Quote "You've maligned your character all by yourself. You're the one telling everyone that Calvinists don't believe in free choice, free grace, or evangelizing. That's on you! That's on you because we have told you for weeks now that is not true, and yet, you spent three days finding sample after sample of the same lies by people just like you. "
Baloney Lynn. I have never said you dont believe in evangelism,I said there was no point in evangelism if people are elected to go to heaven or hell.Thats common sense,period. How can you believe in choice/grace? As Desertrose said your definition is different and you and preacher know it.You do not believe grace is free for ALL! You believe grace is limited to the elect and that is not the same thing.So NO ONE lied about what you believe. Its a conclusion to what you are saying,its common sense. You yourself even had to ask fourth to clarify a question you had. So you smash everyone over the head with what you believe then have to ask another member to tell you what you believe.smh
Quote "AND you're the one who said you have no idea what to do with yourself after a woman you loved and respected attacked "my beliefs."
Nah,I know what I believe. No one here shakes my beliefs,you included. I have always believed that Jesus saves ALL who believe. Always believed it,grew up on it. So dont flatter yourself,Im good.
1.1. I never attacked your beliefs. I told you again and again that what you are saying about MY beliefs are WRONG! And once you continued on blindly still calling them "your beliefs," then it was obviously lies! Personally, I don't do that to someone I love and respect. Most people actually listen to people they love and respect, (agreeing is optional), but not you.
Lynn you do this whole song and dance when anyone begins to question Calvinism and come to conclusions about it. As long as I was hearing and not questioning or drawing conclusions you were fine.When I stepped outside the line you blew a gasket. And you turned nasty.
2. Apparently, you did know what to do with yourself because you spent 3-4 days googling to find whatever agreed with you to throw it in our face as to why we're wrong again.
Of course Im going to post people with my POV I told you in the beginning that I did not agree with Calvinism. I began a thread on free will and was attacked on all sides.I wasn't giving a definition,I gave a definition and it wasn't a good enough definition,then I was Arminian even though I said I disagreed with certain beliefs of theirs. You continually refer to anyone who doesn't see your POV as Arminian even though you've said several times how "p*ssed" {your word not mine} you are that people are calling you something you are not. I guess that only works one way.
Quote "You could have been learning why you upset me, but, nope!"
Are you kidding me?! I have asked question after question,you just dont like the conclusion because it disagrees with your belief. I was more than willing to listen,I asked questions,went through a butt load of definitions and where I got stuck was the same place you are stuck and had to ask forth for a better explanation. How hypocritical is that? You dont know but your mad at me because I dont know! Thats beyond silly.
Quote "Much more important to defend what you think is wrong with what I believed as you continue to lie about what I believe. What Calvinists, in general, believe! In that, it's a pattern of lies, not merely one lie."
Pot meet kettle. Your the one blowing a gasket and calling people names because they disagree with you.I have NOT lied about Calvinism. You cannot say you believe that God elected people then turn around and say they have free choice,will,grace. Both cannot be true Lynn.Its not a lie. They contradict themselves. I dont understand why you say it is a lie!?
Quote "And that's what you chose to do, and it's no mistake. Now you're just filling the forum with garbage to defend your position. Not God anymore. Your position. Not God anymore. Your "religion."
You're defending your belief and you expect no one to defend theirs? You think you're speaking for God?! With the attitude that you have shown to others here? This is you,Christlike?! Lord have mercy I wouldn't want to see you mad if you see this as Christlike. What I fill the forum with is my business.If its within the rules then Im free to post my POV as you are.
Quote "And I have not been talking about you behind your back. You're right here, watching it. (Unless you have eyes in the back of your head.)
You have been talking to others in posts ranting about "she this and that" liar and on and on. You are sniping behind my back.Yes,you are.
Quote "To everyone else, have I gone behind Kayla's back on this? Have I PM'd anyone to talk about Kayla, like she seems to be claiming now?"
