are preaching. No, instead, they're insisting that multitudes will have never even had the chance to come aboard the ark or to come to Christ by analogy in that God allegedly "predestined" them to hell. That is a heresy of the worst kind.

He does know who is predestined.
If you've been reading my responses here, then you ought not be surprised by what I am about to say. Yes, God does know Who is "predestined" and in the same manner in which Noah's Ark was "predestined" to rise above the flood waters and to eventually rest upon the mountains of Ararat, JESUS CHRIST was "predestined" to rise from the dead and to be seated at the right hand of the Father in heaven. In the same manner in which those who boarded Noah's Ark were "predestined" to go where the ark went, Christians or those who are "in Christ" are "predestined" to go where Jesus went. We are, according to scripture, seated in heavenly places in Christ, spiritually speaking, and we will also receive glorified bodies like He has one day.

God is above and beyond time, as someone already said! That means he KNOWS who will be saved. And I do believe that God is the one who reveals himself to us, and saves us. We are predestined, according to the Bible!
I agree, but what does this mean? He doesn't just "save us" apart from our wills. He saves us when we submit our wills to His will for our lives and when we are truly found to be "in Christ". Again, once we're truly "in Christ", we're "predestined" to go where He's been "predestined" to go.

And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.29 For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers.30 And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified." Romans 8:28-30

"he predestined us for adoption as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will," Eph. 1:5

"In him we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to the purpose of him who works all things according to the counsel of his will," Eph. 1:11
Please consider what I'm about to say very closely. Look at the Ephesians 1:5 quote which speaks of how we've been "predestined for adoption". I don't know if you're aware of this or not, but the word which is translated as "adoption" in the New Testament doesn't really mean what our modern day English word "adoption" means. This word basically means "to place as an adult son" and it has everything to do with a Greco-Roman custom of Paul's day and Paul actually described it in his epistle to the Galatians:

"Now I say, That the heir, as long as he is a child, differeth nothing from a servant, though he be lord of all; But is under tutors and governors until the time appointed of the father. Even so we, when we were children, were in bondage under the elements of the world: But when the fulness of the time was come, God sent forth his Son, made of a woman, made under the law, To redeem them that were under the law, that we might receive the adoption of sons. And because ye are sons, God hath sent forth the Spirit of his Son into your hearts, crying, Abba, Father. Wherefore thou art no more a servant, but a son; and if a son, then an heir of God through Christ." (Galatians 4:1-7)

If a man had a son in those days and in that culture, although his son would one day be his heir, he was placed under tutors and governors until the day of his "adoption" came or until the day came that he received adult status. Different togas were worn in those days to mark what stage of life a son was at and when he reached the age of "adoption", he donned what is called a "toga virilis" or the "toga of manhood":

Toga Virilis | Definition of toga virilis by Merriam-Webster

: the white toga of manhood assumed by boys of ancient Rome at age 15
How does any of this relate to what we're discussing? Well, Paul's point was that in the same way that a boy in that culture was under tutors or governors until the time of his "adoption" came, so, too, were people under the tutor of the law until the time came that they reached the status of adult sons IN CHRIST and God sent "the spirit of adoption" or "the Spirit of His Son" into their hearts. THIS is exactly the type of "adoption" that we were "predestined" to in Ephesians 1:5. And? Well, Paul himself lamented over the unsaved Jews in the following manner:

"I say the truth in Christ, I lie not, my conscience also bearing me witness in the Holy Ghost, That I have great heaviness and continual sorrow in my heart. For I could wish that myself were accursed from Christ for my brethren, my kinsmen according to the flesh: Who are Israelites; to whom pertaineth the adoption, and the glory, and the covenants, and the giving of the law, and the service of God, and the promises; Whose are the fathers, and of whom as concerning the flesh Christ came, who is over all, God blessed for ever. Amen. Not as though the word of God hath taken none effect. For they are not all Israel, which are of Israel: Neither, because they are the seed of Abraham, are they all children: but, In Isaac shall thy seed be called. That is, They which are the children of the flesh, these are not the children of God: but the children of the promise are counted for the seed." (Romans 9:1-8)

Paul understood that this "adoption" or that this status of adult sons in Christ pertained to all of Israel, yet they are not all Israel who are of Israel. Why? Because God allegedly "predestined" some of them to the "adoption" and others to hell? No! They were missing out on the very "adoption" that they were "predestined" to as well because of their rejection of Christ and because they were not truly a part of Abraham's seed. If they repented, which is what Paul was after, then they would be partakers of the very "adoption" IN CHRIST that God had "predestined" all willful believers to be a part of. I know that I'm giving you somewhat of a brainful....if I need to further elaborate later, then I most certainly will.

