Homosexuality is not a choice!!!!

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Its not. People are born a sexuality. No one can choose to just be attracted to a certain gender.
Just curious have you had a doctor test your hormone levels or brain chemistry makeup, though I know it may be costly to check everything that make us man or woman and or the attraction mechanism in the brain.... but in my view it's a underlying defect of the body either on the surface or deep within the body. Defects are real just look at the people born with both private parts.
 
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Homophobia? I see Chriostophobia in what you are saying. Indeed you do seem to be compromising what the word of God says with what the world says. Are you in fear of reprisal from your friends if you speak the truth and stand up for what is right and good?

One who identifies with homosexuality or any other sin has a stronghold of the mind and needs deliverance and right teaching. One who agrees with that person is also in need of correction. It is obvious that these people have yet to be able to place their thoughts under subjection to Christ, and need true Christian counsel and discipling.


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Scripture in the Word of God says those who continue to practice (means acts out on physically) will not inherit the kingdom of heaven.

If a person is or has homosexual feelings and is acting out on them, then after they come to Christ never again act out on those feelings even though they may have the thoughts linger in them at times. They are not living in sin !!!

The thought by itself is not a sin.....................

That is the lie that has been passed around that the thought alone is sin, but Jesus and James both say and show it has to be accompanied by lustful feelings as well.

That means they still deeply in their heart want to act out on them !!!

Now if we are going to make all thoughts by themselves sin like this, then none of us are saved !!!
 
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Scripture in the Word of God says those who continue to practice (means acts out on physically) will not inherit the kingdom of heaven.

If a person is or has homosexual feelings and is acting out on them, then after they come to Christ never again act out on those feelings even though they may have the thoughts linger in them at times. They are not living in sin !!!
One is submitting to sin if one is not taking authority over the thoughts, but rather allowing them to linger unabated. God says in His word we are to take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ. He wants to free us of wrong thinking, and help us have clear--and clean minds that honour God.

The thought by itself is not a sin.....................

That is the lie that has been passed around that the thought alone is sin, but Jesus and James both say and show it has to be accompanied by lustful feelings as well.

That means they still deeply in their heart want to act out on them !!!

Now if we are going to make all thoughts by themselves sin like this, then none of us are saved !!!
God can come in and deliver us of thought patterns that open one up to the sin of lust. If you aren't taking them captive and subduing them by the power of Jesus Christ, then you are still in bondage. We can be rebellious in our minds as well.

2 Corinthians 10:3-6
We are human, but we don’t wage war as humans do. [SUP]4 [/SUP]We use God’s mighty weapons, not worldly weapons, to knock down the strongholds of human reasoning and to destroy false arguments. [SUP]5 [/SUP]We destroy every proud obstacle that keeps people from knowing God. We capture their rebellious thoughts and teach them to obey Christ. [SUP]6 [/SUP]And after you have become fully obedient, we will punish everyone who remains disobedient.

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One is submitting to sin if one is not taking authority over the thoughts, but rather allowing them to linger unabated. God says in His word we are to take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ. He wants to free us of wrong thinking, and help us have clear--and clean minds that honour God.



God can come in and deliver us of thought patterns that open one up to the sin of lust. If you aren't taking them captive and subduing them by the power of Jesus Christ, then you are still in bondage. We can be rebellious in our minds as well.

2 Corinthians 10:3-6
We are human, but we don’t wage war as humans do. [SUP]4 [/SUP]We use God’s mighty weapons, not worldly weapons, to knock down the strongholds of human reasoning and to destroy false arguments. [SUP]5 [/SUP]We destroy every proud obstacle that keeps people from knowing God. We capture their rebellious thoughts and teach them to obey Christ. [SUP]6 [/SUP]And after you have become fully obedient, we will punish everyone who remains disobedient.

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They are taking authority over them if they are not acting out on them !!!

Do you never have a wrongful thought come into your mind ???

If you say no then you are a liar as we all think wrongfully at times, it is only when we act out on it that it becomes sin and leads to death.

Read what Apostle James says on this as he shows clearly in James 1:14-16 that it is when it becomes full grown to become action is when it leads to death. Not the thought itself as that only leads to giving birth to sin when you let desires or emotions get involved, and they in turn lead to sinful action.

Again if we are going to place the thoughts themselves as the sin that leads to death then none of us are saved !!!

Bringing the thoughts captive to the obedience to Christ means that we by the help of the Holy Spirit stop them before they become action.............
 
