Luke 16; Lazarus and the Rich Man...
Luk 16:19 There was a certain rich man, which was clothed in purple and fine linen, and fared sumptuously every day:
Luk 16:20 And there was a certain beggar named Lazarus, which was laid at his gate, full of sores,
Luk 16:21 And desiring to be fed with the crumbs which fell from the rich man's table: moreover the dogs came and licked his sores.
Luk 16:22 And it came to pass, that the beggar died, and was carried by the angels into Abraham's bosom: the rich man also died, and was buried;
Luk 16:23 And in hell he lift up his eyes, being in torments, and seeth Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his bosom.
Let's note here that they can see one another.
Luk 16:24 And he cried and said, Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus, that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue; for I am tormented in this flame.
The can speak to and hear one another.
Luk 16:25 But Abraham said, Son, remember that thou in thy lifetime receivedst thy good things, and likewise Lazarus evil things: but now he is comforted, and thou art tormented.
Luk 16:26 And beside all this, between us and you there is a great gulf fixed: so that they which would pass from hence to you cannot; neither can they pass to us, that would come from thence.
There is a barrier between them that cannot be breached.
Luk 16:27 Then he said, I pray thee therefore, father, that thou wouldest send him to my father's house:
Luk 16:28 For I have five brethren; that he may testify unto them, lest they also come into this place of torment.
Luk 16:29 Abraham saith unto him, They have Moses and the prophets; let them hear them.
Luk 16:30 And he said, Nay, father Abraham: but if one went unto them from the dead, they will repent.
Luk 16:31 And he said unto him, If they hear not Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded, though one rose from the dead.
Now let's take these conditions and see how they apply. Let's assume that a Christian woman has a wayward son. He gets robs a gas station and in the process kills the clerk. On the way out the police surround the building and he decides to shoot his way out and is killed by police gunfire. His mother is so overcome by grief she has a heart attack and dies. She goes to heaven and the son obviously goes to hell. Now...
She is in heaven and can see her son burning. She can see the skin being burned off and the muscles and tendons burned black. She can hear his screams and shrieks of unimaginable agony. Remember the barrier? She cannot go to him or render any aid to comfort him, all she can do is watch him suffer in agony for all eternity.
Please tell me which is heaven and which is hell? I can't see any difference.