How Is A Christian Lady Supposed to Dress?

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Rosesrock

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Originally Posted by JesusLives
If Adam and Eve had not sinned we would all be walking around naked, covered in God's light.....just saying.....think about that for awhile.....

Rose; Um now thats cool


Hey, wait........If Adam and Eve had not sinned, none of us would be here
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JesusLives

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Originally Posted by JesusLives
If Adam and Eve had not sinned we would all be walking around naked, covered in God's light.....just saying.....think about that for awhile.....

Rose; Um now thats cool

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Hey, wait........If Adam and Eve had not sinned, none of us would be here
Sure we would it would just be the perfect version of ourselves through God......He had each one of us planned from the foundation of the world.....He formed and created us in the womb.....we just would have been perfect....but our first parents ate the forbidden fruit and here we are discussing what Christian women should wear.... Clothes was my original answer and I'm sticking with that answer.....
 

p_rehbein

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Sure we would it would just be the perfect version of ourselves through God......He had each one of us planned from the foundation of the world.....He formed and created us in the womb.....we just would have been perfect....but our first parents ate the forbidden fruit and here we are discussing what Christian women should wear.... Clothes was my original answer and I'm sticking with that answer.....
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Without the "fall?" Hmm, I don't think so. It was only because of their disobedience that they became aware. However, it is a moot point for it is what it is........ :)
 
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i am a feminist...and this kind of thinking annoys me to no end...

this idea that leadership roles including 'the very top' are superior to or more honorable than the other roles is a male centric paradigm that goes back to societies in which -whatever roles the men held- were considered to be the more honorable roles that implied a greater worthiness...

just the use of the word 'top' to refer to a specific role implies a mindset of social stratification...

if you still think one role is 'the very top' and the other roles are 'lower' then you are still playing by -their- rules...

anyone who thinks being a 'leader' is inherently superior to being a 'helper' should try spending just one day 'leading' an army of nobody with no help from anyone...

now i am just going to stop before this becomes a rant...
Thank you Rachel, your comments are well taken. All I am suggesting is that when a woman is qualified for a leadership position, she should be considered on her qualifications alone without any regard for her gender. I believe that on this issue at least the bible is reflecting societal attitudes rather than a divine ordinance. We are no longer living in a tribal society of 2000 years ago.
 
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Without the "fall?" Hmm, I don't think so. It was only because of their disobedience that they became aware. However, it is a moot point for it is what it is........ :)

But,but.but Didn't God tell Adam and Eve to be fruitful and multiple BEFORE they fell? :confused:

Genesis 1

[SUP]24 [/SUP]And God said, Let the earth bring forth the living creature after his kind, cattle, and creeping thing, and beast of the earth after his kind: and it was so.
[SUP]25 [/SUP]And God made the beast of the earth after his kind, and cattle after their kind, and every thing that creepeth upon the earth after his kind: and God saw that it was good.
[SUP]26 [/SUP]And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth.
[SUP]27 [/SUP]So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.
[SUP]28 [/SUP]And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.

[SUP]29 [/SUP]And God said, Behold, I have given you every herb bearing seed, which is upon the face of all the earth, and every tree, in the which is the fruit of a tree yielding seed; to you it shall be for meat.
[SUP]30 [/SUP]And to every beast of the earth, and to every fowl of the air, and to every thing that creepeth upon the earth, wherein there is life, I have given every green herb for meat: and it was so.
[SUP]31 [/SUP]And God saw every thing that he had made, and, behold, it was very good. And the evening and the morning were the sixth day.
 

p_rehbein

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Hmm............good point.........however, I wonder how they were going to accomplish all that multiplying when they didn't even know of their own nakedness?

Anyway.........as I said, it's a moot point now..........
 

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I realize I am coming late to the discussion, we spent the day at the lake.

First - the OP fails to address the cultural issue which Paul is addressing. This was not about simple jewellry or braids. This women were Greeks and Romans and they had several servants and spent hours getting their hair braided and interwoven with jewellry. It was a frivolous waste of time and money, and the whole point was to show off in front of the other women.

Second, there really is a cultural element to clothing. I have always dressed very modestly, especially for church and because I play in the worship band. So long sleeves, long skirts, and covered up top. Well, that worked very well for Edmonton, with 6 months of winter, and never that hot in the summer.