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Its not. People are born a sexuality. No one can choose to just be attracted to a certain gender.
What I do not understand is why people who vet the members ( I presume some one looks at them) do not pick up on names they use "Pinkie Kleen lol z". there seem to have been a few of these time wasters on here recently, may be their IP address should ring alarm bells, and subjects with dodgy titles should start ringing bells. I am not answering the post because the poster has been banned. whether they can view as a guest I do not know, but we should not give them any credence.
 

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Homophobia? I see Chriostophobia in what you are saying. Indeed you do seem to be compromising what the word of God says with what the world says. Are you in fear of reprisal from your friends if you speak the truth and stand up for what is right and good?

One who identifies with homosexuality or any other sin has a stronghold of the mind and needs deliverance and right teaching. One who agrees with that person is also in need of correction. It is obvious that these people have yet to be able to place their thoughts under subjection to Christ, and need true Christian counsel and discipling.
Your perverted sin nature then denies that you are a sinner, while you proclaim instead that it is a sin to identify as a sinner (which is not a Biblical idea at all though you erroneously promote it as such since you are so egregiously deceived by Satan); clearly you are in need of the saving grace of Jesus Christ our Lord. Repent! Admit you are a sinner and stop spreading your Satanic lies. You are so blinded and deceived you cannot even see that I am saying the Grace and Truth found in Jesus Christ is efficacious for all who claim it as per Sripture. This Grace and Truth has the same saving power to save with your admission to being a sinner as it does with any gay person's admission to being a sinner. You are not better than a gay person despite your flaunting aggrandizements. Their admission of of sin and identifying as being gay in and of itself is not a sin. You promote heresies.
 
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They are taking authority over them if they are not acting out on them !!!

Do you never have a wrongful thought come into your mind ???

If you say no then you are a liar as we all think wrongfully at times, it is only when we act out on it that it becomes sin and leads to death.

Read what Apostle James says on this as he shows clearly in James 1:14-16 that it is when it becomes full grown to become action is when it leads to death. Not the thought itself as that only leads to giving birth to sin when you let desires or emotions get involved, and they in turn lead to sinful action.

Again if we are going to place the thoughts themselves as the sin that leads to death then none of us are saved !!!

Bringing the thoughts captive to the obedience to Christ means that we by the help of the Holy Spirit stop them before they become action.............
What on earth are you defending so ardently?

When we have authority over sin, we can also have authority over pour thought life. Don't you know that Satan can plant thoughts and impressions in our heads? We can cast them out and rout that beast from our lives completely. God wants people who are victorious in all ways---and that includes right thinking, free of sinful thoughts.

I am not talking about the odd, random wicked thought that comes to mind which we have a duty to cast aside, but about the constant haranguing thoughts that many people, especially those who battle with homosexuality have to deal with. They can be free---COMPLETELY. It's just not OK to have to continually deal with such attacks. Don't relent. Cast them out once and for all by the power and authority of Jesus Christ.


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Your perverted sin nature then denies that you are a sinner, while you proclaim instead that it is a sin to identify as a sinner (which is not a Biblical idea at all though you erroneously promote it as such since you are so egregiously deceived by Satan); clearly you are in need of the saving grace of Jesus Christ our Lord. Repent! Admit you are a sinner and stop spreading your Satanic lies. You are so blinded and deceived you cannot even see that I am saying the Grace and Truth found in Jesus Christ is efficacious for all. This Grace and Truth has the same saving power to save with your admission to being a sinner as it does with any gay person's admission to being a sinner. You are not better than a gay person despite your flaunting aggrandizements. Their admission of of sin and identifying as being gay in and of itself is not a sin. You promote heresies.
It is definitely a wrong thing to claim you are a sinner when your sins have been wiped away, and your spirit is now the dwelling place of God. What you say is unbiblical is not so.

Satan has not deceived me at all regarding this. In fact he uses voices like yours to attack me for speaking the truth. He hates it.


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It is definitely a wrong thing to claim you are a sinner when your sins have been wiped away, and your spirit is now the dwelling place of God. What you say is unbiblical is not so.

Satan has not deceived me at all regarding this. In fact he uses voices like yours to attack me for speaking the truth. He hates it..
The lie you continually bleat is tiresome. Saying it is a sin to admit one's self a sinner saved by Grace shows you are deceived by Satan... if you call yourself a Christian, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. It never fails to amaze me how ignorant people can be. Go hug a gay person and tell them Jesus loves them and died for them. His righteous blood has just as much power to save them as it does to save you, if you repent of your hate filled heresies.
 

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1 John 1:8
If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.

The truth is not in you, Euphemia. Repent!
 
