No, my God's love is powerful and effectual toward all the elect objects of his love. My God is very personal and active; for true "agape" love is always PROACTIVE! God actively moves to actually save people (not merely tossing them a lifesaver so that they can save themselves). Your god, though, is weak, impotent and passive because his grace is not efficacious -- rather your "freewill" effectuates your salvation.
Loving only some of humanity is weak.
Loving everyone including enemies is strong/perfect and what Jesus commanded (Matt. 5:44&48).
Agape love is unconditional and does not show favoritism, but your God personally condemns some souls
to eternal suffering without providing the opportunity to be saved.
God's seeking grace effectuates the opportunity to be saved,
and souls who choose to ignore it reap justice in hell before being destroyed.
As I just posted elsewhere, Colossians 2:6-7 teaches: “Just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord [
kerygma], continue to live in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught [
didache].”
There is no qualitative difference between faith that accepts God’s saving grace at conversion and faith that accepts God’s working grace while walking/living (Eph. 2:8-10, 2Cor. 5:7, Rom. 1:17), but only a quantitative difference as each additional moment passes–and of course faith remains non-meritorious during the saint’s entire lifetime.