Philippians 2:5 the word translated "form" is the Greek morphe which is always used to describe outward appearance, in this case the verse is saying that although Christ appeared to be like God (miracles, prophecy, wisdom), he did not count himself or grasp at being God's equal (unlike Adam).
Colossians 2:9 dwells is in the present tense and may well refer to his post-resurrection state only.
1 Timothy 3:16 is a poor translation and based on late manuscripts that are not supported by earlier MSS, as you can see by reading other translations (NIV, NASB, RSV, etc)
Titus 2:13 is based on the use of the Granville-Sharp rule, to which there are so many exceptions in the NT that the rule is only selectively applied according to the translators biases. Also, there is no indication from ancient Greek texts that the Granville-Sharp rule was actually in existance at the time that the scriptures were written.
These are all texts that have to be considered, but are you convinced that they are absolutely conclusive?
Yes I am convinced, I totally believe Jesus is God. I not only believe Paul believed this, but that Jesus said He was.
As far as your belief goes, that is something you are going to have to continue studying and praying about.
Here is prayer I pray regularly....
If I believe anything falsely correct me.
If I have processed your word correctly affirm me.
If I distrust anyone wrongly show me.
If I trust anyone who means me harm warn me.
My prayer is to grow in the knowledge of you, your love, your word, and in your pure truth.
I want to love others as you love them
I want to be the man you have called me to be.
I want to be a witness for you , the kind you need to grow your Kingdom.
Most of all I just want to sit at your feet and behold you glory, your beauty, your Majesty.
I emboldened the first two lines, as it is what is pertinent to our convo. We all need to continuously search for truth as we seek God's heart.