Paster Women?

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JosephsDreams

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Of course not, I did not suggest that, about the sex. And I am not suggesting that anyone divorce their wives. I am saying that words can be shallow. That when people are forced through hardship to actually examine their words and actions that they often can see more clearly.
 
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Hmm Paul said women should not speak in Ecclesia.

1 Corinthians 14:34 KJV
Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law.
He says this here in Romans,

Romans 3:19 Now we know that what things soever the law saith, it saith to them who are under the law:
that every mouth may be stopped, and all the world may become guilty before God.

Whereas earlier in the 1 Corinth epistle he also says,

1 Cr 9:20 And unto the Jews I became as a Jew, that I might gain the Jews;
to them that are under the law, as under the law, that I might gain them that are under the law;


Which is followed up behind with

1 Cr 13:24 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law.

Although no one knows where that is there

But before all of those he says

1 Cr 9:8 Say I these things as a man? or saith not the law the same also? (and then he goes into what is written there)

Because as to them that know the law as one under (and refers to the law there) he might speak as a man

Romans 3:5 But if our unrighteousness commend the righteousness of God, what shall we say?
Is God unrighteous who taketh vengeance? (I speak as a man)

Although that there seems to be more in accord with their ability to hear, but he does ask them if he says these things as a man and when then quotes the law when he appeals to the law not speaking the same, whereas on that one he didnt.

But I will go ask my husband
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Here is how you should test the conviction of your beliefs. If your wife told you she was going to preach, would you divorce her? The bible talks about disobedient wives...
"Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives. "(1 Peter 3:1)
You love the Lord, and want to obey him right?
So tell me that the act of your wife as a co-pastor (or is that cold pasta?) is so horrendous in your site that you would forbid it and take it to its end.
You could actually look her in the eye with conviction and say that you would alter your relationship with her over that?
What if she said no sex? I bet a lot of men would change their minds fairly quick. Because then many would mull over it and actually realize, that the argument is not all that rational, or Christ like. Not all of them would, but a lot would. So much for staunch beliefs.
It's not horrendous to me, I could care less if women are Pastors or not. If my wife chooses to go against God's word then that's her perogative, it's not going to affect my love for her. Same with you, if you like women pastors then yea for you... just don't twist the bible to say something that it doesn't say.
 
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Then can a drunk be a pastor? If we can disobey the word then why can't a violent person be a pastor?

Maybe someone thinks God is telling them to divorce their wife. The truth is that God wrote it down because people lie and God's plumb line by which He judges us is His word.
How about the Kansas City Chief? (I know it's not connected to what we're taking about, but neither are your questions.)
 

JosephsDreams

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I did not say it would effect your love for her. I said you seem to be such a staunch supporter of God's word, you yourself said, if it is in God's word we should obey it. Would you insist on your convictions by "ordering" your wife to cease and desist? You seem to be of the camp that takes Gods word with little understanding of exegesis, so are you consistent? God's word says woman submit you your husbands. So is she to submit, or not?
Your reply, that you would let her be, is inconsistent with your view of woman pastors. You can't have it both ways. It is either no woman pastor, and wives submit; or not. Which is it for you??
 
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I think we should do a test who can insult the other best and who has the most emotional reaction. Then we know and it's a nice way to all become best friends.
Or were we already doing that in this thread?

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I quoted a sentence that does get an emotional reaction from most hetrosexuals. I really wasn't saying Utah is gay, nor was I saying women aren't bothered by that one.

I get offended when I'm considered a brainless hunk of meat. Most men get offended when their manliness is questioned. Sure. I've got no problems when folks get emotional over slander and ridicule, but Utah thought only women take it personally when it's about gender-related slander and ridicule. Different buttons to push, but same feeling -- offended.
 
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I did not say it would effect your love for her. I said you seem to be such a staunch supporter of God's word, you yourself said, if it is in God's word we should obey it. Would you insist on your convictions by "ordering" your wife to cease and desist? You seem to be of the camp that takes Gods word with little understanding of exegesis, so are you consistent? God's word says woman submit you your husbands. So is she to submit, or not?
Your reply, that you would let her be, is inconsistent with your view of woman pastors. You can't have it both ways. It is either no woman pastor, and wives submit; or not. Which is it for you??
Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;


Colossians 3:19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.

How did Jesus love the church? Jesus died for the church so husbands better be prepared to die for their wives and I ended up being a servant to my marriage partner.
 

blue_ladybug

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Some sins are worse then others

​Nope, absolutely not true. ALL sin is equal in the eyes of God's eyes. No one sin is worse than another. Homosexuality is no better nor worse than murder.
 
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He says ''I'' do not permit a woman to teach.its his own opinion and not a commandment. Check romans 16 where he greets 10 woman that are ministers and leaders. God bless
How much Bible do you remove once you divide opinion from fact? Soooo, it's not all the word of God? Some of it doesn't count? How do you decide?
 
