To the OP question.,
I'm really going to get a tongue lashing now so maybe I should
say this then run for the hills Lol.
BY THE WAY I SAY THIS TO MYSELF AS WELL, I AM AS GUILTY OF
THE FOLLOWING AS EVERYONE ELSE, POSSIBLY MORE SO BEING A WOMAN
WHO GETS PMT (perplexing muddled turmoil)
.
Why big letters? Because I need to remind myself of the above.
So here goes clears throat and opens mouth in fear and trembling-
Pride - my understanding is better than your understanding
Immaturity - how dare you say that to me, you are going to get it now (stamps feet)
Lack of love - I'm going to tear your post to pieces and be extremely unkind
Lack of discernment - instead of assuming that was a joke or that maybe I
have misunderstood as I cannot see your facial expressions, or maybe that
your grasp of the English language means there may be misunderstandings,
I'm going to assume instead that you were being deliberately evil in your intent.
Lack of patience - I can't be bothered to read your post properly but I just saw
that word in the middle. I'm gonna take it completely out of context and assume
you said something you didn't.
Lack of forgiveness - you upset me in your last post, I'm going to criticise everything
you post from now on
Own internal problems - I'm feeling angry, upset, ill, emotional. The next person
who posts had better duck!
Own unresolved conflict - everyone is so mean to me, including you.
Pride again - if I do say something wrong/hurtful and someone genuinely points
it out (in a right way), I'm not going to say sorry - never, ever, ever.
OH WOW I AM SO GUILTY OF A LOT OF THINGS
Incidentally it is great to search the scriptures, and dig out those nuggets of wisdom
discussing what they mean and to have everyone's opinions. I love reading the early
parts of threads in the BDF and often get my thinking cap on. But then the
above inevitably creeps in and I no longer want to read the threads, let alone post
in them - and I then become guilty of all of the above I suppose, but in a passive
way!
OK - let me put on my blind fold before you shoot me!