I have seen several ways since the controversy over Matthew 28:19 and Acts 2:38 to include both in the Formula. I've seen big time Trinity Preachers come out and say who cares between the two they both work. When I was younger this was a life and death topic but today it suddenly has become it doesn't matter issue because both Formulas work. Personally speaking, I keep watching because as time gets closer to the Second Coming we're seeing things that use to be major issues suddenly being now lesser and all about let's just come together as the Body of Christ. I like that myself and hope the trend continues.
The word of God does not reflect that "Both Formulas" work. God established what is true for all to see. Yet, as you say many dishonor God and do what they think is best; "Who cares" is their attitude. And even worse they lead others to do the same.
And, I would caution, liking as you say, "seeing things that use to be major issues suddenly being now lesser and all about let's just come together as the Body of Christ" because it is NOT a good thing. It's called Interfaithism. And will ultimately become what the bible reveals as the endtime one world religion that many will fall prey to. (Rev. 17, 18)
I'm reminded of the enemy's tactics of deception. They remain the same as they did in the garden of Eden; hath God said... The word of God reveals exactly what He has said. And yes, it does matter.
Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father,
but by me.
If ye had known me, ye should have known my Father also: and
from henceforth ye know him, and have seen him." John 14:6-7
Whether accepted or not...
"Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever. Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines." (Heb 13:8-9)
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For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears;
And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables." (2 Tim 4:3-4)