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It's just my opinion, but you can't tell me I'm not spiritual, and can't tell me, if there's a choice between a Spirit-filled woman preacher or none, that none is better. Nor could I be convinced a Godly woman should not teach and spread everything of the things of God she can, if the alternative is a Godless void from that person.

Nobody can demonstrate the instance of Paul admonishing women to be silent in church didn't involve a problem with chatty women at the time, in 1 Corinthians 14, as the contextual evidence is that Paul was dealing with a situation of disorder in the congregation. Nobody is even sure whether Paul's message was to married women, only, as single women can't ask husbands anything. There are those who think there was a problem with women chatting with their husbands during the service. While agreeing the woman is not to usurp the man, if a male pastor is available, there was an instance on this message board quite sometime ago, a testimony of a small, rural community, with no man, only a woman to lead the small church there. I agree that legalism that's hard and lacking in common sense, that could even result in a greater evil, such as a vacuum in the body of Christ, is to be avoided, as our Lord also demonstrated, when accused of being lawless by the Pharisees, when the Lord Jesus was doing what was right and of love, first and foremost.

I also think a Godly woman can have a public ministry in the media. Bottom line, we are not under the letter of the law, but the law of love. Rahab the harlot lied about the Jewish spies to protect them, and it was counted as righteous of her, granted such deception a rare circumstance, but the point that all law is not absolute. There are prophetesses in the Bible. Should they have kept their mouths shut, then? If God made an absolute rule women should sew their mouths shut, in terms of any public expression of the things of God, one must suppose He broke His own law, allowing any female to be a prophetess? Goofed, using Deborah as the only worthy person, apparently, to lead the wholly deficient men of Israel?

This is one of those matters that, if I'm wrong, if such thoughts aren't lawful, if God wants all women to just shutup, then I'm not perfect in any event, don't understand all of this, then, and God forgive me for listening to the likes of Jan Markell, who He will have to strike me dead, appear as a burning bush or something, to stop listening to such a good woman of God, whose fundamentalist ministry, I believe, is very much needed in these times. When I hear the things of God coming out of such a woman, better than the mouths of many men, I'm going to tune in to that woman, instead. The likes of Joel Osteen's church could do well to boot him, and replace him with Jan, my vote in the matter.
 

JosephsDreams

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He says this here in Romans,

Romans 3:19 Now we know that what things soever the law saith, it saith to them who are under the law:
that every mouth may be stopped, and all the world may become guilty before God.

Whereas earlier in the 1 Corinth epistle he also says,

1 Cr 9:20 And unto the Jews I became as a Jew, that I might gain the Jews;
to them that are under the law, as under the law, that I might gain them that are under the law;


Which is followed up behind with

1 Cr 13:24 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law.

Although no one knows where that is there

But before all of those he says

1 Cr 9:8 Say I these things as a man? or saith not the law the same also? (and then he goes into what is written there)

Because as to them that know the law as one under (and refers to the law there) he might speak as a man

Romans 3:5 But if our unrighteousness commend the righteousness of God, what shall we say?
Is God unrighteous who taketh vengeance? (I speak as a man)

Although that there seems to be more in accord with their ability to hear, but he does ask them if he says these things as a man and when then quotes the law when he appeals to the law not speaking the same, whereas on that one he didnt.

But I will go ask my husband
;)




He is referring to the man made law of that day.
 
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Chuckt

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​Nope, absolutely not true. ALL sin is equal in the eyes of God's eyes. No one sin is worse than another. Homosexuality is no better nor worse than murder.
In the New Testament Jesus said it would be more bearable on the day of judgment for Sodom than for Capernaum because of Capernaum’s unbelief and refusal to repent after witnessing His miracles (Matthew 11:23-24). The sins of Sodom were identified in Ezekiel 16:49-50 as arrogance, gluttony, indifference to the poor and needy, haughtiness, and “detestable things.”

When Jesus spoke of his second coming and judgment, he warned that among those deserving punishment some would “be beaten with many blows” and others “with few blows” (Luke 12:47-48). He also reserved His most fierce denunciations for the pride and unbelief of the religious leaders, not the sexually immoral (Matthew 23:13-36).

However, remember that whether our sins are relatively small or great, they will place us in hell apart from God’s grace. The good news is that Jesus paid the penalty for our sins and the sins of the whole world at the Cross. If we will repent and turn to Jesus in faith, our sins will be forgiven, and we will receive the gift of eternal life.

Billy Graham's Answer: What is Sin? Are All Sins Equal in God's Eyes?
 
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JesusIsAll

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​Nope, absolutely not true. ALL sin is equal in the eyes of God's eyes. No one sin is worse than another. Homosexuality is no better nor worse than murder.
I believe this is true, with respect to God's perfection and standard thus, but there are worse sinners in scripture. There are levels of evil, obviously, in the human race, a vast distinction between Adolf Hitler and some guy who stole a pen from work, we all, made in the image of God, would agree, as well as God's appointed legal system that rules over us by government.

