How to promote unity while acknowledging doctrinal differences

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Rosesrock

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If we spend too much time worrying about the way another person fellowships, worships, prays etc we forget to be grateful for the way the Lord has called us? Isn't the Christian walk about obedient gratitude. It's what I strive for. Shouldn't the way we conduct ourselves and love God be contagious?
In my house we having a saying, im only responsible for me, in this regard....so when interactibg with peeps, the love of christ comes out. We're not to focus on fixing others, that's the holy spirits job.,,,pray on the other handm sums that up nicely
 
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I'm not sure I understand your point.

The Creeds are not in opposition to the bible. The Creeds are not objects of worship. The Creeds provide a clear and concise summation of the essentials of the faith.

There are Christians from varying denominations who argue over these very essentials (the Trinity, for example, comes to mind here). These arguments are based one one of two things: 1) a lack of understanding about basic orthodoxy and/or 2) an idiosyncratic interpretation of scripture.

There are some believers that are ignorant, for example of the history surrounding the Creeds. Once they discover the heretical battles that the Councils were addressing (namely gnosticism and arianism), they will often realize that some battles have already been resolved by the Church and need not be refought.

Additionally, the Creeds also supply a rational basis for understanding "heresy." So, "heresy" isn't based on some opposition to an idiosyncratic interpretation of scripture. It's based on opposition to the clear ideas understood about our faith from the very foundations of the Church.
I agree with this! I humbly recite the Nicene Creed every Sunday and I believe it
 
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UH,this is not at all what is happening here.

Men of God are being trashed wholeheartedly over some ingrediant.

This is an across the board attack against a group of members of the body of christ.

utube smears gone haywire,and bleeding over into CC.

The casualties are expected,planned,and some even are rejoicing over their wounded bodies.

Nice Job cessationists!!!!!
I'm not a cessationist

However, there is no excuse for upholding false doctrine because one has a favorite teacher/pastor/ (cough cough) prophet

There is no across the board attack going on and that remark is typical of the kind of rhetoric that sweats up an arguement.

It is geared to create defensiveness and retaliation

Typical and easily recognized....but it is not inspired by the Holy Spirit

It is either of the flesh or well...the other choice

The only casualty is the one given in to by those who cannot stand to have anyone hold up the word and declare their pet doctrines are not found IN that word

And then we have the 'God told me" club and a close second (and actually evil IMO) the 'God told me to tell you club'

I have more experience then I actually wish to have with the abuse of the gifts and the fleecing the sheep that goes on

Men of God you say? well, if they are only men, then surely they are not above inspection?

There have been some utterly outrageous statements made around here lately...it is grievous and very misrepresentational of any actual gifts God may choose to give

God is not a God of the hoopla circus that it seems most who believe in the gifts attend and endorse these days

And no, God is not going to defend you against me...I have on many occasions prayed that God defend ME against the people who abuse what God calls good

The pride and vanity of some, who think that their word is as good as God's written word, is astounding and yet they do not recognize that because they are deceived
 

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The Creeds predate the canonization of scripture and even helped the Councils determine which texts were genuinely from God and which were not.


This is simply untrue. The Gospels and the letters of Peter and Paul were 'canonised' in 1st century AD. (Paul's letters were already seen as Scripture). The creeds did not predate this. Nor did they help in 'determining which texts were genuinely from God.' The Apostles creed limited itself to outlining 'historical facts'. The Nicene (Athanasian) Creed added to that later views about Jesus Christ's divinity. Neither deal with the doctrine of salvation, or of the Holy Spirit in any detail. That is why they are a basis for 'unity' of a kind. But it is unity based on basics.


 
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valiant

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I agree with this! I humbly recite the Nicene Creed every Sunday and I believe it
If only you stuck to it for your teaching you would have less problems on here :)
 

Budman

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Nice Job cessationists!!!!

While I may be one, I contend others are certainly entitled to believe otherwise. It's not a salvation issue.

But, when it comes to truth in regard to salvation, we can not stand on the sidelines as heresy runs wild. Souls are at stake. Unity for the sake of peace, at the expense of God's clearly revealed word and will, is never worth it.

Be it here or in the "real" world.
 
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Does anyone here actually think it is godly to constantly smart mouth and disparage other believers and actually state that God basically informs you about others, revealing their thoughts and heart?