Never said you PMed anyone. Could care less if you did. But you dont need to snipe about me in posts to other people. Thats behind a persons back.
Quote "Because, man! Three weeks of this crap, and the only thing even my husband has heard about all this is me constantly asking if someone can be so blind that they cannot see that the Reformed do believe in free choice, God's grace and the need to evangelized? I don't talk behind anyone's back. I say it right in front of them on purpose!"
You cannot say you believe in people being elect and then say they have free choice! Do you not see that those ideas contradict each other?! My land!! I cant understand why YOU are so blind to this! If God knows who the elect are why do you need to evangelize? Those who are suppose to come will whether they are evangelized or not. Lynn I dont know if you're being obtuse on purpose or you honestly cannot see the contradictions in what you are saying.Im hoping its the latter.
Quote "Right! Calvin and Wesley are both dead. Except to you, they are the only voices to either POV. You wouldn't even listen when we all told you we aren't much on knowing what Calvin thought. We don't care."
And I dont get that either. Why do you not care? Calvin expounded on what you believe concerning election. Why would you say you are Calvinist?Reformed and not care about what Calvin said and wrote? Azusa Street was a revival that Pentecostals point to as a new fire that revived what happened at Pentecost. I would be odd for me to say I didn't care about it as a Pentecostal.
Quote " The only reason you care about Wesley suddenly, (because you didn't even know your beliefs were from him until I told you that, so it's not like you can't see me), is to prove you're right at any cost."
No Lynn, Wesley expounds well on free grace.Im not Methodist,nor am I Wesleyian. Im Pentecostal. Wesley may well have had an influence but Methodists as a general rule do not believe in speaking in tongues,nor do Weslyans,of which I am neither. I have always believed that Jesus died for all,always believed man had a choice,always believed it was the Holy Spirit that draw men. I did not google Wesley and say "well looky there,now I know what I believe!" Didn't happen. Been preaching the same message,singing the same message for years and years,Jesus saves whosoever will. Yes,Wesley expounded well on the subject and he believed what I have believed all my life.Its not about proving Im right,its about what the Bible says,period.
Quote "Now you're just going smug, as if we should be willing to keep playing this game with you, and to prove it? You've basically just said, "If you don't play, I win."
Baloney! Its always been a matter of what Gods Word says Lynn. I cant help it if you dont understand. What do I WIN being right? No,its a matter of the truth of the Word. Truth wins,I win nothing.But I will stand for what I know is right and I will not back down. So you might as well skip this thread because Im going to keep saying Jesus saves the whosoever wills.
Quote "No. You lost last week, when you tried lying about the other belief to prove you have the only right belief. And, by design, this site is for adults, so triple-dog-dare-yous don't work."
I lost last week? News to me,you'll have to explain that one. And Im not like you Lynn Im not trying to prove Im right,Im providing what the Bible says.I cant help that you think its me trying to win something or be right. I stand on the Word of God which says Christ died for all who will believe. Its no game,its the Word.
Quote "This wasn't a game, except to you. This is about God to most others on both sides of the debate."
If this was about God you wouldnt be telling people how p*ssed you are,shouting people down,calling people liars and generally throwing an adult tantrum. If you really believed what you believe and were Christlike you'd say "Kayla I get that you are getting stuck,I'll pray God opens your eyes to this truth."But you do not. You have been spiteful and hateful simply because I have questioned your contradictory beliefs.
Quote "As for what religion you practice? Now I see it clearly. That's why I'm still here. To make sure no one else follows you or believes you, since you are determined to lie about any belief you disagree with.
I have not lied about your belief. You want to make sure no one believes me? I believe Christ died for all,that His blood was shed for the whole world and that He wishes that none would perish. I believe man is drawn by the Holy Spirit to believe and anyone who calls on His name will be saved. If you dont want people to believe that you take that up with God. Because that is what His Word says. And I would be careful of barring the door of salvation to anyone. You are not God.