Does God Hate The Unsaved?

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atwhatcost

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Did saul not have to chose? Could saul have still rejected? even when Christ confronted him personally?
Saul did choose. He was right there with his choice holding the stoners' cloaks while they killed Stephen. His choice.

And then God chose Saul and turned him into Paul. God's choice.

And then Paul agreed, but, by then, there was no other choice.

(It really helps to read the book.)
 
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eternally-gratefull

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This was covered on Page one. Assuming you know Jesus is God, here you go:

Now, if you don't believe Jesus is God, then we have problems.

romans 9 does not support the fatalistic view. or that God hated anyone.

In the jewish language, the term "hate" meant to "love less" not to literally hate.

Jesus told us if we do not love our spouse, or parents, we are in sin, at the same time, he said if we did not HATE (love less) these same people and follow him, we had no hope.

God did not hate two kids not yet born, and condemn one to hell and another to heaven. He chose Isreal as a nation to bless them in certain ways, He chose to love a edom a nation less than isreal. and not give them those same blessings.
 

crossnote

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I came out of reformed theology. And He pretty much summed up "my calvinism" in His post. I had just learned to double speak, and hide the crux of what I believed. When someone nailed it like his post, I could always say," Well you just don't understand my calvinism."

I hid it in "soft determinism", "compatiblism","free agency(instead of freewill)" But at the conclusion of "my calvinism." He pretty much sums it up.
I'm not a Calvinist either but I have been there. I see both that God died for all and that He also predestines (and not according to a foreseen choice we make) because both are taught in Scripture. But double predestination is not taught in Scripture, it is a doctrine some Calvinists hold to making a logical man made jump in saying 'since he predestined some for salvation (scripture), therefore He must have predestined the rest for damnation (not found in Scripture)....neither is the god of Arminians found in Scripture ...called free will...

Ephesians 2:1-3 (KJV)
1 And you hath he quickened, who were dead in trespasses and sins;
2 Wherein in time past ye walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that now worketh in the children of disobedience:
3 Among whom also we all had our conversation in times past in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind; and were by nature the children of wrath, even as others.
 
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Gr8grace

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#64
Because of these...

John 6:44 (NET) No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws him, and I will raise him up at the last day.

Matthew 16:17 (NET) And Jesus answered him, “You are blessed, Simon son of Jonah, because flesh and blood did not reveal this to you, but my Father in heaven!

...as well as Paul's conversion while breathing out death threats against the Church.

God doesn't hate the unsaved but why He favored Israel, why He favors His elect, why He reveals to one yet lets another go their merry way through life etc., can only be explained by His grace and nothing in us.
John 12:32~~New American Standard Bible
"And I, if I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all men to Myself."

Matt 27:51~~New American Standard Bible
And behold, the veil of the temple was torn in two from top to bottom; and the earth shook and the rocks were split.

Duet 30:19~~New American Standard Bible
"I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that I have set before you life and death, the blessing and the curse. So choose life in order that you may live, you and your descendants,
 
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eternally-gratefull

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#65
Saul did choose. He was right there with his choice holding the stoners' cloaks while they killed Stephen. His choice.

And then God chose Saul and turned him into Paul. God's choice.

And then Paul agreed, but, by then, there was no other choice.

(It really helps to read the book.)
No. Saul did have to chose. if he did not. He would be in hades today, not in paradise awaiting the return of his savor.

God did not FORCE saul to believe in hi, this is utter nonsense. God told saul what to do. Saul had to chose to do what God said, and believ in what he heard when he went there. The only reason we hear of it, is because Saul chose to believe.
 
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atwhatcost

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#66
I think the best way to answer this question is by asking it a different way...so let's try it!

Does God Love the Unsaved?

We can look for the answer in the most well known verse in the bible...I'm sure most of us have it memorized if not partially memorized;

John 3:16

"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life."

It doesn't say for God so loved those that would accept Jesus Christ his son...let us look at the term love...

God gave us a choice...to accept or not accept...what better definition of love than providing one a choice...We either accept or turn down his offer of eternal life through his son Jesus Christ. Many will refuse it, but God still loves them, and loves them enough to respect their choice...as crushing as it is I'm sure...

Does that make sense?
Sure, as long as you take what Jesus said out of context.

I'll put it back in context.

16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
 
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atwhatcost

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No. Saul did have to chose. if he did not. He would be in hades today, not in paradise awaiting the return of his savor.

God did not FORCE saul to believe in hi, this is utter nonsense. God told saul what to do. Saul had to chose to do what God said, and believ in what he heard when he went there. The only reason we hear of it, is because Saul chose to believe.
Sure, because everyone chooses to be zapped by a blinding light only to be blinded for three days while walking down the road in the middle of no where in particular.

On the good news side, I now get why you don't know God's will. You're not into reading the Bible.
 

