Top 5 reasons why people leave

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If God a kidnapper? I am not sure what you mean sis.

They have faith the person wil give them what they want, yet the person lets them down?
No, the kidnapper is the jerk taking God's child away. (I disagree with Ariel's analogy, but I did get it.)
 
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Exactly where did I insult you? Post some of your best doctrine and watch me tear it down. Even that is not insulting you, it is correcting bad doctrine.
Your false act of being hurt is just that. If it really did hurt you might try growing some skin instead of expecting the world to give you a pass.
Give it your best shot.
That's your thing? Tearing down doctrine?

Peachy keen!
 
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my take on this… hmm, interesting points there… but, as i always say, i cannot possibly comment. its just too much. but i do agree that people have the capability of leaving Christianity because of the fact they weren't truly saved in the first place. but i have heard of holy spirit-filled christians who have totaly left the Lord. what is known as apostasy... anyway… i wasnt even suppose to comment :D
Pssst, you're really allowed to comment.
 
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God gave Judas to Jesus. How did Judas get saved before he took his own life?
I know the answer already so this is more like a question on a test.
Jesus is God, and Judas wasn't saved, so don't understand the premise to the question. Also, this isn't your thread to just decide to take it over to prove yourself.
 
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finaldesire

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you are wrong . bread means bread. food for the body. daily bread is food period.. that is one way man lives, without bread, he dies or without food he dies.
Gabriel, we are all wrong when it comes to understanding things perfectly. They say that one can read the word of God and understand it one way, then come back and read it again and understand it in another way.

Yes it can mean what you say it means, it can also mean what I say it means, and still it can mean something else

That's why it is called the living word of God, because it is alive.
 
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Well I think it has to be valid on some level for there to be a choice, you know what I mean.

OK let me unpack these top 5 reasons.

Number 1. Christians: Christian behavior can be a good example to those who question the power of Jesus (God) who they all believe is living in them and therefore transforming them.

Number 2. Biblical inconsistencies: OK, well this is a sore issue. Christians or most of them believe that the bible is the inerrant word of God. But the people who exit the Christian arena think they have enough evidence to sink that opinion.

Number 3. Hell theology: This theology has done so much damage to so many people, they can not stay with a God who would burn or hurt them or anyone else.

Number 4. Lack of miracles: Enough said on that one, I too have not worked out why I see NOTHING!

Number 5. Gods character: Lots of people leave the faith behind because they see God as cruel and unjust, that in his goodness he is justified for slaying people, and stuff like that.

Number 3. Hell theology: This theology has done so much damage to so many people, they can not stay with a God who would burn or hurt them or anyone else.


On the other hand, who would ever want to worship a God who allows will to be done to innocent people, and then say " no punishment necassary even though you raped and Killed this kid" hell has a great purpose its home for those who do the will of satan. and its extremely Just. whop would deserve to burn and suffer? look into the depth of mans darkness and you will see.


what does a just and righteous God do, when 2 grown men torture a Baby, take bites out of it, burn its body with cigareets, toss it to the ceailing and let it fall until she eventually dies without a name what Does God do with the beasts such as the stepfather and uncle of "Baby Brianna"?

i think any decent Human being, can understand there are some people who deserve the very worst imaginable punishment, and sure God is Good, thats why those who do evil will have to face the consequences. Hell doesnt scare people who do good, it scares those who Love evil because they Know they will not repent, therefore Hell must be unjust......

im assuming you are atheist. so this is basically a wasted minute typing this. lets say you were the authority.....would youtreat the victims of evil acts , and those who freely chose to do those terrible things the same way? probably 100s of millions of victimes and hundreds of millions of evil doers who raped, hurt, killed, tortured, and a hundred other things...


in what realm of Justice or Love, do the evil doers and the perpetrators treated as if they are both innocent. in bizarro world only. i for One am Glad theres ultimate and final Justice. a man may elude mans Justice on earth, but then they have to face the One who cant be hidden from. I Love that God will utterly destroy and punish Evil, its what Makes Him good, and what promises an eternity free of evil.
 
