I grew up in a VERY conservative Baptist church and Baptist church school. There was no drinking, no dancing, no movies, a six-inch rule(between opposite sexes who were not married), no pants, and no rock music - even Christian rock. When you grow up that way, very isolated from these things, you dont notice it as much. However, it is a bit of a culture shock when you are finally exposed to it. I dont know that I minded when I was a kid, (except the six inch rule was annoying when not violated on purpose) However, I do not think we were ever given a specific reason as to why we could not do those things. It was just a given. I also would like to say that Baptists who believe that way are not stupid in any way. My parents are both Mensa geniuses and many of the people that I was raised with are very, very intelligent. And they have a right to their own beliefs. If you do not like or agree with their belief system and their interpretation of the Bible and its laws, then I would say, dont go to their church or follow their beliefs. I would like to think that as Christians we can be tolerant and respectful of others beliefs especially since these issues have nothing to do with salvation.
Debbie