Strong Women In Today's World

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melita916

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Aug 12, 2011
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#21
Well heck! Here I thought I’m spending eternity with Jesus because of His sacrifice on the cross - because I believe in Him and His blood cleanses me from all unrighteousness because I have confessed my sins. Here I thought that Holy Spirit teaches me the way to live as I have a daily relationship with Him and study the Word.

So what message do you have for the women-hating males?
 

Webers.Home

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May 28, 2018
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#22
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If only Adam had some "issues" the world today would be a much better place; but no, instead of standing up to his woman, Adam wimped out; hence following Eve down the path to ruin like a sheep to the slaughter.
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Tommy379

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Jan 12, 2016
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#24
I like a strong woman, who will smack me around from time to time.
 
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NoNameMcgee

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#26
Well heck! Here I thought I’m spending eternity with Jesus because of His sacrifice on the cross - because I believe in Him and His blood cleanses me from all unrighteousness because I have confessed my sins. Here I thought that Holy Spirit teaches me the way to live as I have a daily relationship with Him and study the Word.

So what message do you have for the women-hating males?
lol
spot on


God bless you melita
 

JesusLives

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Oct 11, 2013
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#27
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Gen 3:16 . . and he shall rule over you.


That is probably one of the most hated verses in the whole Bible. Eve's
daughters do not like to be subjugated to and/or dominated by men. It
really goes against their grain; and if the women's suffrage movement that
took place in America's early 1900's were to be thoroughly analyzed, it
would not surprise me that women's right to vote wasn't really an equality
issue: it was a rebellion against male domination; which of course is to be
expected in a world gone mad with evil.


The current "strong woman" attitude is no doubt another aspect of that
same kind of rebellion; which in reality is not only a standing up to men, but
also a standing up to God seeing as how Gen 3:16 is a divine order rather
than human.


Gen 3:16 isn't restricted to marriage. It regulates women's place in Christian
churches too-- all Christian churches.


"As in all the congregations of the saints, women should remain silent in the
churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the
Law says." (1Cor 14:33-35)


"Let a woman quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness. I do not
allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain
quiet." (1Tim 2:11-15)


How long the Adams cohabited sans the imposition of a gender hierarchy
isn't stated; but apparently there was no evident need for it prior to the
forbidden fruit incident; just as there was no evident need of a suitable
companion for Adam till he failed to find one from among the animal
kingdom.


My guess is that the measure is mostly to discourage wives from making
life-changing decisions on their own, independent of their husband's feelings
about it. I mean; if Eve had first consulted with her husband to see what he
thought of the Serpent's discussion before tasting the fruit, things may have
turned out quite differently.
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According to a lot of different church thinking today the law was nailed to the cross and no longer mute point so if that is true then women don't have to be silent anymore because all the laws were nailed to the cross. As I said according to the way a lot of peeps have responded to me so if it's true your post is worthless.
 

Dino246

Senior Member
Jun 30, 2015
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#28
Webers.Home, I'm still waiting for a response to my first post in this thread.
 
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NoNameMcgee

Guest
#30
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Gen 3:16 . . and he shall rule over you.


That is probably one of the most hated verses in the whole Bible. Eve's
daughters do not like to be subjugated to and/or dominated by men. It
really goes against their grain; and if the women's suffrage movement that
took place in America's early 1900's were to be thoroughly analyzed, it
would not surprise me that women's right to vote wasn't really an equality
issue: it was a rebellion against male domination; which of course is to be
expected in a world gone mad with evil.


The current "strong woman" attitude is no doubt another aspect of that
same kind of rebellion; which in reality is not only a standing up to men, but
also a standing up to God seeing as how Gen 3:16 is a divine order rather
than human.


Gen 3:16 isn't restricted to marriage. It regulates women's place in Christian
churches too-- all Christian churches.


