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Here is how someone else explained it:

A lot of people seem to be thinking that in Romans 7 Paul is a believer. I'd be surprised is a believer has never heard, "Read Romans 7, this is Paul speaking, a mature Christian in the faith, yet he struggles with sin."

I am making this post to those who have been deceived into thinking Romans 7 is Paul as a believer and I'm going to show you how we know it is Paul as an unbeliever. The reason I post this is as a warning. In Ezekiel it teaches that if a righteous man turns from his righteousness, all his righteous deeds will be remembered no more and he will die in his iniquity. We are commanded to repent from not just some sins, but all sins. So, please. Don't be deceived by those stating that it is okay to struggle with sin. Note: I do not speak as one perfected.

Anyways, on to Romans 7.

Let's start with verse 1:
"Do you not know, brothers and sisters -- for I am speaking to those who know the law -- that the law is binding on a person only during that person's life time?"

In verse one we see that Paul is addressing Christians, but not necessarily Gentiles, but the Jews (those who know the law). Therefore, we see that in this passage Paul is speaking as a Jew, not a Christian (though he was a Christian while writing this).

Paul then states that the law is bound during that person's life time. He then gives the example of how when a spouse dies you are free to marry because you are no longer bound to them by law (vv.2-6).

Onto verse 14. Paul states:
"For we know that the law is spiritual; but I am of the flesh, sold into slavery under sin."

Refer back to verse 1. Keep verse 1 in mind. Paul is saying that he was once under the rule of the law which was Spiritual, but because he was fleshly, sold under sin, he could not obey (vv.15-17). We know a believer is no longer of the flesh, nor is a believer under sin as a slave. Christ came to set us free. Therefore, Paul is speaking pre-conversion. We cannot be under the flesh under Christ. It's impossible (Romans 6:2).

Now, verses 17-18:
"But in fact it is no longer I that do it, but sin that dwells within me. For I know that nothing good dwells within me, that is, in my flesh. I can will what is right, but I cannot do it."

This solidifies that Paul is referring to pre-conversion. First we have the fact that Paul says it is sin dwelling in him, but we have died to sin (Romans 6:2). But let's continue, Paul then says, " For I know nothing good dwells within me." Hold on a minute, if Paul is saved, isn't Christ in him? So how can he say, "...nothing good dwells within me." Clearly he was speaking pre-conversion. But then Paul makes it even MORE clear, he says: "that is, in my flesh." Ahah! Paul was speaking about being "in [his] flesh." In other words, pre-conversion because the flesh is dead in Christ (as we'll see in a minute). You're probably thinking: "But Paul says, 'I can will what is right, but I cannot do it.'" Yes, but remember, Paul was a Pharisee. Of course he wanted to keep the law. Even unbelievers see that the commandments are good.

Verse 21 says:
"So I find it to be a law that when I want to do what is good, evil lies close at hand."

Again, refer to verse 1. Paul is speaking to those who know the law. He is showing us that there is a law of sin that we are bound under and he cannot do good under this law. But Christ has freed us from that law (again, we'll see this in a minute). He continues to show that he is a captive to the law of sin that dwells in his members (verse 23).

Then in verse 24, the famous phrase we've all heard before:
"Wretched man that I am! Who will rescue me from this body of death?"

We so conveniently leave out verse 25:
"Thanks be to God through Jesus our Lord!"

Now we move onto chapter 8. Bear in mind, when Paul was writing there were no "Chapters," so this is essentially the same context.

In chapter 8 verse 2:
"For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death."

Therefore, we have been set free from the struggle Paul was experience in Chapter 7. And it gets even clearer in Chapter 8 verses 7-8:
"For this reason the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God; it does not submit to God's law -- indeed it cannot [sounds a lot like Romans-7 Paul] and those who are in the flesh cannot please God."


And here is who the Christians are in Capter 8 verses 9:
"But you are not in the flesh; you are in the Spirit, since the Spirit of God dwells in you. Anyone who does not have the Spirit of Christ does not belong to Him."

We now see that Paul was not a believer in Romans 7 but speaking pre-conversion, whereas in Romans 8 we see him as being freed from Romans 7 through Christ.

Lastly, I post this as a warning to those who think it is okay to struggle with sin. Romans 8:12-13:

"So then, brothers and sisters, we are debtors, not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh -- for if you live according to the flesh, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live."

The reason I show this is because I believe it's very clear. Many of us believe eternal security. And right now I'm mixed on it. So, I post this as a warning. In those verses Paul is addressing "brothers and sisters," therefore, addressing Christians. He then says that Christians have the option to A) Live by the flesh or B) Live by the Spirit. He then states if you chose option A you will die, but if option B, you will live.

