“Do you stay home all week since Jesus is your Sabbath?
You are misinterpreting the verse and grabbing at straws to do away with something that will never be done away with. Jesus walked everywhere on the Sabbath. Are you saying Jesus sinned? Stop kicking against the goads and come out of Babylon. The truth will never change so don't try.”
I don't think you want to understand the passage because to actually get the meaning, the flow of thought ... would totally defeat your belief. Unless you are stating that we never can be Christian if we do not hold to your days of worship / rest, let’s agree that this is an in house debate. If you are saying that I must keep the O.T. Laws about the Sabbath to be saved, i.e. the keeping of the Law is necessary for salvation, then we have different areas to cover.
That said, I will attempt to break it down for you, in case you really are open to altering your beliefs, and your eyes and ears aren't closed with regards to the topic. If they are, that will be apparent as well. Context is esential.
Rom 14:1Now accept the one who is weak in faith, but not for the purpose of passing judgment on his opinions.
(What is weak in faith from the context of the rest of this passage? Being convinced that something is wrong, or only “something else” is “right” and “everything else” is “wrong”, when God really couldn’t care less about the issue. Right? Then those firmly convinced that the “other behaviors are sin, do what?)
2One person has faith that he may eat all things, but he who is weak eats vegetables only.3The one who eats is not to regard with contempt the one who does not eat, and the one who does not eat is not to judge the one who eats, for God has accepted him.
(These people who hold to different days regard each other with contempt. Is that good or bad? Well, God has accepted BOTH OF THEM. Therefore, these are not contempt issues, but rather issues regarding a “weakness in faith” issue ON BOTH SIDES.)
4Who are you to judge the servant of another?
(In case we don’t get it, regarding each other with contempt over these issues is ungodly. )
To his own master he stands or falls; and he will stand, for the Lord is able to make him stand.
(Yes, the Lord accepts us both, or rather everyone who holds to eating things, not eating things, holding to one day or … well let’s break it down.)
5One person regards one day above another,
(It really seems to me that you really want to hold to the traditional Sabbath(Friday dusk to Saturday dusk) over Sunday or over any other day. Is this not the case? If so, then this passage does apply to the topic we are discussing. Obviously it is not a “New” discussion topic if Paul is dealing with the same issue in the first century, right?) Here’s the point so far. You hold to one day(Traditional Sabbath)(Option #1). Right now, I am holding to a First day of the week belief (That would be “another”)(Option #2)
another regards every day alike.
(Holding to EVERY DAY ALIKE, is Option #3) That’s three options. My grandmother used to go to church every single day and pray. That was what she felt right doing. Was she sinning? So which is correct?)
Each person must be fully convinced in his own mind.
(So you disagree with me. So what? It’s not the end of the world. I disagree with you. So what. Are you not Christian because we disagree on vegetables, days, wine … ? No, right? These aren’t the essentials. They fall in the meaningless contention area, right? Or do you disagree with Paul? That’s another possibility. If you disagree with the writers of scripture it kind of makes all discussion as to issues a waste of time, doesn’t it?)
6He who observes the day, observes it for the Lord,
(Which day? Any Day, Every Day … if you observe it who are you observing it for? We are talking about observing one day or the other FOR THE LORD!!!! This is the word of God’s opinion on the exact topic we are discussing here. Are we open to “hearing” what the word of God has to say? Are we open to altering our opinions to fit the fullness of ALL that is said when it is being cut straight? If you disagree that this isn’t about observing specific days for the Lord, then, without changing meaning of the words, or the context, tell me what is being discussed here?)
and he who eats, does so for the Lord, for he gives thanks to God; and he who eats not, for the Lord he does not eat, and gives thanks to God.
(Same topic. Little differences in what we should do. Should we eat pork, shellfish, … should we drink wine, eat vegetables only … not a real issue. LET EACH MAN BE FIRMLY CONVINCED IN HIS OWN MIND! Yet, is not Paul saying that none of these things really matter to God? Is not the mature view, i.e. those that want to think as God thinks, merely to say it doesn’t matter to God? Are there not passages that talk about teaching as doctrines or precepts the doctrines/precepts of men? What happens when we try to make things not commanded by God commands of God? As a side note, what were the things that were discussed about telling the Gentile believers that they should follow in Acts? Abstain from fornication was one. What else? Were days of worship discussed?)
7For not one of us lives for himself, and not one dies for himself; 8for if we live, we live for the Lord, or if we die, we die for the Lord; therefore whether we live or die, we are the Lord's. 9For to this end Christ died and lived again, that He might be Lord both of the dead and of the living. 10But you, why do you judge your brother? Or you again, why do you regard your brother with contempt? For we will all stand before the judgment seat of God.
(Again, why are we making issues of things that aren’t issues with God? So what if someone chooses to worship on the O.T. Sabbath? As long as they don’t believe that keeping the Law, including this one, is a requirement for salvation, they have the same gospel, right? What’s the big deal? Someone else has Wednesdays and Thursdays off and chooses to worship on Thursday. So what? Should we hold each other in contempt over such things? Of course not, IF WE ARE OBEDIENT TO GOD, that is.)
11For it is written, "AS I LIVE, SAYS THE LORD, EVERY KNEE SHALL BOW TO ME, AND EVERY TONGUE SHALL GIVE PRAISE TO GOD." 12So then each one of us will give an account of himself to God. 13Therefore let us not judge one another anymore,
(Well, from the context, days, food … aren’t issues to God. We still have the let each man be firmly convinced in his own mind part. That part is key. We still have the stop judging others weak in the faith part. That is also key. We still have the stop judging others with regards to the “types” of things listed here part. That is key. We will each stand before God and give an account. Not our job to worry about others not holding to our day, or our diet … Right?)
but rather determine this--not to put an obstacle or a stumbling block in a brother's way.14I know and am convinced in the Lord Jesus that nothing is unclean in itself; but to him who thinks anything to be unclean, to him it is unclean.
(Good issue. What is a stumbling block? What are we talking about here? If you are firmly convinced that a thing is evil, wrong, contrary to God’s plan, and I, knowing that these things don’t mean anything to God convince you to act contrary to what you STILL BELIEVE, I have placed a stumbling block in your way. Why? Because you are still firmly convinced that doing something else is sin, right?)
15For if because of food your brother is hurt, you are no longer walking according to love. Do not destroy with your food him for whom Christ died. 16Therefore do not let what is for you a good thing
(What is the “good thing” from the context? Is it not understanding that God couldn’t care less about these things? That things like this do not matter at all to God? To not be stressed out by details, which, in the eyes of God are meaningless? Yet what happens if I convince you to skip a Sabbath and worship on Sunday when you are not fully believing that that is perfectly acceptable to God? )
be spoken of as evil; 17for the kingdom of God is not eating and drinking, but righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.
(Again, these “things” days, food, drink … are not important to God. Pursing Righteousness, peace, joy in the Holy Spirit, these are worthwhile.)
18For he who in this way serves Christ is acceptable to God and approved by men. 19So then we pursue the things which make for peace and the building up of one another. 20Do not tear down the work of God for the sake of food. All things indeed are clean, but they are evil for the man who eats and gives offense. 21It is good not to eat meat or to drink wine, or to do anything by which your brother stumbles.
(If my attending church on any other day will cause you to actually go to church and forsake the day you BELIEVE you have to worship on, or it is sin, then my actions CAUSE YOU TO STUMBLE. If you will not do what you still believe to be sin, NO MATTER WHAT I DO, then it is not a stumbling issue. You won’t stumble based on what I am doing, so I am free to continue as I please.)
To be continued ...