Phrases that I can no longer handle hearing/reading:
"In God's eyes" Like He's some sort of creature incapable of comprehending human
language or thought. Define words as what they mean. I've seen too
many warped definitions "validated" this way.
"Biblical reason" You either have a reason or you don't. Too many people prop up an
out-of-context verse to support their point of view and further wound
a hurting person.
"Save the marriage" At what cost? That means that BOTH spouses need to be healthy
and willing to work on it. One cannot save a marriage all by herself.
Otherwise, you've just glued two adults and their kids in a toxic
environment. That hurts everyone and prevents healing.
Instead:
Define your terms clearly with historical/linguistic basis.
Use logic, but make sure it's all in context and that you are using ALL applicable (not cherry-picked) scripture.
Strive to "Heal the family," and sometimes effective treatment involves amputation (aka. divorce).
What phrases do you want to seen stricken from Christian conversation?