It is not vital to our relationship unless He lays it on your heart. He laid it on my wife and I's heart, so both of our boys were circumcised. Not just for health reasons, but as a sign as well.
May I make mention here in regard to the law of circumcising the male child on the 8th day is a sign of the parents commitment to obey God. Jesus' mother and father took Jesus to be circumcised on the 8th day. Jesus wasn't keeping the commandment, Mary and Joseph were.
Old Testament - Lev 12:1 And the LORD spake unto Moses, saying,
Lev 12:2 Speak unto the children of Israel, saying, If a woman have conceived seed, and born a man child: then she shall be unclean seven days; according to the days of the separation for her infirmity shall she be unclean.
Lev 12:3 And in the eighth day the flesh of his foreskin shall be circumcised.
Obviously the child is not being "saved" by being obedient to the law of circumcision. So what benefit was it to the parents to obey? (Hint: Obedience equals Blessings/Disobedience equals curses.)
Act 7:8 And he gave him the covenant of circumcision: and so Abraham begat Isaac, and circumcised him the eighth day; and Isaac begat Jacob; and Jacob begat the twelve patriarchs.
What?!! Circumcision started with Abraham? Wasn't it Jacob and his family that went down into Egypt during the famine and ended up becoming a very large number 400+years later being led by Moses in the Exodus?
So we see that circumcision is a covenant? My understanding of covenants is that none are void, but only added upon with new instructions but the old instructions are not taken away. Maybe some one here knows about covenants and whether or not that is true with the covenant of circumcision.
Gen 17:9 And God said unto Abraham, Thou shalt keep my covenant therefore, thou, and thy seed after thee in their generations.
Gen 17:10 This is my covenant, which ye shall keep, between me and you and thy seed after thee; Every man child among you shall be circumcised.
Gen 17:11 And ye shall circumcise the flesh of your foreskin; and it shall be a token of the covenant betwixt me and you.
Gen 17:12 And he that is eight days old shall be circumcised among you, every man child in your generations, he that is born in the house, or bought with money of any stranger, which is not of thy seed.
Gen 17:13 He that is born in thy house, and he that is bought with thy money, must needs be circumcised:
and my covenant shall be in your flesh for an everlasting covenant.
Gen 17:14 And the uncircumcised
man child whose flesh of his foreskin is not circumcised, that soul shall be cut off from his people; he hath broken my covenant.
Joh 7:22 Moses therefore gave unto you circumcision; (not because it is of Moses,
but of the fathers;)
Rom 4:13 For the promise, that he should be the heir of the world, was
not to Abraham, or to his seed, through the law,
but through the righteousness of faith.
Gal 3:15 Brothers, let me make an analogy from everyday life: when someone swears an oath, no one else can set it aside or add to it.
Gal 3:16 Now the promises were made to Avraham and to his seed. It doesn't say, "and to seeds," as if to many; on the contrary, it speaks of one — "and to your seed" — and this "one" is the Messiah.
Gal 3:17 Here is what I am saying: the legal part of the Torah, which
came into being 430 years later, does not nullify an oath sworn by God, so as to abolish the promise. (CJB)
Gal 3:29 Also, if you belong to the Messiah, you are seed of Avraham and heirs according to the promise.
Gen 17:12
Generation after generation, every male among you who is eight days old is to be circumcised, including slaves born within your household and those bought from a foreigner not descended from you.
Gen 17:13 The slave born in your house and the person bought with your money must be circumcised;
thus my covenant will be in your FLESH as an everlasting covenant.
Why does God need the flesh to represent an everlasting covenant? Isn't having our hearts circumcised in the spiritual rim enough? Did Jesus nullify this covenant of being circumcised in the flesh? Did Paul fight against the Circumcision Party who said you had to be circumcised in the flesh to be saved? Is an everlasting covenant different from everlasting salvation? Was the covenant made with Abraham so that Jesus (the single seed) would be circumcised?
I don't have full understanding. If you can expound more, please share.