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Gabriel, we are all wrong when it comes to understanding things perfectly. They say that one can read the word of God and understand it one way, then come back and read it again and understand it in another way.

Yes it can mean what you say it means, it can also mean what I say it means, and still it can mean something else

That's why it is called the living word of God, because it is alive.
Fallacy. It means what God meant, not what you or I meant.
 
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Number 3. Hell theology: This theology has done so much damage to so many people, they can not stay with a God who would burn or hurt them or anyone else.


On the other hand, who would ever want to worship a God who allows will to be done to innocent people, and then say " no punishment necassary even though you raped and Killed this kid" hell has a great purpose its home for those who do the will of satan. and its extremely Just. whop would deserve to burn and suffer? look into the depth of mans darkness and you will see.


what does a just and righteous God do, when 2 grown men torture a Baby, take bites out of it, burn its body with cigareets, toss it to the ceailing and let it fall until she eventually dies without a name what Does God do with the beasts such as the stepfather and uncle of "Baby Brianna"?

i think any decent Human being, can understand there are some people who deserve the very worst imaginable punishment, and sure God is Good, thats why those who do evil will have to face the consequences. Hell doesnt scare people who do good, it scares those who Love evil because they Know they will not repent, therefore Hell must be unjust......

im assuming you are atheist. so this is basically a wasted minute typing this. lets say you were the authority.....would youtreat the victims of evil acts , and those who freely chose to do those terrible things the same way? probably 100s of millions of victimes and hundreds of millions of evil doers who raped, hurt, killed, tortured, and a hundred other things...


in what realm of Justice or Love, do the evil doers and the perpetrators treated as if they are both innocent. in bizarro world only. i for One am Glad theres ultimate and final Justice. a man may elude mans Justice on earth, but then they have to face the One who cant be hidden from. I Love that God will utterly destroy and punish Evil, its what Makes Him good, and what promises an eternity free of evil.
They die. They don't get the chance to join those in life, anyway we'll all find out soon enough.
 
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No, the kidnapper is the jerk taking God's child away. (I disagree with Ariel's analogy, but I did get it.)
God said he would never leave nor forsake us, And that he would never let us go, and no one can snatch us from his fathers hand.

 

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No, the kidnapper is the jerk taking God's child away. (I disagree with Ariel's analogy, but I did get it.)

John 10 : 28-29 ,"And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand. My Father, which gave them me, is greater than all; and no man is able to pluck them out of my Father's hand."

Nobody can make you unsaved if you are saved
 

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The word of God also say , get wisdom, then knowledge, and above all these, understanding. Those are free gifts from God for those that want it. your mind is taking you through a possibility cycle like a roulette machine, not knowing where it is going to stop. you waiver while seeking for answers. Leaning to your own understanding. It is about what sounds right to you.
 

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Here are the top reasons people leave Christianity

Number 1. Christians
Number 2. Biblical inconsistencies
Number 3. Hell theology
Number 4. Lack of miracles
Number 5. Gods character
Are you implying that the fault lies with Christianity?
That the churches are to blame, because they are lacking in someway.

And yet I say to you that those that are dissatisfied with a particular church,
if they truly are seeking God, will not leave Christianity for unbelief,
but rather they will go church shopping until they find their haven.

What does Jesus say about those who give up and walk away?
16 And these are they likewise which are sown on stony ground;
who, when they have heard the word, immediately receive it with gladness;
17 And have no root in themselves, and so endure but for a time: afterward,
when affliction or persecution arises for the word's sake, immediately
they are offended.
18 And these are they which are sown among thorns; such as hear the word,
19 And the cares of this world, and the deceitfulness of riches, and the lusts of
other things entering in, choke the word, and it becomes unfruitful.
Mark 4:
 

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The number one reason why people leave is: human nature.

 
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The number one reason why people leave is: human nature.

They leave because of a good song? You sure about that?


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you are wrong . bread means bread. food for the body. daily bread is food period.. that is one way man lives, without bread, he dies or without food he dies.
Take it up with Jesus because he said"man shall not live by bread alone but by every word that proceedeth from the mouth of the Lord".
 