"As in all the congregations of the saints, women should remain silent in the
churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the
Law says." (1Cor 14:33-35)


"Let a woman quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness. I do not
allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain
quiet." (1Tim 2:11-15)


How long the Adams cohabited sans the imposition of a gender hierarchy
isn't stated; but apparently there was no evident need for it prior to the
forbidden fruit incident; just as there was no evident need of a suitable
companion for Adam till he failed to find one from among the animal
kingdom.


My guess is that the measure is mostly to discourage wives from making
life-changing decisions on their own, independent of their husband's feelings
about it. I mean; if Eve had first consulted with her husband to see what he
thought of the Serpent's discussion before tasting the fruit, things may have
turned out quite differently.
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I have to recuse myself due to the fact that I'm male. Perhaps one of the strong women hereabouts would like to give it a shot.
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^ = :poop:
 

Dino246

Senior Member
Jun 30, 2015
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113
#32
That "message" would require a separate thread as the subject of misogyny would be off-topic on a thread devoted to misandry.
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I take this as an admission that you're a misogynist. After all, this thread certainly isn't about misandry, so by your post, this must be the one about misogyny.

I'm waiting for you to respond to my first post... with some degree of intelligence and rationality, hopefully.
 
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whatev

Guest
#33
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Gen 3:16 . . and he shall rule over you.


That is probably one of the most hated verses in the whole Bible. Eve's
daughters do not like to be subjugated to and/or dominated by men. It
really goes against their grain; and if the women's suffrage movement that
took place in America's early 1900's were to be thoroughly analyzed, it
would not surprise me that women's right to vote wasn't really an equality
issue: it was a rebellion against male domination; which of course is to be
expected in a world gone mad with evil.


The current "strong woman" attitude is no doubt another aspect of that
same kind of rebellion; which in reality is not only a standing up to men, but
also a standing up to God seeing as how Gen 3:16 is a divine order rather
than human.


Gen 3:16 isn't restricted to marriage. It regulates women's place in Christian
churches too-- all Christian churches.


"As in all the congregations of the saints, women should remain silent in the
churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the
Law says." (1Cor 14:33-35)


"Let a woman quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness. I do not
allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain
quiet." (1Tim 2:11-15)


How long the Adams cohabited sans the imposition of a gender hierarchy
isn't stated; but apparently there was no evident need for it prior to the
forbidden fruit incident; just as there was no evident need of a suitable
companion for Adam till he failed to find one from among the animal
kingdom.


My guess is that the measure is mostly to discourage wives from making
life-changing decisions on their own, independent of their husband's feelings
about it. I mean; if Eve had first consulted with her husband to see what he
thought of the Serpent's discussion before tasting the fruit, things may have
turned out quite differently.
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You're a man, aren't you? I can tell because you assume most people hate it. (Are men not people, or do they hate being the ruler?) And you don't know what caused the suffragette movement and assumed it's because women hate men.
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Gen 3:16 . . and he shall rule over you.


That is probably one of the most hated verses in the whole Bible. Eve's
daughters do not like to be subjugated to and/or dominated by men. It
really goes against their grain; and if the women's suffrage movement that
took place in America's early 1900's were to be thoroughly analyzed, it
would not surprise me that women's right to vote wasn't really an equality
issue: it was a rebellion against male domination; which of course is to be
expected in a world gone mad with evil.


The current "strong woman" attitude is no doubt another aspect of that
same kind of rebellion; which in reality is not only a standing up to men, but
also a standing up to God seeing as how Gen 3:16 is a divine order rather
than human.


Gen 3:16 isn't restricted to marriage. It regulates women's place in Christian
churches too-- all Christian churches.


"As in all the congregations of the saints, women should remain silent in the
churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the
Law says." (1Cor 14:33-35)


"Let a woman quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness. I do not
allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain
quiet." (1Tim 2:11-15)


How long the Adams cohabited sans the imposition of a gender hierarchy
isn't stated; but apparently there was no evident need for it prior to the
forbidden fruit incident; just as there was no evident need of a suitable
companion for Adam till he failed to find one from among the animal
kingdom.


