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I think about what John the Immerser, Jesus, Paul, Elijah etc. did and said when it came to false prophets, teachers etc........My problem is I call a spade a spade bluntly.......must be the Marine in me HAHAH.............I suppose I deal with people based upon their position or demeanor....some I am very tactful with....others I lay bare and rake over the coals......and for sure I have little patience for those who devalue and trample JESUS under their feet by devaluing the gospel, his sacrifice, promises and power by a working for, self saving, Cainologist dogma........I despise it!
Compromiser!!!! :p ;) :ROFL:
 
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Nondenominational Christ followers make the most sense to me. Nothing in the word, to my knowledge, supports picking one over the other, only to follow Christ.
The only thing I would say is beneficial when it comes to particularly name "branded" churches is a basic ability to understand the basics they teach without ever gracing the door....and even then we are starting to see that name means nothing.....I personally know, through a friend, a particular charismatic group that PURPOSELY used a different denominational name so as to attract more people for services....they were in a town big on being a vacation spot with visitors to the town every day......

The bible was clear...the church AT (associated with a town or home met in) and no particular name what soever at all....of course some like to use two sayings in the bible to "SUPPORT" their religious brand....erroneously I might add........
 

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Agreed. It grows tiresome watching some rush into threads and call apologetics, proponents for truth and sound doctrine ugly, negative, "heresy hunters" &c as if only "being positive" and saccharine sweet is godliness or a true Christian attitude.

Many have forgotten the charge of correcting and rebuking error, and those speaking it, as set forth in Scripture. 2 Timothy 3 & 4 are good starting points. Trying to find positive points on both sides is sickening and unbiblical. We need more who stand for truth and especially against error. Too many today see this as "negative" and "unChristian." Needless to say most of these are simply not sound in doctrine. "Positivity" is not the Gospel nor is it Christianity.
I do get your point, truly. It is important to stand boldly in truth, He tells us too. But He also tells us to remain respectful and humble. Do you think all softer approaches indicates a false sweetness, like saccharin. I know that I can be too gentle as a dove, leaving out the wise attributes so I know it requires both, a healthy balance. I just think we can have a good sound debate. I so enjoy the edification and potential growth in understanding. A good banter is fun. Even one that is heated has merit, but I think when we negate the ability to walk away (before it becomes ugly and goes no where), after attempting, using scripture and a sound mind, to shed light, then we are now in our flesh.
 

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The only thing I would say is beneficial when it comes to particularly name "branded" churches is a basic ability to understand the basics they teach without ever gracing the door....and even then we are starting to see that name means nothing.....I personally know, through a friend, a particular charismatic group that PURPOSELY used a different denominational name so as to attract more people for services....they were in a town big on being a vacation spot with visitors to the town every day......

The bible was clear...the church AT (associated with a town or home met in) and no particular name what soever at all....of course some like to use two sayings in the bible to "SUPPORT" their religious brand....erroneously I might add........
True if you understand their basic mission statement, what they adhere to, doctrines they accept and others they don't subscribe to, you can weed through the vast amount of choices, knowing at least what you don't want. M
 

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Nondenominational Christ followers make the most sense to me. Nothing in the word, to my knowledge, supports picking one over the other, only to follow Christ.

Non-denominational Thoughts:


A. A denomination is a group of christians, or churches, with the same doctrinal beliefs.

B. If you are "non-denominational" you still adhere to some set of doctrinal beliefs, of some kind.

C. If you adhere to a set of doctrinal beliefs, then you either AGREE WITH SOME DENOMINATION, or you ARE ESSENTIAlLY A NEW DENOMINATION.

D. So you end up back in the same place... non-denominational churches are still a denomination.



Just something to think about.


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Non-denominational Thoughts:


A. A denomination is a group of christians, or churches, with the same doctrinal beliefs.

B. If you are "non-denominational" you still adhere to some set of doctrinal beliefs, of some kind.

C. If you adhere to a set of doctrinal beliefs, then you either AGREE WITH SOME DENOMINATION, or you ARE ESSENTIAlLY A NEW DENOMINATION.

