I was just trying to get him to commit himself to what he believed 1 John 3:9 meant. But since he was unwilling to do that, the conversation stopped because it's pointless to keep going around in circles.
That is absolutely ridiculous.
You quit the conversation because you got backed into a theological corner. You claimed, and continue to claim, that one has to cease from all sinning or lose their salvation.
1 John 3:9 Goes one step farther and says one who is born of God
can not sin - period.
You, however, still sin. every single day. Just like everyone else. Yet, you place yourself up on a pedestal and judge the conduct of others while doing the very same things they are.
Which makes you nothing but a hypocrite.
The words that are translated as cannot in 1 John 3:9 actually mean not able. Of course any man is able to sin, so this verse cannot be saying (meaning it's impossible) that one born of GOD doesn't have the ability to sin.
Wow. That is so off base it's not even in the ballpark anymore.
The verse says exactly what it means. Just because you don't accept that it's means exactly what it says, doesn't make the verse mean what you want.
John is talking about the two natures. One, the flesh, with it's sin and sinful desires, verses the new nature we have via Christ, which does not sin, nor can sin. Our salvation, and how we are judged, is based on our new nature in Christ. That's why we can never lose our salvation, nor can we ever come into condemnation again, despite the fact the old nature still sins, and desires to do nothing but.
And once again, to answer the charge that you salvation-by-works people level against us: We do NOT advocate living a sinful lifestyle simply because we cannot lose our salvation. God will chastise any wayward child - as a good Father does - because we are to live a life that is pleasing to God.
BUT, yet again, how we live our lives has no bearing on whether or not we keep our salvation. That matter was settled at the cross. Our salvation is based entirely on the finished work of Jesus. We are holy, righteous, and sinless because that is what He is, and what His nature in us proclaims. It's imputed, imputed, imputed.
Jesus will not lose a single Christian based on how that Christian lives. If one is an actual born-again believer, they are as much assured of heaven as God will go on existing.