found it,ok so I was wrong it wasn't paul,it's im Deuteronomy Chp. 21 verse 15,"if a man have two wives,one beloved ,and another hated,and they have born him children,both the beloved and the hated,and if the first born son be hers that was hated:
Then it shall be,when he maketh his sons to inherit that which he hath,that he may not make the son of the beloved first born before the son of the hated,which is indeed the first born:
But he shall acknowledge the son of the hated for the first born,by giving him a double portion of all that he hath:for he is the beginning of his strength;the right of the first born is his." wrong person and somewhat different words,but my point being that the verse speaks of the possibility of a man having two wives,just was figuring that this meant a man is allowed to have two wives,so the question is left is this a true insinuation or is this not right in God's view,an answer is much appreciated in a serious and biblical manner please.