I don't disagree with the content of your post in general, but men do have the bigger responsibility
women are not called the priest of the home
nor have they ever been priests according to scripture
I understand. We may not agree on every point, and that is okay.
So much of what we think about gender roles is socially constructed rather than emphatically stated in scripture, so I am always searching the scripture to see if what we are being told about gender roles is true. This is what the Bereans did in Acts 17:11.
I was raised up in an Apostolic church, so I'm familiar with the idea that the husband is priest of the home.
But what verse tells us that the husband is priest of the home?
You said, "Women have never been priests according to scripture."
I would agree that in the Old Testament, the Israeli priests were a group of qualified MEN from within the tribe of Levites.
What does the New Testament say about the priesthood?
Just food for thought.