I honestly think there are a few on these boards, whose main mission is to seed disention and arguing

I'm being as serious as I get right at this moment. I firmly believe that whether or not you believe tongues is for today or whether or not you raise your hands when you worship, is not something to argue about...oh for sure I have participated in threads where certain topics get a little hot to handle

But I honestly do not hate people nor do I wish bad on anyone nor do I really like to argue...it is far more pleasant for brethren to worship God as He is and not how we are

However, there are those, who may not be aware of what they do, who are the catalyst for arguements starting.

Why is that? They are offended and offense is not from God

Now when someone inserts a truly insidious doctrine that makes the sacrifice of Christ a bargaining chip for heaven that one can trade along with their own good deeds, I think it MUST be denied and pointed out how evil that is.

However, when someone wants to argue about their own experience with regard to spiritual things or state they are an authority on spiritual things, I see them as rogue...apart from the body...the intent is not to create unity...and by that I mean unity IN Christ which is all we really have actually...the act of arguing their own case draws attention to THAT PERSON and away from Christ

And THAT, is definately one of the characteristics of something false

I've seen it in church, I've seen it in home Bible studies, I've seen it at conferences and it is alive and well here

The truth...and this may be considered a paradox at times or by some...actually will draw the attention of the lie so that they smack in to each other. We have the truth of God and the lie which may mimic the truth but is not at all the truth.

As perfect and Holy as Jesus is, He was held up as a blasphemer before all people and crucified for us

There is no truth that is better then what Christ says about Himself, and that is why I utterly reject all the words that in any way, shape or form do not line up with His truth...HE is truth

Private revelation can be a very dangerous thing...and often just a little twisting can deviate so far from the Word by the time it has travelled a few miles, so as to be a new doctrine and one that is a lie
 
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I think there are legitimate reasons for denominational separation. Being Southern Baptist, I have certain opinions on the charismatic gifts, so I wouldn't be comfortable in a Pentecostal church that openly practices them.

By the same token, most Pentecostals wouldn't be comfortable in my church, as we have a general order of service that includes praise, prayer, and solid biblical teaching, whereas some Pentecostal denominations have a more free-form worship style -- however and wherever the Holy Spirit leads, including those same things but not necessarily in any particular order.

Yet again, the bottom line is Jesus Christ. But I believe both types of worshipers can truthfully say He is their bottom line.
I wouldn't be comfortable with Pentecostal practices either. I'm not down with the snake handling.
 

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Does anyone here actually think it is godly to constantly smart mouth and disparage other believers and actually state that God basically informs you about others, revealing their thoughts and heart?

I honestly think there are a few on these boards, whose main mission is to seed disention and arguing

I'm being as serious as I get right at this moment. I firmly believe that whether or not you believe tongues is for today or whether or not you raise your hands when you worship, is not something to argue about...oh for sure I have participated in threads where certain topics get a little hot to handle

But I honestly do not hate people nor do I wish bad on anyone nor do I really like to argue...it is far more pleasant for brethren to worship God as He is and not how we are

However, there are those, who may not be aware of what they do, who are the catalyst for arguements starting.

Why is that? They are offended and offense is not from God

Now when someone inserts a truly insidious doctrine that makes the sacrifice of Christ a bargaining chip for heaven that one can trade along with their own good deeds, I think it MUST be denied and pointed out how evil that is.

However, when someone wants to argue about their own experience with regard to spiritual things or state they are an authority on spiritual things, I see them as rogue...apart from the body...the intent is not to create unity...and by that I mean unity IN Christ which is all we really have actually...the act of arguing their own case draws attention to THAT PERSON and away from Christ

And THAT, is definately one of the characteristics of something false

I've seen it in church, I've seen it in home Bible studies, I've seen it at conferences and it is alive and well here

The truth...and this may be considered a paradox at times or by some...actually will draw the attention of the lie so that they smack in to each other. We have the truth of God and the lie which may mimic the truth but is not at all the truth.

As perfect and Holy as Jesus is, He was held up as a blasphemer before all people and crucified for us

There is no truth that is better then what Christ says about Himself, and that is why I utterly reject all the words that in any way, shape or form do not line up with His truth...HE is truth

Private revelation can be a very dangerous thing...and often just a little twisting can deviate so far from the Word by the time it has travelled a few miles, so as to be a new doctrine and one that is a lie
I'd give this post a rep, but I'm out of reps for Ember. I know what I'm about to suggest is a little off topic but sort of addresses this.
Why can't there be not only an ignore button available for all to use, but also a 'barring' button available for those who start a thread? That way they can prevent the participation in that particular thread of those they deem as divisive. Of course the door swings both ways but still I think it might work.
 
