Hyper grace is a problem if it is actually walking in the world and justifying worldly self indulgence above walking in the Lord.
My experience here and in the church is people are deeply troubled and conflicted within their hearts, but use anything to cover it up. Wealth is often the first layer of reassurance people reach out to, or a super spiritual miracles zapping view, or I do not have to change because x is true.
Jesus promises us reality.
And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or fields for my sake will receive a hundred times as much and will inherit eternal life.
Matt 19:29
Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.
Matt 5:8
For this people’s heart has become calloused; they hardly hear with their ears, and they have closed their eyes. Otherwise they might see with their eyes, hear with their ears, understand with their hearts and turn, and I would heal them.
Matt 13:15
These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.
Matt 15:8
A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.
Luke 6:45
The Lord brings consistency and reality to our hearts, so we behave on the surface the same as we are inside.
Now if people who talk about anything, but cannot acknowledge these realities, does not know Jesus.
It is impossible to love until you have loved and accepted yourself, warts and all. It is impossible to love until you see people as flawed and needy as yourself. It is impossible to have spiritual parents, children, brothers and sisters until you know how to be these things to others. This is real maturity, real righteousness, being an over-comer.
Why is it therefore the "spiritual" camp find these words or realities so hard to accept?
What I have read here about Jesus and grace is what I experience over 30 years ago. It maybe new to you, but it is not news to me. What is wrong is the desire do condemn everyone else as religious if their expression is not the same.
This is not walking in grace at all, but condemnation. So I am very skeptical that this is not just self indulgence and often pure escapism.