MarcR

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Except for our "free will" to deny Him that is...................
We are not far apart, brother. I took the concept of predestination from Ro 8:29-30; NOT FROM CALVIN, and, like Paul, I associated it with uninfluenced foreknowledge of out response to Jesus. What you are saying appears to me to be quite close to what I am saying; and to what I believed crossnote was saying.
 
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eternally-gratefull

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Sure, as long as you take what Jesus said out of context.

I'll put it back in context.

16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.

21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
Yep context is quite clear.

1. Belief and your saved, do not believe and your condemned.
2. Who believes? those who are not afraid of th elight, and come to the light, so their deeds are exposed, and they may be saved
3. Who does not believe Those who HATE the light, thus they HIDE from the light, less their deeds be exposed (see also romans 1)


Yet jesus still died for the WORLD. (all men women and children) if he did not die for them, believing and not believing would not matter.
 
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atwhatcost

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romans 9 does not support the fatalistic view. or that God hated anyone.

In the jewish language, the term "hate" meant to "love less" not to literally hate.

Jesus told us if we do not love our spouse, or parents, we are in sin, at the same time, he said if we did not HATE (love less) these same people and follow him, we had no hope.

God did not hate two kids not yet born, and condemn one to hell and another to heaven. He chose Isreal as a nation to bless them in certain ways, He chose to love a edom a nation less than isreal. and not give them those same blessings.
Sorry. You've lost me entirely. I'm definitely not taking instructions from a guy who has no idea what the Levites were called to do and yet claims to know the Bible. Practice your persuasive skills on someone who doesn't know that about you. It will save on your finger muscles.

(Oh, BTW, when he cursed Esau, God killed off his descendants -- the Edomites -- in one fell swoop, so you're really peddling hard, but against someone who has a basic understanding of the Bible. i.e. You're peddling, but unaware you're on a stationary bike.)

Stop buying what whoever is teaching you and read the book yourself! Yeesh!
 
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eternally-gratefull

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#71
Sure, because everyone chooses to be zapped by a blinding light only to be blinded for three days while walking down the road in the middle of no where in particular.

On the good news side, I now get why you don't know God's will. You're not into reading the Bible.

is that your only argument? Anyone who does not believe as you must not read the bible?



Why did God do what he did? to FORCE saul to repent? or BECAUSE HE KNEW paul would repent?

I chose to take the second one. Because it keeps Gods love in tact.
 
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eternally-gratefull

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Sorry. You've lost me entirely. I'm definitely not taking instructions from a guy who has no idea what the Levites were called to do and yet claims to know the Bible. Practice your persuasive skills on someone who doesn't know that about you. It will save on your finger muscles.

(Oh, BTW, when he cursed Esau, God killed off his descendants -- the Edomites -- in one fell swoop, so you're really peddling hard, but against someone who has a basic understanding of the Bible. i.e. You're peddling, but unaware you're on a stationary bike.)

Stop buying what whoever is teaching you and read the book yourself! Yeesh!
thats ok. I am not going to listen or waste my time on someone who is closed minded, and her only argument against anyone who does not agree with her is they do not study the word.

In jesus day, they called that phariseeism.
 
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Gr8grace

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I'm not a Calvinist either but I have been there. I see both that God died for all and that He also predestines (and not according to a foreseen choice we make) because both are taught in Scripture. But double predestination is not taught in Scripture, it is a doctrine some Calvinists hold to making a logical man made jump in saying 'since he predestined some for salvation (scripture), therefore He must have predestined the rest for damnation (not found in Scripture)....neither is the god of Arminians found in Scripture ...called free will...

Ephesians 2:1-3 (KJV)
1 And you hath he quickened, who were dead in trespasses and sins;
2 Wherein in time past ye walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that now worketh in the children of disobedience:
3 Among whom also we all had our conversation in times past in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind; and were by nature the children of wrath, even as others.
This what made me start to study. I could not logically say ," men are predestined to salvation." And rule out double predestination.

Freewill is the only solution.

The Arminian just takes it to the other extreme. They think that it was their freewill faith that saved them, when it was the object (Christ)of their faith that saved them.

They deny they were bought with a price and are not their own. Sealed.
 
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Sorry. You've lost me entirely. I'm definitely not taking instructions from a guy who has no idea what the Levites were called to do and yet claims to know the Bible. Practice your persuasive skills on someone who doesn't know that about you. It will save on your finger muscles.

(Oh, BTW, when he cursed Esau, God killed off his descendants -- the Edomites -- in one fell swoop, so you're really peddling hard, but against someone who has a basic understanding of the Bible. i.e. You're peddling, but unaware you're on a stationary bike.)

Stop buying what whoever is teaching you and read the book yourself! Yeesh!
Did God deal with people differently under the Old Covenant and then the New Covenant?
 

Mo0448

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Sure, as long as you take what Jesus said out of context.

I'll put it back in context.

16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
Don't really see how I took it out of context but I respect your opinion nonetheless sister!

God Bless!
 

tribesman

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[h=2]Q: Does God Hate The Unsaved?[/h]A:Yes.