But since moving to BC, it is HOT! Texas kind of hot! I was shocked to see all the sleeveless dresses, and shorts worn in church. My husband was shocked to see the men dressed in shorts, and wearing thongs and sandals and even commented on it a few months ago. (Interesting that I noticed the women, and he noticed the men!)

So I loosened up a bit, started wearing a sleeveless dress without a sweater. Well, when it is in the high 90's by lunch (35+C) you really need to wear something light. I still won't wear see through or halter tops, but I am not going to chastize someone else for doing it.

As for makeup, I've never been a big wearer of makeup - just sun screen foundation and some mascara to show that I actually have eyelashes, mine are so light. In Canada, we are not big make up wearers. I always remember the mothers on the American hockey teams at tournaments, and being so shocked the amount of makeup they were wearing. But they were all doing it, so I think that was part of their culture. I confess, as a hockey mom I was so busy fundraising and driving to 4 am practices in the US, that make up wasn't a consideration.

I think when Paul was writing a pastoral letter, he was addressing specific situations in that church. In the case of 1 & 2 Timothy, he was addressing Ephesus, a city with a lot of issues. We need to be culturally aware, not dress in a sexualized manner, which is the essence of modesty. But how that plays out depends upon where we live, and maybe even the time we live in.
 

p_rehbein

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Chapter 2:

22 .) And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
23 .) And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
24 .) Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
25 .) And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

Chapter 3:

6 .) And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat.
7 .) And the eyes of them both were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together, and made themselves aprons.

And all the stuff that followed.........still, good point. But I'm fairly sure they had not "known" each other prior to their being thrown out of the Garden..........can't say specifically, but pretty sure.

But that does give some thought to what the world would have/could have been
 

NotmebutHim

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I realize I am coming late to the discussion, we spent the day at the lake.

First - the OP fails to address the cultural issue which Paul is addressing. This was not about simple jewellry or braids. This women were Greeks and Romans and they had several servants and spent hours getting their hair braided and interwoven with jewellry. It was a frivolous waste of time and money, and the whole point was to show off in front of the other women.

Second, there really is a cultural element to clothing. I have always dressed very modestly, especially for church and because I play in the worship band. So long sleeves, long skirts, and covered up top. Well, that worked very well for Edmonton, with 6 months of winter, and never that hot in the summer.

But since moving to BC, it is HOT! Texas kind of hot! I was shocked to see all the sleeveless dresses, and shorts worn in church. My husband was shocked to see the men dressed in shorts, and wearing thongs and sandals and even commented on it a few months ago. (Interesting that I noticed the women, and he noticed the men!)

So I loosened up a bit, started wearing a sleeveless dress without a sweater. Well, when it is in the high 90's by lunch (35+C) you really need to wear something light. I still won't wear see through or halter tops, but I am not going to chastize someone else for doing it.

As for makeup, I've never been a big wearer of makeup - just sun screen foundation and some mascara to show that I actually have eyelashes, mine are so light. In Canada, we are not big make up wearers. I always remember the mothers on the American hockey teams at tournaments, and being so shocked the amount of makeup they were wearing. But they were all doing it, so I think that was part of their culture. I confess, as a hockey mom I was so busy fundraising and driving to 4 am practices in the US, that make up wasn't a consideration.

I think when Paul was writing a pastoral letter, he was addressing specific situations in that church. In the case of 1 & 2 Timothy, he was addressing Ephesus, a city with a lot of issues. We need to be culturally aware, not dress in a sexualized manner, which is the essence of modesty. But how that plays out depends upon where we live, and maybe even the time we live in.
Great post, Angela! :)
 
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Chapter 2:

22 .) And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
23 .) And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
24 .) Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
25 .) And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

Chapter 3:

6 .) And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat.
7 .) And the eyes of them both were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together, and made themselves aprons.

And all the stuff that followed.........still, good point. But I'm fairly sure they had not "known" each other prior to their being thrown out of the Garden..........can't say specifically, but pretty sure.

But that does give some thought to what the world would have/could have been

One of those questions you need to ask God about when you see Him? :)
 
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As much as i agree that human trafficing is alive and well, a girl dressed up looking fine, as you say is not at fault. How about we pray for the sexualized nation we live in that has a high percentage of men addicted to porn.