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tourist

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I'd give this post a rep, but I'm out of reps for Ember. I know what I'm about to suggest is a little off topic but sort of addresses this.
Why can't there be not only an ignore button available for all to use, but also a 'barring' button available for those who start a thread? That way they can prevent those they deem as divisive. Of course the door swings both ways but still I think it might work.
That's not a bad idea.
 
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Viligant_Warrior

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Crossnote and I need two voluteers to rep Ember. We both "gotta spread it around first" and while we're good at spreading stuff, we apparently haven't done enough of that.

 
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Does anyone here actually think it is godly to constantly smart mouth and disparage other believers and actually state that God basically informs you about others, revealing their thoughts and heart?
I think it's possible that some of the "scrappers" who are ready to throw down at any small offense are not necessarily trying to deliberately create discord. Some people are so emeshed with issues of shame that they have a love/hate relationships with other people. They desperately seek the approval of the larger group, and equally fear that they will never have it. Any perceived slight triggers their shame.

Brene Brown describes shame as "the intensely painful feeling or experience of believing we are flawed and therefore unworthy of love and belonging." She also says that "shame begets shame," and recommends that when we are experiencing shame that we don't text, or call, or email, or post on social media.

In other words, if our sense of shame has been triggered (whether deliberately or not), it's highly likely that our response will not be a representation of our best self. So, what can be seen as "argumentative" or "disparaging" is maybe less about aggression and more about fear. After all, shame is basically the ultimate fear that we are completely unlovable.

One of my all-time favorite verses is "He has not given us a spirit of fear, but of love and of a sound mind." I think, perhaps, the answer to the *problem of the scrappers* might not be to ostracize or shame them more. It might need to involve some kindly applications of empathy, sincere prayer, and fierce love.
 

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I'd give this post a rep, but I'm out of reps for Ember. I know what I'm about to suggest is a little off topic but sort of addresses this.
Why can't there be not only an ignore button available for all to use, but also a 'barring' button available for those who start a thread? That way they can prevent the participation in that particular thread of those they deem as divisive. Of course the door swings both ways but still I think it might work.
Can't help you! I'm out of reps for Ember, too!
 
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Crossnote and I need two voluteers to rep Ember. We both "gotta spread it around first" and while we're good at spreading stuff, we apparently haven't done enough of that.

I did it for ya!
 

Angela53510

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So are we looking for unity at the expense of doctrine??

I think the whole problem with this forum would be solved if two things happened.

1. People stopped personally attacking and name calling other members of the board. Think before you post! Are you countering a point, or hurting the person? Are you being intractable and thinking only you have the truth, or are you willing to look at the Scriptures in context and see what God says about it. (Not the preaching of some person or leader!)

2. The mods simply need to patrol this forum more. That might mean appointing more mods. And they need to fully check out the reports. Some people have been running amuck and there seems to be no consquences for that behaviour. (Thinking of Speak Your Mind last night)
 
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Viligant_Warrior

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I think it's possible that some of the "scrappers" who are ready to throw down at any small offense are not necessarily trying to deliberately create discord. Some people are so emeshed with issues of shame that they have a love/hate relationships with other people. They desperately seek the approval of the larger group, and equally fear that they will never have it. Any perceived slight triggers their shame.
There is also the aspect of these same people needing to affirm their worth through being right. It is a game they can only play in their own mind, but the way they see it, everyone judges them on their being right or wrong, and when confronted with a differing opinion, it blows their cover and they must respond defensively.

Amen, thanks, MPW.

 
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I'd give this post a rep, but I'm out of reps for Ember. I know what I'm about to suggest is a little off topic but sort of addresses this.
Why can't there be not only an ignore button available for all to use, but also a 'barring' button available for those who start a thread? That way they can prevent the participation in that particular thread of those they deem as divisive. Of course the door swings both ways but still I think it might work.

hmmm...I'm think that might be a revolving door...wouldn't that be too easy? like say a works based salvation person starts a thread and the rest of us have to read the nonsense without even refuting it/

how about a UNLIKE button instead? Like I unlike this post...with minus ratings ... not really being serious but you never know..