In case you say, "No but salvation is eternal." Well, consider people who have believed in vain (1 Cor. 15:2), those who have been severed from Christ (Gal. 5:4), fallen from grace (Gal. 5:4), continued in sin and no longer have a sacrifice for their sins (Heb 10:26), etc. But to show it more clearly, Revelation 22:19 says, "if anyone takes away from the words of the book of this prophecy, God will take away that person's share in the tree of life and in the holy city, which are described in this book." Now, in order for God to "take a persons share" away, they had to be participants in that share initially. Therefore, it is possible to have a share, but then have it removed. But this is another discussion. However, if you want it more clear read Ezekiel 18.

Hope this was helpful, and if there is any untruthfulness in this I ask that God guards your mind.
 
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Well, I disagree with your analysis. Being that I've studied Romans 7 for a long time and many people have said that. I believe that was a testimony of Paul that we will still struggle with sins even though we are justified with Christ.
 
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Of course we will go through temptations, but be tempted is not a sin.
Sin is anything contrary to God and His nature right? I know that sounds overly-simplistic, but it is, because God is perfect and divine. When we sin, we are rebelling against the laws He has written in our hearts.

I know its hard to stay pure, especially nowadays, but we should make no excuse for sin, we should stop sinning, we should be made perfect, the kingdom of God is inside of us. Let us keep our temples holy and be made purified and transformed in the renewing of our minds and into the image of our God's Son, our Lord, Jesus Christ. :)
 
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Of course we will go through temptations, but be tempted is not a sin.
Sin is anything contrary to God and His nature right? I know that sounds overly-simplistic, but it is, because God is perfect and divine. When we sin, we are rebelling against the laws He has written in our hearts.

I know its hard to stay pure, especially nowadays, but we should make no excuse for sin, we should stop sinning, we should be made perfect, the kingdom of God is inside of us. Let us keep our temples holy and be made purified and transformed in the renewing of our minds and into the image of our God's Son, our Lord, Jesus Christ. :)

okay. I'm not making an excuse for sin or say its okay. I'm just saying we should strive to be perfect, but we aren't. We should strive not to sin, but we will. WE will sin until we get our glorified bodies.
 
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God forbid.
We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. I hope that I never sin against God ever again :/

I don't want to..

He is perfect, holy, true, mighty
He is worthy, he is worthy of all honor, glory, praise.. he is worthy of all our affection and time, all our appreciation and obedience, he is worthy, he is our KING, the great, the powerful, the perfect, the one. Aw, we serve a great God, the living God!
 
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I agree with 'foundthe truth' is it? And the others.
Your body is the temple. We need to live in the Spirit and not the flesh.

Just say God sends you a man or woman. That is a gift. You think of the person and love them and your heart is full of love. It grows and grows. You want to be with them so much. This is love and should be kept pure in the sight of God. However to masturbate, from the minute you do it, you have ruined something. I do believe that masturbation is wrong. But thats just my view.

If you are married and you masturbate and think of someone other than your partner, then you have committed adultery in your heart and in deed as well. You have sinned. And once you are aware of it, then you need to repent and stop.
 
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God forbid.
We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. I hope that I never sin against God ever again :/

I don't want to..

He is perfect, holy, true, mighty
He is worthy, he is worthy of all honor, glory, praise.. he is worthy of all our affection and time, all our appreciation and obedience, he is worthy, he is our KING, the great, the powerful, the perfect, the one. Aw, we serve a great God, the living God!

Hate to break it to you, but you will sin against God again as I will. We're not going to agree so we'll just agree to disagree.
 
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The bible tells me that I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me and yes, that includes sin. If you can provide me some verses that say we have to/are going to sin again? It is entirely possible to not sin and God doesn't want us to sin anymore. Sin is a lie; It does not satisfy. It is a lie, a big fat lie, it is time to wake up out of this delusion that sin is our friend, that "small" sins are ok, that its fine.. but no its not, sin is sin and I hear what you're saying, I really do.. I have tried, on my own power to not sin, and I have failed miserably, but with Christ.. I (and you) can do anything
 
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You know what. . I like the women caught in adultery story, here was a women who was in the wrong and should have been stoned to death, but what did Jesus do, he bagan writing the sins of those accusing her in the dirt, adn asked them if any of them were without sin to cast the first stone. . one by one they left. . who here is without sin?
let him be the first to cast the stone. . or perhaps allow Jesus to speak to those who are in sin. . I think he would say, "neither do I condemn you, now go, sin no more"

that is all. . .
 
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The bible tells me that I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me and yes, that includes sin. If you can provide me some verses that say we have to/are going to sin again? It is entirely possible to not sin and God doesn't want us to sin anymore. Sin is a lie; It does not satisfy. It is a lie, a big fat lie, it is time to wake up out of this delusion that sin is our friend, that "small" sins are ok, that its fine.. but no its not, sin is sin and I hear what you're saying, I really do.. I have tried, on my own power to not sin, and I have failed miserably, but with Christ.. I (and you) can do anything

hah okay:)
 
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Philippians 4:13 "I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me."

All things :)