Why do some people believe and some do not?

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It could mean that when God says he hardens hearts he is simply withholding grace from swine that he knows would trample his pearls that he offers them. And when men harden their hearts they are merely resolving to continue in the path they have chosen
 

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I agree that "God indeed hardens hearts, closes eyes, shuts ears and gives a spirit of stupor." We disagree on what those words mean. There is not just one sense in which God can harden hearts, close eyes, shut ears and give a spirit of stupor. I have shown hiow we use the same grammatical construction do describe someone reacting to what we do by hardening their own heart, closing their own eyes, shutting their own ears, and confusing themselves.
I guess this answers my just posted question.

So, do we all agree that the Scripture says God hardens hearts? @GHW @posthuman

Haven't we already also agreed that people are complicit in and are the first to harden their own hearts?

Haven't we also agreed that all God has to do to harden hearts is to provide opportunity for people to continue to disobey Him?

@PaulThomson Does it really matter how we use the same grammatical construction to describe something? IMO we put too much effort into trying to protect God and keep His character in line with what we think it should be. This is probably what pushed Paul to reference the Potter and Clay analogy. God doesn't need protecting and He does what He wills and His will matches His perfect character in all its attributes and conforms to His omniscience.

I don't see this as being that difficult. He is working to accomplish whatever He wills to accomplish at any given time with any and every person on the planet while simultaneously keeping the universe in order to the most minute particle as He wills it.

I'm not great an analogies or making up parables, but here goes: If I know my neighbor is a thief (he's already in unrepentant rejection of God - he has hardened his heart) and I leave my keys in the car knowing he will steal it, then in effect I have hardened his heart and he has actually hardened his heart even further. The purpose for my doing so may be manifold.

God's purpose in hardening hearts are obviously even more manifold and He doing so in omniscience seeing how it plays out in all its interconnections and through time, as well as His doing so coupled with His perfect character means He can also use such hardening to glorify Himself, to reveal His wrath against all ungodliness, to push people to repentance, to push people to their inevitable end who He knows will not repent and use them all as He the Potter chooses to work all things for good as He defines good.

He wills all to be saved. He wills the second death for all who will not be saved. Love and Righteousness and Justice are perfectly coordinated. His thoughts & ways higher than ours.

Scripture says He hardens hearts. I believe Him. And I don't think He is to be messed with or second guessed and I don't think I'm able to protect Him nor that He needs such.
 

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It could mean that when God says he hardens hearts he is simply withholding grace from swine that he knows would trample his pearls that he offers them. And when men harden their hearts they are merely resolving to continue in the path they have chosen
There's probably an analogy here. Your last sentence I agree with and I think in the end God works to get people where He knows all need to go but also in the end where they want to go.
 

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Bibles perspective~~To slap a person so hard that that person WAKES up and chooses Christ.
Like Pharaoh and all who will be judged to the second death? The Potter makes some for dishonor.

FWIW, I disagree with TULIP.
 

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I agree. And we know God from His word. He Is benevolent and fair/just.
Equal opportunity for ALL. Some come to Jesus with a gentle nudge. And some need to hit a BRICK WALL. God puts whatever it takes in front of us to get our attention.

He is in the saving business. And if some people take a BRICK WALL to get their attention......He gives them a BRICK WALL.......Lest they see with their eyes, and hear with their ears......to be healed.
And some will not be saved no matter what He does short of changing who He is.
 

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The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance." 2 Pet 3:9
"For the Son of man is come to seek and to save that which was lost." Luke 19:2

God wanting to make hearts harder seems to go against the flow of these two texts.
I've pretty much answered this already. His desire is to save all. His desire for all who will not to be saved is no eternal life. The balance seems simple - maybe heart-wrenching but simple.
 

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If I can harden someone's heart while trying to help them understand some issue, and anticipate doing so, without my deliberately aiming to harden their hearts, then God can also harden someone's heart while trying to help them understand something, and anticipate doing so, without Him deliberately aiming to harden their hearts.

In reality there is light and dark. As He can harden for potential repentance He can also harden to no repentance and all for His glory.
 

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I think that for a person to be saved, both he and God have a part in making it happen.
This taken by itself puts you on one side of a very divided line. As I understand this statement, I'm on your side of that line.
 

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Haven't we also agreed that all God has to do to harden hearts is to provide opportunity for people to continue to disobey Him?

my pastor has told us, and i have no disagreement with the statement, that all God has to do in order to harden someone's heart is to withdraw from them.
 

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my pastor has told us, and i have no disagreement with the statement, that all God has to do in order to harden someone's heart is to withdraw from them.
The restraining influence of God restraining sin. I agree with this. I wish I understood His complexities better, to put it mildly. I think we can see some of this in Rom1 where He turns people over to their "worthless" (also translated reprobate for example) minds. As Paul says, we then see the proliferation of the degeneracy that ensues.

I did a study once on how this is conceptually discussed elsewhere in Scripture. I found Scripture that IMO says He controls the capacity for human thinking in accordance to Truth.

If He ever allows us to see what He has been restraining and providing to us to mitigate some of the sin damage, I think we'll understand His grace & mercy & love ever better. But that will likely be when He exercises judgment that He has also been restraining, so we'll learn one from the other.

So much to learn...
 

