Yeah I don't agree with the whole "romancing Jesus" thing or us believers being "in love with Him".
Yes we love Him and He loves us, but He loves us with agape love, not romantic (eros) love. In turn, we love him with either philio (brotherly) love or storge (familial) love; it's probably a combination of both.
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Well, notmebuthim, John is referred to as the beloved disciple..and we read of him resting his head on Jesus chest
western culture finds that type of behavior to be un mannish ( I may have just made up a word)
you should read about how one man would sware an oath to another man and where he would put his hand
I dont much care for the Jesus is my boyfriend mentality, but He is our brother and hey, you know, a person can love their brother alot