D. So you end up back in the same place... non-denominational churches are still a denomination.



Just something to think about.


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Your mind Maxwell is so sharp, bro. It makes me reach higher. I suppose you are right, in the end, non-denomenational churches are packaged differently but still choosing a set of beliefs. Which by def is a denomination. Dang u. But...but...but...shoot I wish I was more clever to bring up a yeah but statement. But ur point is too solid. Dang u, lol!!! Seriously bro, thanks!!!
 
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I do get your point, truly. It is important to stand boldly in truth, He tells us too. But He also tells us to remain respectful and humble. Do you think all softer approaches indicates a false sweetness, like saccharin. I know that I can be too gentle as a dove, leaving out the wise attributes so I know it requires both, a healthy balance. I just think we can have a good sound debate. I so enjoy the edification and potential growth in understanding. A good banter is fun. Even one that is heated has merit, but I think when we negate the ability to walk away (before it becomes ugly and goes no where), after attempting, using scripture and a sound mind, to shed light, then we are now in our flesh.
It appears two thirds of Paul's instructions to Timothy in his ministry would be construed as negative and/or combative, especially by today's standards; 2 Timothy 4:2. Take a close look at the definitions of reprove, rebuke, exhort. That really doesn't happen in ministries today, or it is at the very least rare.

It is probably high time with the current status quo to not soften this admonition and imperative of Paul. Christianity isn't a free for all on what you want to believe, nor is Scripture subjective to our own private interpretations that undermine orthodoxy. Positivity isn't the Gospel, the Gospel is the Gospel, not warm fuzzies and niceties.

People want to be told positive things, they want to be made to feel good, and those who preach the truth are frankly not liked. Just look at how the prophets in the OT were treated. Jeremiah for example, told to go preach, did so, was beaten. When he was released he didn't just walk away, he began preaching the same message immediately. So did Paul and other apostles. They were relentless, and I pray God so am I.

Recently I heard a preacher ridicule theology, and mock the fact God had a hidden mystery that was revealed in the NT. He quoted a verse as if that neutralized this truth. Wonder what that says to his flock?

The fact is we live in a watered down, weak, compromising time in the "church." Pews have to be full, don't want to offend anyone, have to keep the money coming in, so they tell the people what they want to hear, exactly what Paul said would come (2 Timothy 4) is here now.

Note also 2 Timothy 3 describing the apostates. Not a "nice" list and I guarantee you if these things were preached, many Christians would be quite upset and see nothing wrong with being "lovers of self," "lovers of pleasure more than God," "boastful" &c. These things were written about professing believers, not the world at large (2 Timothy 3).

I'd be careful in assuming when debate or apologetics is being done in the flesh by others, or that they should walk away, or that it is ugly because we don't happen to like the way it's going. This is why I say this, something for you to consider: I wonder, was Jesus in the flesh in Luke 11:37-54 when invited over for lunch? Was Paul in the flesh in Galatians when he stood, vehemently, against the Judaizers, condemning them to hell, Galatians 1:8-10? There is also Jude, Christ in Revelation (and the OT), then there are Elijah and others. Of course I'm being rhetorical as to the "were they in the flesh" statement.

My apologies to you if my stance, methods, manners have offended you or made you feel I'm in the flesh. I do however know what is at stake, and will defend the Gospel and Scripture against assaults. I was at one time influenced by a false truncated gospel and new something was not right, and God took me on quite a journey.

Taking a look around just on here we see all this; assaults on the Gospel, on the character of God, on Scripture, denial of the Triune God, denial of Christ's Deity, propagation of hyper-grace heresy, Universalism, works salvation, and the false gospel of free will yourself into heaven. Some of these, not all, who teach these outright heresies are frankly not believers. Scripture will back that up.

I'm probably going to make certain, as long as the LORD is willing, to combat all those teachings with contextual and exegetically interpreted Scripture. Probably over and again as a warning to others. It might get hairy at times.
 

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It appears two thirds of Paul's instructions to Timothy in his ministry would be construed as negative and/or combative, especially by today's standards; 2 Timothy 4:2. Take a close look at the definitions of reprove, rebuke, exhort. That really doesn't happen in ministries today, or it is at the very least rare.

