So where is God in all of this? How is evolution true and the Bible true? What am I missing? Is He the Creator or not?
Kaylgrl, if you want my opinion, evolution or not, it doesn't matter.
I dare any Sola Fide believer to tell me otherwise, that this doctrine alone leads to hell. Faith alone in Christ for salvation - I'm unaware of anyone who claims evolution saves in any way, or that believing it is imperative to salvation. Plenty who say it damns (even if repenting and having faith in Christ), but never heard anyone say it saves.
This is a matter of perspective, and to be honest Kaylgrl, I think both models are awe-inspiring depending on how you look at it.
You could think of a God that brings something out of nothing - He speaks and it is there. No way any of us could ever do that. He speaks these things, they are there and day upon day adding to His creation like one adding strokes to a canvas. I can see how one would find that inspirational.
What about the idea that you are a fraction of a fraction of a speck in time? Evolution presents the idea (spiritually) that God hasn't finished creating - that even as He intervenes in our lives, and loves us, He is still molding us. And in the Big Bang model, you know what we are? We are remnants of stars, once shining very very bright and burning blazing hot that burst billions of years ago. To some people, that's a memorizing thought.
To think of how short your life is, and how old the earth is in this model, is very humbling. It's not a literal order of Genesis, but that's not the intent behind this model, as it drew its conclusions based on what we see now in the cosmos. Some tend to think that a map of creation, an instruction manual for would-be gods if you will (I jest), is not the point of Genesis. But the Creator and the creation itself is the point. To get hung up on the details, imo, is to miss the point and that is that the God who created everything has awesome power, creativity, and love. Creativity, the ability to bend and look at things in different ways. And you contradict that understanding in condemning others for such a belief, and it's not even related to one's salvation or not.
CS Lewis has some interesting things to say about this theory, as he appears to have leaned more towards it than YEC - yes, even after his conversion.
Taking DNA, and slowly morphing it, adapting to the environment generation upon generation. No way any of us could ever do that, either. You can say it's a man-made belief, it is is certainly not a model man himself can duplicate.