We must obey the Gospel in order to be saved
No one can be born again, saved unless they obey. This where grace comes in; the God given ability granted to us unmerited by God to do what we can not do without it.
Is it that you think grace is given to everyone? According to Paul, grace itself unconditionally brings salvation to all who receive it. So, if your point is that grace is given to all, then by your definition, everyone must also become saved. Obviously, that interpretation cannot be correct, because we know that not everyone becomes saved.
[[Eph 2:8 KJV] 8
For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: [it is] the gift of God:,
But they have not all obeyed the gospel. For Isaiah says, “LORD, who has believed our report?” So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.
Romans 10:16-17
Did you notice the "faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God" part of the verse ? Those who didn't obey, didn't obey BECAUSE they were unable to hear the word of God. They couldn't hear because spiritual hearing wasn't given to them.
Those who heard, heard, only because it was given them, and from that, obeyed. What constitutes obeying I won't attempt to delve into right now although it would be an interesting topic.
[Rom 11:8 KJV]
8 (According as it is written, God hath given them the spirit of slumber,
eyes that they should not see, and
ears that they should not hear unto this day.
[Eph 1:18 KJV]
18 The eyes of your understanding
being enlightened;
that ye may know what is the hope of his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints,
[Eph 4:17-21 KJV]
17 This I say therefore, and testify in the Lord, that ye henceforth walk not as
other Gentiles walk, in the
vanity of their mind,
18 Having the
understanding darkened, being
alienated from the life of God through the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart:
19 Who being past feeling have given themselves over unto lasciviousness, to work all uncleanness with greediness.
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But ye have not so learned Christ;
21 If so be that ye have heard him, and have been
taught by him, as the truth is in Jesus:[/QUOTE]
How can someone "obey" without having eyes that can see and ears that can hear, and a heart that perceives, spiritually speaking?
Can someone even know how to obey, or what was needed for obeying without them?
For the time has come for judgment to begin at the house of God; and if it begins with us first, what will be the end of those who do not obey the gospel of God?
1 Peter 4:17
[Rom 11:8 KJV]
8 (According as it is written, God hath given them the spirit of slumber, eyes that they should not see, and
ears that they should not hear;) unto this day.
Again, only those who were given ears to hear, hear, as a part of becoming saved, and by having become saved, then obey.
Again, we are born again by obeying the Gospel truth, through the power of the Spirit.
[Jhn 3:3 KJV]
3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he
cannot see the kingdom of God.
No. Being born again must occur first and cannot happen by anything that we may do. We cannot "see" the kingdom of God" until and unless being born again, and therefore, until then, impossible to obey the Gospel
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For the time has come for judgment to begin at the house of God; and if it begins with us first, what will be the end of those who do not obey the gospel of God?
1 Peter 4:17
As we see here, the scripture makes a distinction between, the ”house of God” and those who do not obey the Gospel, (the unsaved)."
I don't follow your point above? Obviously, you assume that obeying occurs before becoming born again. I disagree vehemently with that. The verse you used above (1 Peer 4:1), provides no confirmation of your interpretation.
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Since you have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit in sincere love of the brethren, love one another fervently with a pure heart,
having been born again, not of corruptible seed but incorruptible, through the word of God which lives and abides forever, 1 Peter 1:22-23
- you have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit
That’s why Paul says the Gospel, is the power of God unto salvation.
Only those who obey receive the Holy Spirt.
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Wait - the verse says "through the Spirit", doesn't it? It says nothing regarding anything the recipient had done, or needed to do. The fruit of the presence of the Spirit within them gave to them "sincere love of the brethren, love one another fervently with a pure heart"
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having been born again, not of corruptible seed but incorruptible, through the word of God which lives and abides forever, 1 Peter 1:22-23"
Again, in the verse you used it says "through the word of God", doesn't it? It make no mention of ANYTHING dome by them to receive it. They were
born again through the word of God: The word of God is alive (and abides), forever.
- so also is the Holy Spirit whom God has given to those who obey Him.”
In other words, those who obey, obey only because they were first given it to them by and from the presence of Holy Spirit.
Said another way, those who obey Him, do so only because they had received the Holy Spirit who is present within them.