Now I have heard preaching (not a pastor of mine!) in a class and the preacher said that these verses, like the OT were actually speaking to US as a group. So the group of us are predestined to salvation.
Again, I believe in "group predestination" in the sense that Christ is the One Who has actually been "predestined" and all those who are found to be in Him (the "group") are therefore "predestined" to the same thing.

Now I don't see that in the text. Yes, we are the community of God. But God calls us as individuals, and then we become adopted into his family.
Again, Biblical "adoption" isn't really the same type of "adoption" that we commonly refer to today in our society. It had everything to do with one receiving the status of an adult son and no longer being under tutors and governors and, by analogy, that speaks of those who are no longer under the law, but have found the status of adult sons IN CHRIST.

But the experience of salvation is God meeting us, and calling us, and justifying us. Anything else undermines the sovereignty of God.
I'm not exactly sure what she means by all of this, but there is no reason whatsoever why God, in His sovereignty, couldn't sovereignly give man the freedom of choice and that is precisely what God has done.

So of course it follows if it is God that calls us, then we cannot lose our salvation
I totally disagree with the doctrine of "once saved, always saved" or OSAS. Again, we just read in Romans chapter 11 how saved Gentiles who had been grafted in could be cut off and how they were supposed to fear lest such a thing came upon them. There are so many other similar examples all throughout the Bible that it literally boggles my mind how people go out of their ways to either ignore them or to somehow seek to explain them away.

And perhaps those who just mentally assent to the gospel, who are not truly saved by God, are the ones that fall away, as the Bible says.

"They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us. But they went out, that it might become plain that they all are not of us." 1 John 2:19
Again, there are many examples where those who were clearly "once saved" were not "always saved", but that's another discussion for another day.

So I am a single predestination person, which ends up acknowledging the calling, election and predestination of believers, without reading what into the text what is not there, and that is predestination to hell.
Again, I believe in "group predestination" in the sense in which I already described it (we're "predestined" IN CHRIST) and I definitely agree that the Bible says nothing about God allegedly "predestinating" people to hell in the manner in which some teach. God puts before us life and death and He tells us to CHOOSE LIFE. Those who CHOOSE DEATH, CHOOSE HELL as well.

I hope that this answers your questions.
 
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I'm trying not to be personal - that comment was not aimed at any particular person, it's just the way the thread has become.

What does "IOW" mean???

In my own opinion the best response and the one I'm inclined to believe is Angela's response on page 4. Read it and tell me your thoughts? Some of the best comments on my original question were on the first couple of pages but now the whole thing has deteriorated into a "I have to be right" frenzy - even my post on God's attributes which I apparently stated in the wrong order! Yes there does appear to be testosterone flying about in the main but women are jumping on-board too now. You are correct, prayer is needed for discernment.
If you're asking what anyone's thoughts are on Angela's post. I'll tell you my honest thought.

I kind of agree with her. I mean I do agree with her completely except for the God only predestines some to heaven part. And even in thinking maybe he does predestine some to hell? I honestly lean toward this, but I'm not fully convinced. I can go off and explain why not, but, does it really matter?

Not really. The predestined some to heaven part does matter, because it's in his word. We either trust it completely, or we don't trust him. Ya know? The rest is just slanting to personal opinion.

(By the way, IOW drives me up a wall. It sounds like "I know what it says, but I don't like it, so I'll rephrase it to fit what I do like." If anyone should be able to get his words down right, it ought to be God, so why reword what he said? And that's from a writer, who knows darn well what I mean to say isn't always what it looks like I said. I really could use people with ESP to understand me. God doesn't. lol)
 
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This portion of your post...

>>>>Again, I believe in "group predestination" in the sense in which I already described it (we're "predestined" IN CHRIST) and I definitely agree that the Bible says nothing about God allegedly "predestinating" people to hell in the manner in which some teach. God puts before us life and death and He tells us to CHOOSE LIFE. Those who CHOOSE DEATH, CHOOSE HELL as well.<<<<

Made me think of the verse that says something about "hell being enlarged"... I will have to look for it... but the jist I get from that is... WHY WOULD GOD HAVE TO ENLARGE HELL if he predestined some for hell... surely he would KNOW how big hell had to be to contain those people... thus HELL was not made for people... yet people are going to end up there.
 