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The lie you continually bleat is tiresome. Saying it is a sin to admit one's self a sinner saved by Grace shows you are deceived by Satan... if you call yourself a Christian, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. It never fails to amaze me how ignorant people can be. Go hug a gay person and tell them Jesus loves them and died for them. His righteous blood has just as much power to save them as it does to save you, if you repent of your heresies.
Bleat? LOL! Tiresome, you say?

Magenta, it is a sin to claim one is a sinner continually, when one has experienced (hopefully) the freeing power of the blood of Jesus over their sin! It reveals a false humility...and some real ignorance about who one is in Christ.

Homosexuals are loved by God and I love them because He does. It is tragic that they have a perversion that has beset their minds and hearts. Jesus can save them and also DELIVER THEM completely.

Look at it this way:

Being saved is only half the equation, for God wants strong soldiers to stand up to the enemy and to defeat him. When one still has a battle in the mind going on, he has a distraction and cannot be a good soldier on the battlefield. We whoa re strong have to shield and protect him as if injured. He needs to be made completely free to stand shoulder to shoulder with the rest of the battalion. God wants us to be a strong army, fit for battle, and not a motley, distracted and besieged crew.

Are you up to the task of bringing salvation's message to these lost people and then working with them to set them free of their bonds, or do you see them say a prayer and then pat them on the head and say, bye-bye? smh!

Note well:
Just as Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead, He instructed his FRINDS to unwrap him from his restrictive graveclothes.


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Take your self righteous self aggrandizing bleating elsewhere. Your pretensions to have anything of value to teach me on this subject just show further how deceived you are. Straw men don't cut it either. Stop spreading your Satanic lies. It is not a sin to identify as being a sinner. It is not a sin to simply identify as being gay. You spread lies.
 
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Take your self righteous self aggrandizing bleating elsewhere. Your pretensions to have anything of value to teach me on this subject just show further how deceived you are. Straw men don't cut it either. Stop spreading your Satanic lies. It is not a sin to identify as being a sinner. It is not a sin to identify as being gay. Y
There is nothing self-righteous in me. I possess the righteousness of Jesus Christ, however. You must see it, and that is vexing you for whatever reason...most likely because you have an opposing spirit about this one topic.

Someone who has been born again and has experienced the goodness of God, and has met the Saviour, Jesus Christ personally, cannot call himself a sinner any longer. God doesn't call us that, so why hold so tightly to that appellation? Do you find comfort in it? Does it make you feel humble ("Oh, I am just a poor sinner!")? That is not humility. It is a lie of the enemy.

It is equally wrong for a Christian, saved by grace and set on solid ground on Jesus Christ, to align himself with evil and call himself a homosexual.

Your views contradict what the grace of God brings to us.
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They are taking authority over them if they are not acting out on them !!!

Do you never have a wrongful thought come into your mind ???

If you say no then you are a liar as we all think wrongfully at times, it is only when we act out on it that it becomes sin and leads to death.

Read what Apostle James says on this as he shows clearly in James 1:14-16 that it is when it becomes full grown to become action is when it leads to death. Not the thought itself as that only leads to giving birth to sin when you let desires or emotions get involved, and they in turn lead to sinful action.

Again if we are going to place the thoughts themselves as the sin that leads to death then none of us are saved !!!

Bringing the thoughts captive to the obedience to Christ means that we by the help of the Holy Spirit stop them before they become action.............
Hi KennethC. I'm curious how you reconcile the passage from James with what Jesus said here:

[h=1]Matthew 5:27-28New King James Version (NKJV)[/h]27 “You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.


I tend to think that sin acted out in thought alone is still sin conceived. Unless you mean the random thoughts that we are able to resist not being sinful, in which case I would agree.

Also, do we sin ever in thought, or in action, after being saved? Would someone who conceived sin after being saved truly be saved? I ask this because you said none of us would be saved if the thoughts were sinful and that seemed to imply that we don't sin after being saved.
 
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What on earth are you defending so ardently?

When we have authority over sin, we can also have authority over pour thought life. Don't you know that Satan can plant thoughts and impressions in our heads? We can cast them out and rout that beast from our lives completely. God wants people who are victorious in all ways---and that includes right thinking, free of sinful thoughts.

I am not talking about the odd, random wicked thought that comes to mind which we have a duty to cast aside, but about the constant haranguing thoughts that many people, especially those who battle with homosexuality have to deal with. They can be free---COMPLETELY. It's just not OK to have to continually deal with such attacks. Don't relent. Cast them out once and for all by the power and authority of Jesus Christ.


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I will state again as the bible lays out, that only when it becomes action and controls our lives does it become the sin that leads to death.