My guess is that the measure is mostly to discourage wives from making
life-changing decisions on their own, independent of their husband's feelings
about it. I mean; if Eve had first consulted with her husband to see what he
thought of the Serpent's discussion before tasting the fruit, things may have
turned out quite differently.
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The history behind both the Temperance and Suffragettes Movement. From the late 1800s to the early 1900s, it was common in the cities for men to take a chair out from their home to sit on the sidewalks all day drinking. So common, the sidewalks weren't used as "walks." People used the streets because the walks were crowded with drunken men sitting on their chairs talking to one another. All day and most of the night.

And then they'd go home and use their wives for sexual pleasure, producing an abundance of children.

Meanwhile, women had to feed their babies and live, so they took in sewing, or laundry, or made clothes to sell, or swap with others for money and food. Pay day was Friday, so on Fridays the men would return home, beat their wives and take the money to go out drinking again. Women had little voice because housing agreements -- either rentals or ownership -- was strictly between men, so they kept on figuring out how to live with this abuse. And they turned to the one who helps whenever no one else is around to help -- God.

Then they gathered together, and continued on with the two changes they wanted most in the US -- less drinking and a voice in government. They enlisted the help of rich widows, who already had the ear of rich biusiness men, who had the ear of politicians through their wallets.

One of the women was friends with one of the Philadelphia business men. A guy named John Wanamaker who had a novel idea. How about making a store with different departments? One department for men's clothes, andother for women's clothes, another for hats, etc.? And, being a true Christian man and an elder in his church, he had another novel idea. How about hiring anyone who needs a job and can do the job, and paying them enough money to have a real life? With that, he hired the people American society gave little voice to -- "the coloreds" and women.

And it worked. And in hiring them and giving them investment into their own community, he listened to them. He already knew what was happening with many of the men, so he agreed with the temperance movement already. Talking to women he found they had brains and were hard working, so why shouldn't they vote too? And because he thought this, he talked to other elders in his church, the good men in the community, and they did what they could to help the women and the blacks.

People like that -- the ones who do not box in women into phrases like "the most hated verses in the whole Bible." and do not assume "Eve's daughters do not like to be subjugated to and/or dominated by men" -- are the ones who truly understand where other people stand in the Lord. They are the ones that stopped America from thinking their "God-given right" is to beat and rape their wives in between drinking binges. They are the ones who stopped America from being as selfish as possible. They changed America's mindset through the gospel.

And then it was lost again several times since.

What's with this board that men think so little of strong women? Mary was a strong women. Miriam was. Deborah. Ruth. Mary Magdalene. Lydia.

I do know my place in the church and my place within my marriage. I will not submit to a man who doesn't know enough about what he is talking about to give a good study on the concept. And I do submit.
 
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whatev

Guest
#34
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1Pet 3:7b . . giving honor unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel,


The koiné Greek word for "honor" is time (tee-may') which means: a value,
i.e. money paid.


The word for "weaker" is asthenes (as-then-ace') which means: having no
strength, i.e. fragile.


And the word for "vessel" is skeuos (skyoo'-os) which can indicate anything
from a soup bowl to a file cabinet or a cardboard box; in other words: a
container.


Peter isn't saying women are physically weaker than men; but that Christian
husbands should exercise the same care with their wives as they would a
fragile antique worth thousands of dollars like, say, a Ming vase. Nobody in
their right mind handles a Ming vase like a farmer handles a 5-gallon bucket.
Not that some women couldn't endure that kind of handling; it's just that its
unbecoming for a Christian man to treat his Christian wife as if she has little
more value than a paper cup.


This Ming-vase value isn't an intrinsic value, nor is it a deserved value
either; but rather, it's a gratuitous value. In other words: Christ commands
Christian husbands to categorize their wives up there with Dresden china
even if she's as rugged and tough as a female cop and/or a UFC mixed
martial artist the likes of Rhonda Rousey-- and this is not optional; no, it's
not an option; it's an order.


