Why don't you THINK about what is being said? you quote C. H. Spurgeon but you certainly do not understand him, I am not Calvinist but he decidedly was..
Man is held responsible because he rebelled against the command of God, was he free to do so? did he have freewill in the matter of partaking of the forbidden tree? danged if he did. God said don't do it.
This word from God cannot be interpreted as "behold I give unto you freewill in the matter of eating of the forbidden fruit"
What happened was the devil DECEIVED him into believing that there would be no consequences he is in effect saying "go ahead you may freely partake of the tree, you have freewill in the matter, you won't die"
The doctrine of human freewill is that selfsame deception, the devil uses it today to get christians to sin.
It's the devil's debate society
The temptation comes, you know God says there are consequences if you sin, the devil says "well maybe just this one time, it's just a little sin"
You say "I mustn't"
The devil says "go on"
And BANG you are doing it.
The devil wins this battle every single time
And christians are so confused and baffled by this, they thought they were strong, they thought they had gotten the victory, they cannot understand why they have done it. It's because they entered into unspoken dialogue with the devil and he will always win.
Adam and Eve's job was to say "begone Satan we obey our Creator" and that should be our answer to him today.