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If He ever allows us to see what He has been restraining and providing to us to mitigate
some of the sin damage, I think we'll understand His grace & mercy & love ever better.
But that will likely be when He exercises judgment that He has also been restraining,
so we'll learn one from the other.
Do you not see the advancement of sin in the world?
 

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In reality there is light and dark. As He can harden for potential repentance He can also harden to no repentance and all for His glory.
But that seems directly to contradict 2 Peter 3:9 which says God is not desiring any to perish but all to come to repentance.
 

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I've pretty much answered this already. His desire is to save all. His desire for all who will not to be saved is no eternal life. The balance seems simple - maybe heart-wrenching but simple.
But you are saying God gets to a point where He no longer wants to bring to repentance and actively prevents repentance. How does that fit with 1 Peter 3:9?
 

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The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that ALL should reach repentance
 

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I guess this answers my just posted question.

So, do we all agree that the Scripture says God hardens hearts? @GHW @posthuman

Haven't we already also agreed that people are complicit in and are the first to harden their own hearts?

Haven't we also agreed that all God has to do to harden hearts is to provide opportunity for people to continue to disobey Him?

@PaulThomson Does it really matter how we use the same grammatical construction to describe something? IMO we put too much effort into trying to protect God and keep His character in line with what we think it should be. This is probably what pushed Paul to reference the Potter and Clay analogy. God doesn't need protecting and He does what He wills and His will matches His perfect character in all its attributes and conforms to His omniscience.

I don't see this as being that difficult. He is working to accomplish whatever He wills to accomplish at any given time with any and every person on the planet while simultaneously keeping the universe in order to the most minute particle as He wills it.

I'm not great an analogies or making up parables, but here goes: If I know my neighbor is a thief (he's already in unrepentant rejection of God - he has hardened his heart) and I leave my keys in the car knowing he will steal it, then in effect I have hardened his heart and he has actually hardened his heart even further. The purpose for my doing so may be manifold.

God's purpose in hardening hearts are obviously even more manifold and He doing so in omniscience seeing how it plays out in all its interconnections and through time, as well as His doing so coupled with His perfect character means He can also use such hardening to glorify Himself, to reveal His wrath against all ungodliness, to push people to repentance, to push people to their inevitable end who He knows will not repent and use them all as He the Potter chooses to work all things for good as He defines good.

He wills all to be saved. He wills the second death for all who will not be saved. Love and Righteousness and Justice are perfectly coordinated. His thoughts & ways higher than ours.

Scripture says He hardens hearts. I believe Him. And I don't think He is to be messed with or second guessed and I don't think I'm able to protect Him nor that He needs such.
If an antichristian says the Bible says the Holy Spirit had sex with Mary, it may be true that God does not need me to defend Him, as if the antichristian's accusation in some way hurts God and makes Him cry. But it is still a good thing for me to explain why I think the words the Bible uses does not men God had sex with Mary, in order to help the antichristian have a better understanding of God's noble character. I believe that the interpretation of scripture as saying that God wills/desires some to perish and actively prevents them from coming to repentance gives a false view of God's character that hinders a healthy relationship with Him developing. That is why I am pointing out the incongruence between such a view and scriptures such as 2 Pet 3:9, and am offering arguments for an alternative understanding of the texts used to paint god in such a light.

If people want to reject these other interpetations of the texts in favour of interpretations that claim there are some people God does not want to bring to repentance and be saved, but actively works with the intention of making repentance impossible for them, God has given them the freedom to choose to do that, but I know I have at east tried to help them have what I see as a more coherent God-honouring and correct understanding of the scriptures.
 
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But that seems directly to contradict 2 Peter 3:9 which says God is not desiring any to perish but all to come to repentance.
why? i know you aren't a universalist, so you must agree His judgment is both necessary and righteous.

Paul doesn't even dare to address this in Romans 9, saying "what if" He has created some vessels fit for destruction, not saying He has - urging only humility, saying who are we to answer back to Him?

and in this chapter, the the obvious objection Paul anticipated to the gospel, is how can God judge, for "who can resist His will?" - - but notice the apostle does not make your argument when it would seem this is the perfect place to: not denying that God exercises His will to show mercy to who He will and yes also, to harden who He will, he instead answers with 'who are you to question God?'
 

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The Scripture clearly says He hardens hearts. The Scripture clearly says people harden their own hearts. Do you agree that the Word tells us this?
Yes. But I disagree that "God hardens hearts" must mean that God wants to make it impossible for some of those He is hardening to repent and be saved.
 

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why? i know you aren't a universalist, so you must agree His judgment is both necessary and righteous.

Paul doesn't even dare to address this in Romans 9, saying "what if" He has created some vessels fit for destruction, not saying He has - urging only humility, saying who are we to answer back to Him?

and in this chapter, the the obvious objection Paul anticipated to the gospel, is how can God judge, for "who can resist His will?" - - but notice the apostle does not make your argument when it would seem this is the perfect place to: not denying that God exercises His will to show mercy to who He will and yes also, to harden who He will, he instead answers with 'who are you to question God?'
Actually, that is not the obvious objection Paul anticipated to the gospel. A different perspective on that passage is that Paul is dealing with the claim that no one can resist God's will, and rebuking that claim, since He has just given examples of people who did resist God's will: the Edomites and Pharaoh.