Ill always add. My oldest daughter who looks like a nun herself....lol modest, no makeup cause she needs none, was followed in walmart and later found out it was an active human trafficking ring. So let's not mix these subjects to be clear.
Most men in human trafficking are professional cons in suits and ties.
Yes Mam please excuse me for my rambling spirit got cared away, human trafficking is a whole other topic for sure .. i mentioned a Woman looking bling bling.. though I quoted womenrights.org front page writings.
human rights suppression may it be a ant size or mountain size I can get work up lol.. Seems gotten out of hand anymore when there's so much else that's bad in this world. I didn't even mention clothing on the topic arrg..

The topic, If a homeless woman or man with torn and battered clothing hasn't showered in some time with food bags for shoes on the feet
walks into a church is this person rightly dressed or wrongly dressed.?
 

melita916

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i forgot to add on my post that i don't wear make up. i don't think it's bad. i'm just lazy. lol!
 
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I'll answer to this question only.
I'll do it shortly because I didn't take the time
to read all the message below the question.
The question is : How is a Christian Lady supposed to dress?


I'll answer by simply relaxed.
Like Jeans, T-Shirt, Shoes relaxing, etc...
Normal and Simple clothes...

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atwhatcost

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I agree about the femenism and being a Christian. If you mean that you are a true feminist like in Biblical standars, sure, feminists are Christians, no doubt about it. Femenism has been hi-jacked by women who hate the Biblical character of the woman ("Let the younger women marry and bare children, guide the house..." etcetera).

I know I was not entirely being specific about short skirts being worn. I meant that short skirts were starting to be worn somewhere in the middle of the 20th century, I just didn't want to look up all of the history on Wikipedia or somewhere else. Short skirts being worn way earlier in the 20th century than I stated does not negate the fact that showing your thigh is called nakedness in the Bible.

And thank you for bringing up the bathing costumes as well. A Christian should cover his nakedness at all times, even at a swimming pool or at the beach. I should've also brought up the fact that men showing their thighs is also called nakedness. To cover the nakedness of the priests of Israel, God said he made them breeches that were from the loins to the thigh. That covered their nakedness, which was from their loins to the thigh. So this text is saying the same as Isaiah 47. Look up this text for youself because I can't remember exactly where it says this, but I'm very sure the Bible talks about this. Women and men should cover their nakedness, of course, i.e. their thighs. Your are correct. Thanks for bringing this up as well.

Also, if any clothing is attracting women or men to lust after the other person, it is sinful to lust at it but the person who is wearing the inappropriate clothing is responsible as well. And no, I am not going to say that men who rape women that wear short skirts or short shorts or skinny jeans have the right to do so. They are sinning because they're doing something plain horrible. The woman is equally guilty for wearing it (knowingly). If she doesn't know, she must probably haven't read the Bible (atheist) or prayed to the Lord to show her what modest apparel is.
When Jacob was dying in Egypt, he had all his sons come for their blessing and to get them to make him a promise. The promise was to take his body with them when the family left Egypt and to bury him with his father and grandfather. (Isaac and Abraham) in the family tomb. He made Joseph promise him by putting his hand under Jacob's thigh.

Well, many of mt Dead Guys (commentators) believe the word their isn't quite so much "thing" as it is "inside the thigh." To put it politely, Jacob had Joseph promise by cupping the very organ that gave him life -- connected to the groin.

So, if you're going to compare this to women's "thighs" and men's "thighs," I'm pretty sure the vast majority of us keep the groin covered in public. That changes the whole topic of "thigh" altogether, doesn't it?
 
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atwhatcost

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I'm just paraphrasing the Bible so ignorant Christian girls or women who are seeking to do the will of the Lord might understand the reasons why the Bible is talking about these issues. I'm not telling you what to do, I'm just bringing a reminder since so many Christians out there dress like the world and you can see their breasts and their buttocks. You think I'm just being mean against Christian women just to have the feeling of power over you? I love God's creation - male and female - and I want nothing but the best for them so I just warn them and say "Hey, you might've missed what God's Word has to say about modesty and nakedness!"
Read Titus 2 again. It's not your job to teach nor warn Christian girls or women, ignorant or otherwise.
 
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atwhatcost

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If Adam and Eve had not sinned we would all be walking around naked, covered in God's light.....just saying.....think about that for awhile.....
And then I'd have to gouge out every woman's eyes for looking at my hubby like that.

(Problem with trying to image everyone neked is then I have to imagine everyone sinless, and I can't. lol)
 
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EdisonTrent

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i forgot to add on my post that i don't wear make up. i don't think it's bad. i'm just lazy. lol!
You Look great with none, though probably if you had some on, well I guess indeed there wouldn't be a shortage of eyes gazing :)