Feeling angry and helpless and alone

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No, it's neither arrogance nor a joke. It's simply that I cannot deny the Light or else the Light will deny me.
Depends on what you define by the "Light." Satan himself can appear as an angel of light. Just saying.

I'm going to bed.
 
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Depends on what you define by the "Light." Satan himself can appear as an angel of light. Just saying.

I'm going to bed.
I'm pretty positive there is no Light in the old serpent. I know for a fact that my Lord Jesus is the way, the truth, and the light. See how I am unable to fight against the Lord Jesus' Kingdom and his followers' teachings even in the face of persecution? This is because God's Kingdom cannot fight itself.
 
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I'm pretty positive there is no Light in the old serpent. I know for a fact that my Lord Jesus is the way, the truth, and the light. See how I am unable to fight against the Lord Jesus' Kingdom and his followers' teachings even in the face of persecution? This is because God's Kingdom cannot fight itself.
It's the way, the truth, and the LIFE. I see your point though.

Good night.
 
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It's the way, the truth, and the LIFE. I see your point though.

Good night.
So then do you see the Lord's apostles and prophets points in the woman needing the husband to lead her and protect her from Satan and the world?

You need a good Christian husband and then your anger and helplessness and loneliness (the very subject title and original post) will be resolved because then you will understand by the leadership of a good husband the grace of God.
 
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So then do you see the Lord's apostles and prophets points in the woman needing the husband to lead her and protect her from Satan and the world?

You need a good Christian husband and then your anger and helplessness and loneliness (the very subject title and original post) will be resolved because then you will understand by the leadership of a good husband the grace of God.
I do not need a husband. Stop telling me I need one. By the same logic I could tell you you need a wife to knock you down your pride pedestal.

As I've said, I'm going to bed. Good night.
 
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I do not need a husband. Stop telling me I need one. By the same logic I could tell you you need a wife to knock you down your pride pedestal.

As I've said, I'm going to bed. Good night.
No, if a woman tears down her husband she does not belong to God. Furthermore a woman must NEVER have authority over a man. This is abundantly clear in the scripture.

As for myself I guess I'll consider it though I note how I wish for you to have a husband for you to be saved and joined to God's Kingdom and so that your anger, helplessness, and loneliness are healed by God, while you would like me to have a wife that will make my life miserable and forfeit my one way ticket to God's Kingdom.
 
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No, if a woman tears down her husband she does not belong to God. Furthermore a woman must NEVER have authority over a man. This is abundantly clear in the scripture.

As for myself I guess I'll consider it though I note how I wish for you to have a husband for you to be saved and joined to God's Kingdom and so that your anger, helplessness, and loneliness are healed by God, while you would like me to have a wife that will make my life miserable and forfeit my one way ticket to God's Kingdom.
It's not as clear as you think. God clearly desires the equality of the sexes. Simple as that. Case closed. Neither you nor Satan are going to convince me otherwise.

Now leave me alone please so I may sleep.
 
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It's not as clear as you think. God clearly desires the equality of the sexes. Simple as that. Case closed. Neither you nor Satan are going to convince me otherwise.

Now leave me alone please so I may sleep.
No, God clearly made an order for Man and Woman, this is pretty well detailed throughout the scriptures written by the believers of God. The notion of feminism which you reference is actually a doctrine that comes from Satan so I am sorry that the Devil has easily convinced you of his lie and thus is how he keeps you angry, helpless, and alone.
 

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I'll admit it is a bit odd to keep bringing up her need for a husband. Nowhere in scripture does it say a person "must" be married.

She has asked you to refrain. I'm not going to put words in her mouth but the topic is a good one...do you have anything to add?


We are all a work in progress man and we all have maturing to do as believers...
 
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No, God clearly made an order for Man and Woman, this is pretty well detailed throughout the scriptures written by the believers of God. The notion of feminism which you reference is actually a doctrine that comes from Satan so I am sorry that the Devil has easily convinced you of his lie and thus is how he keeps you angry, helpless, and alone.
I'm the one who should be sorry for you. I'm sorry that Satan has turned you into someone who can't accept the fact that women are equally made in the image of God, are equally deserving of his love, and whom he equally pours out his Spirit to in every way.
 
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I'm the one who should be sorry for you. I'm sorry that Satan has turned you into someone who can't accept the fact that women are equally made in the image of God, are equally deserving of his love, and whom he equally pours out his Spirit to in every way.
No, I am not deceived by Satan. Satan and his worldly children conform to this idea of feminism. This lie among others can easily be seen to be why the world today is so well, on its way to hell in a handbasket. If you do a diligent study of the Bible you will find that God made an order that works and worked for thousands of years; which is God is the head of the Man, Man is the head of the woman, and the woman is saved in the childbirth. It is rather plainly seen in the scripture that it is Satan whom through the power of his lies, tries to turn this order upside down.