That said, let me say this: Christian wives could make it a lots easier for
their Christian husbands to comply with Peter's instructions if they would but
avoid the "strong woman" trend and have nothing to do with it.


1Pet 3:4 . . You should be known for the beauty that comes from within,
the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God.


Matt 5:9 . . Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of
God.
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A dainty, one-cup wine glass is weaker than a one-cup coffee mug, but they hold the same amount.

Theology is to study the Lord, not to force God to fit into your pet theories.
 
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whatev

Guest
#35
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Women are not a protected species. I'd be willing to bet there will be just as many, if not more, women cast into the lake of brimstone depicted at Rev 20:11-15 as men because Christianity's God is not partial. The soul that sins shall die regardless of it's race, color, or gender.

FYI: Heaven is a place of peace. Women infected with a strong personality cannot be allowed to go there; it wouldn't be fair to the others. And besides; strong women wouldn't fit in anyway; they'd be a fish out of water.
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Lord, I ask that you shred Weber's personal theology with your presence into his life. Please let him see the true love and strength you have, that will displace his delusions.

And, thank you Lord for the men speaking up in this thread. It helps me feel more protect from this kind of garbage seeping into the church. It helps me remember there are good men that you let me know are safe to submit to.

I love your timing and ways. Pleas help me to trust you more and more for those. And help all your people see what you're doing, before we have conniptions from seeing silly things like this.

Amen.
 
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whatev

Guest
#36
Gen 3:16 .... we have horrible birth pains, our desire is to be with our husband, and he will rule over us. .... (Mae paraphrase)...

And it is ALL TRUE!!!!

The only pain (so they say) a man can feel as close to "natural" (20-21st century medications not so true) is a man peeing out a gallstone. And it's usually women more in love, and longing for their husbands than their husbands them. And if that woman is a woman of G-d her husband is the head of the house.... NOT ALMIGHTY G-D.... HE NEEDS TO LOVE HER LIKE MESSIAH LOVES THE CHURCH.... AND MESSIAH DIED FOR IT!!!!!

Nevertheless, G-d created great strong women and even backed us up with His very Word!!! Look at Bebra who G-d made judge over His people because of her wisdom in battle. He gave Philip 4 daughters who prophesied and Lydia who was diligent in business, a seller of purple...

As a woman, I personally believe if she doesn't want a man to be the head of her she should not marry, just like Paul says. G-d mad us BRILLIANT and WISE... But the truth is G-d is the covering over the pastor, the pastor is the covering over the church. Can women preach? Under the covering of a man. This does not degrade us... it put him in the "hot seat" with G-d not us.... See how G-d protects us!!!!
Did you mean kidney stones? Because gallstones are painful in the common duct, not the urinary tract. And the kidney stones hurt whether you're a man or a woman.

As for women loving more? I think my husband loves me just as much as I love him. To the moon and back again! He loves in ways men do, which is sometimes different than women, but not less.
 
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whatev

Guest
#37
That "message" would require a separate thread as the subject of misogyny would be off-topic on a thread devoted to misandry.
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Don't sell yourself short. I think you've done an exceptional job of teaching misogyny.
 

OstrichSmiling

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Jun 17, 2018
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#39
Proverbs 31:10: "Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies."

Matthew says two become one flesh when they marry.
 
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Miri

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#40
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If only Adam had some "issues" the world today would be a much better place; but no, instead of standing up to his woman, Adam wimped out; hence following Eve down the path to ruin like a sheep to the slaughter.
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I’ve heard a lot of woulda, shoulda, coulda tales. But none from 10,000 years ago
or there abouts.

You really need to let go of that one, not to mention the others in your
own life time. Maybe then you can move forward with your life instead
of blaming 49% of the world population for all your troubles.