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What would you say if I told you that after I walked away from God (For 2-3 years) I joined in with many ex-Christians online and atheists, and non believers. That I found that their testimonies and reasons for leaving Christianity were very good reasons.

Here are the top reasons people leave Christianity

Number 1. Christians
Number 2. Biblical inconsistencies
Number 3. Hell theology
Number 4. Lack of miracles
Number 5. Gods character

Of course there are many other reasons people leave their beliefs, but lets stick to these 5.

In my entire history with Christianity and the church, I have never heard any plausible reasoning in defense of these problems Christianity faces today. Oh there are so called answers, but they fall totally flat under careful scrutiny.

So how does one give a reasoned and sound answer to these things that make people leave God.
Atheists and non believers have not left God.
Atheists come against God and try to prove him wrong.
Non believers are just that.

So neither can walk away from what they believe unless they come to Jesus.

Rather then focus on atheists maybe research atheists who came to faith. And see their very good reasons that led them to faith.
Your 5 reasons above.

Christians saying that or atheists and non believers?
 
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What would you say if I told you that after I walked away from God (For 2-3 years) I joined in with many ex-Christians online and atheists, and non believers. That I found that their testimonies and reasons for leaving Christianity were very good reasons.

Here are the top reasons people leave Christianity

Number 1. Christians
Number 2. Biblical inconsistencies
Number 3. Hell theology
Number 4. Lack of miracles
Number 5. Gods character

Of course there are many other reasons people leave their beliefs, but lets stick to these 5.

In my entire history with Christianity and the church, I have never heard any plausible reasoning in defense of these problems Christianity faces today. Oh there are so called answers, but they fall totally flat under careful scrutiny.

So how does one give a reasoned and sound answer to these things that make people leave God.
Everyone deep down knows that there Is a GOD even atheist,the creation Itself declares there Is GOD.
 

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The word of God also say , get wisdom, then knowledge, and above all these, understanding. Those are free gifts from God for those that want it. your mind is taking you through a possibility cycle like a roulette machine, not knowing where it is going to stop. you waiver while seeking for answers. Leaning to your own understanding. It is about what sounds right to you.

Prov. 14:12: "There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death. "

Not that, but this:

Prov. 3:6: "In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths."
Yeah!

 

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What would you say if I told you that after I walked away from God (For 2-3 years) I joined in with many ex-Christians online and atheists, and non believers. That I found that their testimonies and reasons for leaving Christianity were very good reasons.

Here are the top reasons people leave Christianity

Number 1. Christians
Number 2. Biblical inconsistencies
Number 3. Hell theology
Number 4. Lack of miracles
Number 5. Gods character

Of course there are many other reasons people leave their beliefs, but lets stick to these 5.

In my entire history with Christianity and the church, I have never heard any plausible reasoning in defense of these problems Christianity faces today. Oh there are so called answers, but they fall totally flat under careful scrutiny.

So how does one give a reasoned and sound answer to these things that make people leave God.
Satan attacks our minds and our sins also lead us to stray out of finding God's will for our lives. I know...because I've been there and done it!

Look, if you aren't diligently reading His word, seeking Him, spending time in prayer, spending too much time with non-believers...in other words not coming out from among wordly things and increasing Him and decreasing self...how are you going to build a relationship with Him and come to realize what real perfect love and blessings are?

You must remember that
1. christians are fallible
2. the bible is not inconsistent....His word is perfect...but you have to read it, study it and allow the His Spirit guide you.
3. there is a hell...do you really want to find out for yourself? just like there's a hell...there's a heaven, which sounds awesome to me
4. God performs miracles everyday...open your eyes...but this is a fallen world we live in...bad things happen because of sin...best part of that is that God uses those bad things to draw people to Him....this is fact and I know...been there
5. God's character...goes back to not having a personal relationship...He wrapped Himself in flesh and was born, crucified, and raised from the dead because He loves us and wants to save us from the sin we inherited through Adam.


SATAN/SIN and our own stubborn, hard headed pride and lack of FAITH and TRUST in Christ....theres your reaasons!

Good Question...God bless...and much love
 
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People use the weakest of excuses to leave for there is no reason to leave Christian fellowship.

For the cause of Christ
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