Apostle John speaks on the struggling Christian in 1 John 5:14-17, as he speaks on sin that leads to death and sin that does not lead to death. The sin that leads to death is the unrepented sins that are acted on, not the thoughts !!!

It also speaks on a Christian who has repented but is still struggling to stop committing their sin/s, we are to pray for them to keep moving forward and letting the Holy Spirit help them to overcome their sin.......Yet their salvation is not in jeopardy !!!

Salvation only comes in jeopardy if the one completely walks away from the faith in Jesus !!!
 
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I will state again as the bible lays out, that only when it becomes action and controls our lives does it become the sin that leads to death.
Ahhh, but it is for us to make sure our minds are RENEWED in Christ by the washing of the word.

Romans 12:2
And do not be conformed to this world [any longer with its superficial values and customs], but be transformed and progressively changed [as you mature spiritually] by the renewing of your mind [focusing on godly values and ethical attitudes], so that you may prove [for yourselves] what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect [in His plan and purpose for you].




Do you not realize that the mind is a battlefield? We need to clean up our stinkin' thinkin' and get on with living righteously and not allow ourselves to be tainted by an evil thought life. No one has to remain stuck in a vile rut of an evil thought life.

Victory is possible in Jesus Christ by the power of the Holy Spirit.



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Hi KennethC. I'm curious how you reconcile the passage from James with what Jesus said here:

Matthew 5:27-28New King James Version (NKJV)

27 “You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.


I tend to think that sin acted out in thought alone is still sin conceived. Unless you mean the random thoughts that we are able to resist not being sinful, in which case I would agree.

Also, do we sin ever in thought, or in action, after being saved? Would someone who conceived sin after being saved truly be saved? I ask this because you said none of us would be saved if the thoughts were sinful and that seemed to imply that we don't sin after being saved.

Notice how Jesus in this passage says "looks at a woman to lust for her"..........

That means that the intention is grown far beyond just a thought and feelings have taken over to the point the person wants to act it out. Even though the physical act has not taken place yet, Jesus is saying getting to this point is just as bad because if the opportunity presented itself we would not stop from carrying it out.

This has gone beyond just a mere thought and has grown into covetous want, the next step is the actual physical act.

1 John 5:14-17 talks about the struggling Christian and the sins that lead to death and sins that don't..........

Sins that don't lead to death are repented of sins that have been stopped or the person is still struggling with them but wants to stop. Sins that lead to death are unrepented sins that a person still deliberately and willfully continue doing !!!

Gay people can completely turn their lives around in Christ, and I have seen it happen, but we should not be condemning or saying a person is condemned who is still struggling in this way to stop it !!!

We are not to condemn others any way, and we are always to operate in Love, Mercy, and Forgiveness !!!
 
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Ahhh, but it is for us to make sure our minds are RENEWED in Christ by the washing of the word.

Romans 12:2
And do not be conformed to this world [any longer with its superficial values and customs], but be transformed and progressively changed [as you mature spiritually] by the renewing of your mind [focusing on godly values and ethical attitudes], so that you may prove [for yourselves] what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect [in His plan and purpose for you].




Do you not realize that the mind is a battlefield? We need to clean up our stinkin' thinkin' and get on with living righteously and not allow ourselves to be tainted by an evil thought life. No one has to remain stuck in a vile rut of an evil thought life.

Victory is possible in Jesus Christ by the power of the Holy Spirit.



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Yes victory is possible in Jesus Christ, but a struggling Christian is not lost or condemned !!!
 

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We need to clean up our stinkin' thinkin' and get on with living righteously and not allow ourselves to be tainted by an evil thought life. No one has to remain stuck in a vile rut of an evil thought life.
I hope you hop to it and renounce and repent of your hateful homophobic hog swallop, the Satanic vile and evil lies of deception you spread by saying it is a sin to acknowledge oneself a sinner. You are stuck in an evil thought life to promote such harmfully erroneous beliefs. Repent, Euphemia! Repent of your sin and error and embrace the grace and truth extended through Jesus Christ, for He is mighty and righteous, saving to the utmost those who turn to Him and acknowledge their sin... you as much as any gay person, despite your protestations to the contrary. Vile and evil lies, be gone! It is not a sin to identify as a gay person any more than it is a sin for any sinner to identify as a sinner. Your stinkin thinkin stinks to high heaven.
 
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1 Timothy 1:15

This is a faithful saying, and worthy of all acceptation, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners; of whom I am chief.


Paul said this while instructing Timothy, and also in Philippians 3 Paul told them that he is not perfect yet and has not attained the goal of the resurrection. When Paul wrote this to the Philippians it was about 30 years after his conversion !!!
 
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