Jesus spoke of being baptized in sufferings. (The cup He prepared Himself to drink from.)
And He said: you indeed will be baptized in this way/drink from the cup I drink from.
And it is suffering to die to our self will, pride, arrogance.
It's war, in fact.
These things in us are what we put on the cross we pick up to follow. They have to die so we live.
This is a narrow and painful way to our pride, self will, etc.
Got off on a tangent there. There is one baptism of the Spirit. But then He works to perfect us.
I may have just seemed to ramble...I've been known to do it.