Back in the 70's I read a book about the suffering of christ. It blew my mind, humbled my heart and reduced me to tears.
There is nothing I can do compared to Jesus. His works are everything, His words like pure gold, His inspiration the best, His goals the noblest in all creation.
Once you see that looking at works becomes empty, they are a mere response to this glory. Any believer who is trying to be good will never achieve it, because it is only by dwelling, sharing and being in God that we can achieve anything.
For me this is sharing my heart with the Lord, praise and worship, being in the Spirit.
Ofcourse for those not taken into this place everything is out of place. The fact you cannot look at the law without condemnation means you are not dwelling close enough to Jesus, and your heart is condemning you. But you need to hear the word of the Lord, because if the words of the Lord bring condemnation, you need to get right with God. Repent of those deeds and actions, walk in the forgiveness of the cross. There is no better testimony of denied failure than this.
If you walk in the spirit, with love uppermost, the law does not condemn you, but testifies that you know Jesus.