I love the story about the man named George who died, and when he arrived at the "Pearly Gates" St. Peter told him he was going to take him on a tour of heaven and of hell. First, they took a tour of heaven. Peter and George arrived just in time for dinner—it was in a huge banquet hall and the tables were sagging with the weight of the sumptuous entrees. Everyone was laughing and talking and having a wonderful time. They all looked well-fed and happy. George noticed that everyone had the longest fork he had ever seen—about four feet long!
Then Peter and George took off for hell. It was still dinner time when they arrived. The cafeteria in hell looked just like the banquet hall in heaven. The tables were loaded with food. But there was no conversation taking place— everyone looked angry and resentful, and they also looked like they were starving, in spite of all of that food right in front of them. And again George noticed that, just like in heaven, everyone in hell was holding a four-foot-long fork.
George said to St. Peter, "What's going on? It looks like the food they serve in hell is just like the food they serve in heaven. But the people in hell seem to be starving to death—they are miserable. What's the difference between heaven and hell?
St. Peter replied, "In hell, there's no spirit of giving or of service. In hell everyone looks out only for themselves. The people in the cafeteria in hell can only think about themselves. But, their forks are four feet long—when they pick up their food with those forks they can't get it in their mouths. So they are starving."
"In heaven, everyone has the same four-foot-long forks, which are far too long to feed themselves, but in heaven they all want to serve each other. When someone is hungry, all they have to do is ask the person on the other side of the table to use his or her fork to pick up some food and feed them. Sometimes people don't even have to ask. In heaven they feed each other. In hell everyone is so engrossed with looking out for number one that no one seems to think of serving someone else."
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of others. In your
relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus…(Philippians 2:3-5).
The Difference Between Heaven and Hell