It is probably high time with the current status quo to not soften this admonition and imperative of Paul. Christianity isn't a free for all on what you want to believe, nor is Scripture subjective to our own private interpretations that undermine orthodoxy. Positivity isn't the Gospel, the Gospel is the Gospel, not warm fuzzies and niceties.

People want to be told positive things, they want to be made to feel good, and those who preach the truth are frankly not liked. Just look at how the prophets in the OT were treated. Jeremiah for example, told to go preach, did so, was beaten. When he was released he didn't just walk away, he began preaching the same message immediately. So did Paul and other apostles. They were relentless, and I pray God so am I.

Recently I heard a preacher ridicule theology, and mock the fact God had a hidden mystery that was revealed in the NT. He quoted a verse as if that neutralized this truth. Wonder what that says to his flock?

The fact is we live in a watered down, weak, compromising time in the "church." Pews have to be full, don't want to offend anyone, have to keep the money coming in, so they tell the people what they want to hear, exactly what Paul said would come (2 Timothy 4) is here now.

Note also 2 Timothy 3 describing the apostates. Not a "nice" list and I guarantee you if these things were preached, many Christians would be quite upset and see nothing wrong with being "lovers of self," "lovers of pleasure more than God," "boastful" &c. These things were written about professing believers, not the world at large (2 Timothy 3).

I'd be careful in assuming when debate or apologetics is being done in the flesh by others, or that they should walk away, or that it is ugly because we don't happen to like the way it's going. This is why I say this, something for you to consider: I wonder, was Jesus in the flesh in Luke 11:37-54 when invited over for lunch? Was Paul in the flesh in Galatians when he stood, vehemently, against the Judaizers, condemning them to hell, Galatians 1:8-10? There is also Jude, Christ in Revelation (and the OT), then there are Elijah and others. Of course I'm being rhetorical as to the "were they in the flesh" statement.

My apologies to you if my stance, methods, manners have offended you or made you feel I'm in the flesh. I do however know what is at stake, and will defend the Gospel and Scripture against assaults. I was at one time influenced by a false truncated gospel and new something was not right, and God took me on quite a journey.

Taking a look around just on here we see all this; assaults on the Gospel, on the character of God, on Scripture, denial of the Triune God, denial of Christ's Deity, propagation of hyper-grace heresy, Universalism, works salvation, and the false gospel of free will yourself into heaven. Some of these, not all, who teach these outright heresies are frankly not believers. Scripture will back that up.

I'm probably going to make certain, as long as the LORD is willing, to combat all those teachings with contextual and exegetically interpreted Scripture. Probably over and again as a warning to others. It might get hairy at times.
No you have not offended me at all, just had me wanting to understand your stance a wee better. I think you make some solid points. I can be too gentle, and too optimistic, like u described so I think it is important to stand firm in our resolve to be a child of His. You have me pondering, which usually leads to growth. I think maybe the soldier stance that men often do better than women might be one of the reasons why men folk are given the role of authority. I'm not saying that I was not made to stand in my faith, just that my approach is often too soft I reckon. I get accused of being a sycophant, and I'm NOT. Dog gone it, lol. Thanks for the time, brother.
 
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No you have not offended me at all, just had me wanting to understand your stance a wee better. I think you make some solid points. I can be too gentle, and too optimistic, like u described so I think it is important to stand firm in our resolve to be a child of His. You have me pondering, which usually leads to growth. I think maybe the soldier stance that men often do better than women might be one of the reasons why men folk are given the role of authority. I'm not saying that I was not made to stand in my faith, just that my approach is often too soft I reckon. I get accused of being a sycophant, and I'm NOT. Dog gone it, lol. Thanks for the time, brother.
Well, most women are of a gentler spirit.

Something else along these lines that is biblical. The gentler approach appears directed at those outside who oppose themselves. Biblically, those professing to being believers received the rebukes, the reproofs, the seemingly harsher treatment. I get it though, they should.
 

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Which is funny, because it makes them to be tolerant to each other and compromise in their differences :) Which is something some pople here see as evil.