Luke 12:46-48 The lord of that servant will come in a day when he looketh not for him, and at an hour when he is not aware, and will cut him in sunder, and will appoint him his portion with the unbelievers. And that servant, which knew his lord's will, and prepared not himself, neither did according to his will, shall be beaten with many stripes. But he that knew not, and did commit things worthy of stripes, shall be beaten with few stripes. For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more.
 
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I did not say it would effect your love for her. I said you seem to be such a staunch supporter of God's word, you yourself said, if it is in God's word we should obey it. Would you insist on your convictions by "ordering" your wife to cease and desist? You seem to be of the camp that takes Gods word with little understanding of exegesis, so are you consistent? God's word says woman submit you your husbands. So is she to submit, or not?
Your reply, that you would let her be, is inconsistent with your view of woman pastors. You can't have it both ways. It is either no woman pastor, and wives submit; or not. Which is it for you??
Nobodies perfect man. I sin, she sins, we all sin. Like I said I don't care if women preach or not, it's no different than any other act of disobedience.

Don't talk to me about exegesis man, the bible says what it means and means what it says. The final authority on whether a woman should be a preacher is the bible, not me.
 
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Just about every single person who reads the Bible has a "private" interpretation of what they are reading. You seem to be totally stretching the "private interpretation of prophesy" verse.
I take exception to that. I don't keep my interpretation private.
 
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He is referring to the man made law of that day.
I have heard of that one too, and the tradition one and the trying to squeeze the things in from other places in the law of Moses.

I still like to see things in the scripture from different angles and bring them in that way.
 
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Chuckt

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Of course not, I did not suggest that, about the sex. And I am not suggesting that anyone divorce their wives. I am saying that words can be shallow. That when people are forced through hardship to actually examine their words and actions that they often can see more clearly.
Galatians 2:20 I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.

I wanted to stop following God because people make it so hard. People don't accept me. God kept calling me back and bugging my conscience. My identity is Him now.

It's no longer I that live but Christ that lives in me.
 
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It's just my opinion, but you can't tell me I'm not spiritual, and can't tell me, if there's a choice between a Spirit-filled woman preacher or none, that none is better. Nor could I be convinced a Godly woman should not teach and spread everything of the things of God she can, if the alternative is a Godless void from that person.

Nobody can demonstrate the instance of Paul admonishing women to be silent in church didn't involve a problem with chatty women at the time, in 1 Corinthians 14, as the contextual evidence is that Paul was dealing with a situation of disorder in the congregation. Nobody is even sure whether Paul's message was to married women, only, as single women can't ask husbands anything. There are those who think there was a problem with women chatting with their husbands during the service. While agreeing the woman is not to usurp the man, if a male pastor is available, there was an instance on this message board quite sometime ago, a testimony of a small, rural community, with no man, only a woman to lead the small church there. I agree that legalism that's hard and lacking in common sense, that could even result in a greater evil, such as a vacuum in the body of Christ, is to be avoided, as our Lord also demonstrated, when accused of being lawless by the Pharisees, when the Lord Jesus was doing what was right and of love, first and foremost.

I also think a Godly woman can have a public ministry in the media. Bottom line, we are not under the letter of the law, but the law of love. Rahab the harlot lied about the Jewish spies to protect them, and it was counted as righteous of her, granted such deception a rare circumstance, but the point that all law is not absolute. There are prophetesses in the Bible. Should they have kept their mouths shut, then? If God made an absolute rule women should sew their mouths shut, in terms of any public expression of the things of God, one must suppose He broke His own law, allowing any female to be a prophetess? Goofed, using Deborah as the only worthy person, apparently, to lead the wholly deficient men of Israel?

This is one of those matters that, if I'm wrong, if such thoughts aren't lawful, if God wants all women to just shutup, then I'm not perfect in any event, don't understand all of this, then, and God forgive me for listening to the likes of Jan Markell, who He will have to strike me dead, appear as a burning bush or something, to stop listening to such a good woman of God, whose fundamentalist ministry, I believe, is very much needed in these times. When I hear the things of God coming out of such a woman, better than the mouths of many men, I'm going to tune in to that woman, instead. The likes of Joel Osteen's church could do well to boot him, and replace him with Jan, my vote in the matter.
There is no such thing as a spirit filled woman preacher. The sprit bears witness against her in that a woman should not preach. A spirit filled woman wont go against the word of God.
 
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Chuckt

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There is no such thing as a spirit filled woman preacher. The sprit bears witness against her in that a woman should not preach. A spirit filled woman wont go against the word of God.
I wouldn't go that far.

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And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature. -Mark 16:15