Here is a big issue I have, and people may take this many ways, but this is show I see it.
When I am given a new believer to help disciple or Sheppard in his new life. I first take him to the basics o the gospel to help him understand, why they needed saved, What God's had planned all along to do to in his goal to restore man to himself. What God actually did, the meaning of the cross, and make sure they understand what it is they have done by choosing to place their faith in Christ.
Once I am sure they understood this, I next talk about what it is they now have in christ as the basis for who they are and what it will take to help them grow
1. I will tell them What God says about them, They are redeemed, they have been bought with a price, They have been justified, they have been born again, What do all these things mean. That God has perfected them forever, and is now in the process of sanctifying them, That God has begun a good work in them, and he promises to complete it until the day of Christ, That they have eaten from the food which endures forever, and have Gods assurance they will never die, never hunger and thirst (need to know what is the meaning of life) That you have eternal life, You will live forever, and you have gods assurance he will raise you on the last day. That you were dead, but now are alive, You where gods enemy, now you are Gods beloved child. That you were not given a spirit of fear, but of peace love and a sound mind, A spirit of adoption whereby we call out abba father, Take him to all the places like eph 1 where we are shown our inheritance as sons of God. How God will never leave us or forsake us, That even if we walk away, God will leave everything and come to bring us back, Because he is the good Sheppard. and we as sheep know his voice, and will follow. because he will guide us back.
Tell him as John said, it is the knowledge that we have eternal life which is the basis for our continued faith in him, and we need to take the promises of God, memorize them and put them in our heart because the evil one is going to try to take those away from us, so that when trial and tribulation and suffering comes, we lose faith and struggle mightily
Then, we have some here that want me to say after all this, After saying, God will finish what he started, he has perfected you, He will never let you fall.. Now, if you do not abide and grow, you will be cut off and cast into hell, You will lose salvation, you will forfeit your eternity
I am sorry, its bad enough that as a mature believer who would hear these things, I would ask, what about all yu just spent all these weeks telling me about what I have in christ, Now your saying this?
But as a new babe in christ. what would I think? Everything you just spent weeks telling me us nonsense, how can I trust you when you tell me all those things, and now just contradicted yourself and made me doubt God. If God will never leave or never fail, and will finish his work, how could I fall away? Hw could he let me fall, if he promised to never let me fall to begin with?
This is legalism 101, it takes away from God, and places the onus on self. Forgive me if I refuse to tell a child of God yes, God hod promised all these things, But then again, You better watch out, because you can fall away, even though he promised he would never let you.