Love thy neighbour as thyself; for all the law is fulfilled in this one command.
1. Active, true love realises God's way is perfect, and does not wish to have any other Gods. It is not simply a case of 'not having other Gods', it's a case of 'not WANTING to have other Gods.
2. Real love does not make itself idols above God. Because God's way, again, is perfect. If the kingdom of God, as Jesus says, is within us, then how can we even expect anything at all from outside of us? Why would worshipping an idol (or having an idol) even benefit us or others?? Love realises there is no point in bowing down to things, nor to people. only self sacrificing love brings the joy God wants for us. Love does not even WANT an idol.
3. Love realises that using God's beautiful and Holy name to incite evil, to judge, to get one up, to war, fight, argue or belittle, or to be unpatient, unkind, uncharitable, harsh, angry, bitter, resentful, envious or anything else in God's name, is total blasphemy against the forgiving, loving, nurturing Father that brought us all into existence to love one another.
4. Love realises that God rested on the seventh day, and to not honour that with our own rest (from selfish work. ie. Our jobs) brings His name into disrepute. If we spend all our time for ourselves and none for the Lord, then all we do is for ourselves. Jesus healed on the sabbath, and so we should look to inward thought and outward action on this day to help others and not ourselves. And eventually do this on ALL days. We are the one's who must do GOD's work on Earth to honour Him and Jesus. To give and love is our calling. Love is not selfish.
5. Love realises that respecting one's mother and father is akin to respecting God, for He is our father. If we truly respect God's word, patience, forgiveness and kindness, then we will honour and respect our own parents, and of course our neighbours.
6. To take another human life is not an action of a human servant, but of a power-hungry tyrant. I am a sinner and I deserve death. I will bring it upon no-one else. Only God should have this power.
7. My wife and I (eventual wife) will be one flesh. Let not what God has joined, man separate. My wife deserves all my love and patience, my trust, as I deserve hers. None of us are perfect, yet to unconditionally love her is a great calling and a blessing.
8. Do not steal. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in truth. If I shall break this commandment, I shall return what I have taken and leave myself at the owner's mercy. Not because I am commanded, but because I wish to love others. Because I have guilt. Because I have realised god's way and my wrongdoing against another person. To give is of God. To take is not.
9. To say 'you sinner' or 'you thief' or 'you harlot' or 'you murderer' is to condemn myself because I have murdered in my heart and thoughts, if even not in physical activity. I am no better than any other person. And my judgement counts for nothing. I am imperfect. I wish only to love others as God wants me to.
10. For me to desire and be jealous of another man's possessions is to say 'i deserve what he has'. It is to put a silly possession above God. God only wishes us to love. It is not loving for me to be jealous of another man. The man comes first in my thoughts, not what he owns or has. All things on the Earth will fade, blemish and die but love will always remain. Let me be humble in this manner, because love sees past possessions. They mean nothing.
In summation, the commandments are not things we 'should do or else'. They are things we should 'want to do because'.
And the because, for me, is simply, 'because I understand what love is now'.
1. Active, true love realises God's way is perfect, and does not wish to have any other Gods. It is not simply a case of 'not having other Gods', it's a case of 'not WANTING to have other Gods.
2. Real love does not make itself idols above God. Because God's way, again, is perfect. If the kingdom of God, as Jesus says, is within us, then how can we even expect anything at all from outside of us? Why would worshipping an idol (or having an idol) even benefit us or others?? Love realises there is no point in bowing down to things, nor to people. only self sacrificing love brings the joy God wants for us. Love does not even WANT an idol.
3. Love realises that using God's beautiful and Holy name to incite evil, to judge, to get one up, to war, fight, argue or belittle, or to be unpatient, unkind, uncharitable, harsh, angry, bitter, resentful, envious or anything else in God's name, is total blasphemy against the forgiving, loving, nurturing Father that brought us all into existence to love one another.
4. Love realises that God rested on the seventh day, and to not honour that with our own rest (from selfish work. ie. Our jobs) brings His name into disrepute. If we spend all our time for ourselves and none for the Lord, then all we do is for ourselves. Jesus healed on the sabbath, and so we should look to inward thought and outward action on this day to help others and not ourselves. And eventually do this on ALL days. We are the one's who must do GOD's work on Earth to honour Him and Jesus. To give and love is our calling. Love is not selfish.
5. Love realises that respecting one's mother and father is akin to respecting God, for He is our father. If we truly respect God's word, patience, forgiveness and kindness, then we will honour and respect our own parents, and of course our neighbours.
6. To take another human life is not an action of a human servant, but of a power-hungry tyrant. I am a sinner and I deserve death. I will bring it upon no-one else. Only God should have this power.
7. My wife and I (eventual wife) will be one flesh. Let not what God has joined, man separate. My wife deserves all my love and patience, my trust, as I deserve hers. None of us are perfect, yet to unconditionally love her is a great calling and a blessing.
8. Do not steal. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in truth. If I shall break this commandment, I shall return what I have taken and leave myself at the owner's mercy. Not because I am commanded, but because I wish to love others. Because I have guilt. Because I have realised god's way and my wrongdoing against another person. To give is of God. To take is not.
9. To say 'you sinner' or 'you thief' or 'you harlot' or 'you murderer' is to condemn myself because I have murdered in my heart and thoughts, if even not in physical activity. I am no better than any other person. And my judgement counts for nothing. I am imperfect. I wish only to love others as God wants me to.
10. For me to desire and be jealous of another man's possessions is to say 'i deserve what he has'. It is to put a silly possession above God. God only wishes us to love. It is not loving for me to be jealous of another man. The man comes first in my thoughts, not what he owns or has. All things on the Earth will fade, blemish and die but love will always remain. Let me be humble in this manner, because love sees past possessions. They mean nothing.
In summation, the commandments are not things we 'should do or else'. They are things we should 'want to do because'.
And the because, for me, is simply, 'because I understand what love is now'.