What gets me is that people continue to look at this as one sided, even when they use human comparisons.
If you don't do this or do that I will not love you any less, however what they seem to fail at looking at, and even the bible shows this standard. That if the person choices themselves to walk away from God they are forfeiting their own salvation by choosing not to continue walking with the Lord as Apostle Paul clearly says we have to do in the faith.
Just like I know of situations where even though the parents raised the child to what they deemed was right, when the child became a young adult they disowned their parents and walked away from them never to talk to them or see them ever again.....
Same goes with salvation, if you choose to walk your own way instead of walk by faith/fruits of the Spirit/how the Lord said then you are not walking the narrow path. Apostle James clearly says a person who wanders away from walking in the faith, their soul is not saved unless they come back to the Lord (5:19-20).