That's why I cannot conform to the lie that the devil's world has taught you, and many many others, in order to keep you angry, helpless, and alone and to sow the seeds of confusion to undo the order made by God.
 
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No, I am not deceived by Satan. Satan and his worldly children conform to this idea of feminism. This lie among others can easily be seen to be why the world today is so well, on its way to hell in a handbasket. If you do a diligent study of the Bible you will find that God made an order that works and worked for thousands of years; which is God is the head of the Man, Man is the head of the woman, and the woman is saved in the childbirth. It is rather plainly seen in the scripture that it is Satan whom through the power of his lies, tries to turn this order upside down.

That's why I cannot conform to the lie that the devil's world has taught you, and many many others, in order to keep you angry, helpless, and alone and to sow the seeds of confusion to undo the order made by God.
Sir, I have asked you over and over and over to leave. I am very secure in my salvation and you will never confuse me with your lies from the devil. I'm blocking you.
 

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the woman is saved in the childbirth.
Could you elaborate on this? Kind of a bizarre statement. I'll agree that feminism is unscriptural but so is masculism. Sexes being equal is certainly open to debate but this thread is about grace. Was in the process of typing out a reply to the OP but this is pretty off-topic. I can see you are concerned...but is it possibly misplaced?
 
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Could you elaborate on this? Kind of a bizarre statement. I'll agree that feminism is unscriptural but so is masculism. Sexes being equal is certainly open to debate but this thread is about grace. Was in the process of typing out a reply to the OP but this is pretty off-topic. I can see you are concerned...but is it possibly misplaced?
I've ignored him. I can no longer see his content. Some people are just very persistent.
 
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Sir, I have asked you over and over and over to leave. I am very secure in my salvation and you will never confuse me with your lies from the devil. I'm blocking you.
Well, I would expect as much from Satan's children. They truly will do anything to avoid confronting the truth of God. Well praise Jesus anyways.
 
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Could you elaborate on this? Kind of a bizarre statement. I'll agree that feminism is unscriptural but so is masculism. Sexes being equal is certainly open to debate but this thread is about grace. Was in the process of typing out a reply to the OP but this is pretty off-topic. I can see you are concerned...but is it possibly misplaced?

It is not off topic. The woman is angry, helpless, and alone. These are symptoms of Satan's influence over the woman. The reason many women are like this is because they adhere to Satan and his lies. The excellent letter to Timothy written by the apostle of Jesus, apostle Paul, illuminates this more clearly, though for the wise, this can be easily deduced from a simple reading of Genesis 3.

9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;

10 But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.

11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.

12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.

13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.

14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.

15 Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
 

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It's all in the title. If anyone wants to take a shot at me, come get me.

I've been raised a Christian. I've been a Christian for 8 years. I could recite the Gospel backwards. And yet I've always had a serious problem with one of the most important doctrines and the one we claim sets us free: grace.

Why? Because grace is often used as a license to sin. Grace apparently means even the most evil person who ever lived can go to heaven and never suffer the consequences for any of his horrific evils, simply by "accepting Jesus." I'm sorry, but nothing anyone can say can convince me that certain people can be forgiven.
David a man after GOD's own heart was a calculating murdering adulterous. There are many examples throughout the Holy Writ of GOD's people falling into sin and GOD forgiving them. Paul for example was responsible for many Christians being led to persecution and death.

I've never been abused, raped, or anything. This has nothing to do with me. It's about me feeling powerless to do anything about the suffering I see around me.
Why?
Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? it is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men. Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
(Mat 5:13-16 KJV)



And it infuriates me
Praise GOD!
 
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David a man after GOD's own heart was a calculating murdering adulterous. There are many examples throughout the Holy Writ of GOD's people falling into sin and GOD forgiving them. Paul for example was responsible for many Christians being led to persecution and death.

Why?
Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? it is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men. Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
(Mat 5:13-16 KJV)



Praise GOD!
David did not commit adultery. He committed rape. Bathsheba had no choice in the matter. And like I said, apparently all we have to do is say, "I'm sorry." Well, I believe in just punishment.

But what can I do? I'm just one person.
 
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Has anyone done a survey of successful marriages based on whether the leadership is more matriarchal than patriarchal?
My parents were both gentle souls. You could be forgiven for not knowing who "wore the pants. " It was a team effort. Very little ego. They had 7 kids. Never rich but lots of love and laughter.
I suspect in a marriage where one partner dominates too much, this leads to misery.
 

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He keeps straying away from the subject and snubbing anyone who disagrees with him. And I've repeatedly asked him to leave.

I've already reported him twice.
Yeah well, it's my right as the person running this thread.
I'm quite certain that you've been told this before but just to be certain:

A) You do not in any way shape or form have the authority to dictate to other users what threads they can post in
B) Just because you started the thread does not give you any "right" to dictate how it transpires beyond that post