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JesusistheChrist

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This portion of your post...

>>>>Again, I believe in "group predestination" in the sense in which I already described it (we're "predestined" IN CHRIST) and I definitely agree that the Bible says nothing about God allegedly "predestinating" people to hell in the manner in which some teach. God puts before us life and death and He tells us to CHOOSE LIFE. Those who CHOOSE DEATH, CHOOSE HELL as well.<<<<

Made me think of the verse that says something about "hell being enlarged"... I will have to look for it... but the jist I get from that is... WHY WOULD GOD HAVE TO ENLARGE HELL if he predestined some for hell... surely he would KNOW how big hell had to be to contain those people... thus HELL was not made for people... yet people are going to end up there.
The verse that you're referring to can be found in Isaiah 5:14:

"Therefore hell hath enlarged herself, and opened her mouth without measure: and their glory, and their multitude, and their pomp, and he that rejoiceth, shall descend into it." (Isaiah 5:14)

It actually speaks of "hell enlarging herself" and the word for "hell" is "sheol" and there's, of course, endless debate about that as well. IOW, some view it as merely being the grave and others view it as being a whole lot more. In either case, when it comes to the place of everlasting fire, Jesus did say that it was prepared for the devil and his angels:

"Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand, Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels:" (Matthew 25:41)

The reason, it seems, that men will wind up there is because they chose to follow the devil instead of God. Again, Jesus said that men will be condemned because they hate the light (Jesus) and because they love darkness. Seeing how the devil is equated with darkness in several places in the Bible, I have no problem believing that their love of darkness includes an underlying love of Satan.

Well, I'm heading out on another 3 day business trip early tomorrow and I'll be staying in a dinky motel without WiFi to cut my travelling costs. As such, if I post at all and if this thread is even still open, then it will only be a short sentence or two from my iPhone.

Good night.
 
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So, God is a respecter of persons even though we're told from cover to cover in the Bible that He isn't?

Alas.

Another poster who thinks that he is wiser than God.
You keep using the phrase "respecter of persons" but you never define what it means. It doesn't mean what you seem to think it means. It means God doesn't respect any person based on their merit. He does choose (not based on merit) some and not others for salvation.
 
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ambassadorinchains

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No, it's perfectly logical and not the least bit fallacious. The "god" that you and others portray, from your own testimony, forcibly abducts his bride without her consent, places his "seed" within her without her consent and then holds her without her consent. That, my friend, is an abducting, raping and imprisoning "god" who deserves, at the minimum, (life) imprisonment himself and quite possibly the death sentence.
The answer to your comments is that God regenerates a person's heart (causes them to be born again), and then that person chooses to accept Christ in response to irresistible grace. The only thing the believer didn't choose (and had no part in) was to have their heart regenerated.
 

valiant

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I've been hearing a lot this past week about being chosen by God, for those of us who lack confidence and self-worth it's pretty amazing to think that He thinks us special enough to have singled us out for salvation, above others we see as somehow superior, or better than ourselves.

Personally I don't think I can believe we are chosen, if it were so that would mean that the unsaved were always predestined for Hell...now the God I know would hardly do that - would He? If God has pre-chosen some and not others where is the choice in that? That isn't free will is it! Also what would be the point in reaching out to the unsaved if ultimately the outcome has already been decided? Despite my misgivings though it does seem like God is speaking to me through what I'm hearing and seeing and that he would seem to be saying I have been chosen..

I'd be interested to gauge others' views on this important predestination topic because a lot gets talked about on the OSAS topic yet this one seems to be a neglected topic.
What you first have to recognise is that in a sense God predestined us all for Hell, for He knew when He created us that we would sin. Thus He created us as 'soon to be' Hell bound sinners.

Going by the arguments some make surely a loving Father figure would only have allowed to live those whom He knew would go to Heaven ? The truth is that the dilemma is unavoidable. God created a world where He knew that the vast majority would go to Hell.

If words mean anything the Scriptures taken at face value leave us in no doubt that those who are saved are those who are chosen by God. Clever devils can wriggle their way out of it, but only by devious methods (I know, I tried).

Obvious examples are John 6.44; Romans 9.15-24; 8.29-30; Eph 1.3-14.