It is clear you do not understand what mutations
are.
I'm sure, when you hear the word 'mutation', you think of severe
deformities. These are examples of mutations, but they aren't the only types of
mutations. Most mutations are subtle.
For example, an animal that eats
leaves might be born with slightly longer necks than their parents. This is a
mutation. If the population of animals eats all the lower leaves on trees, the
animals with longer necks will be able to reach higher leaves and have a better
chance of living long enough to reproduce. They pass down their mutated genes
until they become more commonplace.
Mutations may or may not be
destructive - it depends on the mutation.
Please watch this following
video. It briefly goes over what evolution is, and more importantly, what
evolution isn't. It addresses many of the incorrect claims you made in your
post.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XdddbYILel0
If you're
going to speak against evolution, make sure you know what evolution is and what
it suggests first. For example, you have this idea that humans should be able to
change genders or self replicate, and since they can't, evolution isn't real.
But that's not what evolution is, nor is it what evolution
suggests.