Its both, that's the whole point, Since God's Will is at work in the creature, whose power is Almighty, then the creatures will can do nothing but conform to what the will of the Almighty's will is. So the vessels of wrath fit themselves for destruction because God fits them to destruction !
You say this over and over again, but it doesn't make it true.
I don't agree with your premise.
1. I don't think you are viewing the whole situation with Pharaoh correctly.
Yes in those verses God hardened Pharoah's heart. However, before that God gave him multiple opportunities to repent and turn from his sin. He had Moses deliver the message to Pharoah to "Let my people go." However it was Pharoah's pride and selfishness that kept him blinded.
Yes God could have opened Pharoah's eyes through His mercy and yes God could have changed Pharoah's heart. However, it is NOT required of God to save sinners. He does it out of His mercy and grace. Pharoah CHOOSE to sin. God did not make him a sinner. He made him responsible and pay fully for his sins.
there is a difference. I'm not sure you see it though.
It goes back to the debate of free will and whether we have a choice to sin or follow the path of righteousness. I believe God gives us a choice. He tests us and gives us a way to choose the path of righteousness.
However, as we learn we often fail those test. When we fail, we fall into sin and DESERVE PUNISHMENT. However, God with His mercy and grace can save us and wash us clean. He then teaches what we should have done and then eventually we have another test.
1 Corinthians 10:13 No
temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God
is faithful, who will not allow you to be
tempted
beyond what you are able, but with the
temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear
it.
[h=3]James 1:12-14[/h]New King James Version (NKJV)
[h=3][/h][SUP]12 [/SUP]Blessed
is the man who endures temptation; for when he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him. [SUP]13 [/SUP]
Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am tempted by God”; for God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does He Himself tempt anyone. [SUP]14 [/SUP]But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed.