After remarriage, can't the wife have a higher status in the family than the husband's children

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tourist

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OH!!!! Hush your mouth!!! You said kitties come fifth after dogs? You better duck,here comes Lady Blue with the kitty litter!!
Just kidding my friend. :) Oh, Lady Blue locked me in her basement, threw kitty litter at me, and cut off my coffee. Can't say I really blame her. :)
 

tourist

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Once again, that's just my thoughts on it.
Of course to me kids are in their 30's and grandkids are in High School.
Young children that need more discipline also need to learn more respect. Never forget, they may be taking care of us someday. If they can't or won't it may be upon our heads, in this lifetime. You better believe that.

Raise up a child in the way they should go...and when they are old they will not depart from it. Proverbs 22:6 paraphrased by a 20th century Grandfather.[/QUOTE]
Well spoken, brother.
 
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kaylagrl

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Jerry, you have stirred the wrath of my orange tabby cats army. :mad: They have decided that you must be punished for daring to put them in FIFTH place and BEFORE DOGS!! Therefore, I fully support and approve their plan to lock you in our basement with no coffee.. or food.. or anything other than dirty cat litter being pelted at you by Kaylagirl and myself.. bwahahahaha

This is what happens when you dare to disrespect the orange tabby cat.. Learn your lesson, my friend..

lol
This is to be the new CC punishment!! rofl You all have been warned!!! :devilish:
 
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kaylagrl

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I must agree with Jerry on that one :sneaky::ROFL:
Just kidding my friend. :) Oh, Lady Blue locked me in her basement, threw kitty litter at me, and cut off my coffee. Can't say I really blame her. :)
I dare say my fluffy white doggie and German Shepard might agree with you. But I love kitties too. Especially orange ones. ;)
 

blue_ladybug

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I'm sorry but I knew you would read my post and noticed right away about the dogs being placed before cats so I was just having a little fun at your expense. :) Actually, I am now a cat person and cats are really 4th and 5th. Please, do not throw kitty litter at me even though I deserve it. :)

Cats are number ONE, and don't you never forget it.. lol
 

Mel85

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Blue, you have no sense of humour either..... 😂
 
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Kim82

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No, God is first, remarried wife second, kids third, dogs forth, cats fifth, birds sixth....
Is it Olympics time already? Is this the 100m or 200m race? Or is it a relay?
 
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Kids should come first so you shouldn't remarry. Rotten annoying that entitled wife of my ex who wanted the kids money for herself and not work. Glad she left. Got tired of her complaining that she wanted clothes and this, that and then he'd use the kids money to please her. Let all these lazy jerks just go away. They don't like kids. They just want my money at the expense of them.
 
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I told my dad that my ex bf was cheating from the start. He said: You're not attractive. You have 3 kids. No man wants 3 kids. That's why you attract those jerks. He's right. They all want to be nr. 1. and keep you away from your kids.
 
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Absolutely not! Children do not come first. It is the one who provides who is first and by order of provision made accordingly ie; God first, then father and mother, then children. The children first disorder is why so many children are self entitled spoiled brats. Privilege is directly linked to contribution. By this they learn reward for responsibility.
Well I knew a guy and his mom put his stepdad first and he's on drugs, cause he came second. Mom was too occupied with stepdad at his expense.
 
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Locoponydirtman

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Well I knew a guy and his mom put his stepdad first and he's on drugs, cause he came second. Mom was too occupied with stepdad at his expense.
If there was abuse or neglect, that's one thing. This thread is not about abuse and neglect, it's about healthy rolls.
 
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If there was abuse or neglect, that's one thing. This thread is not about abuse and neglect, it's about healthy rolls.
One or the other gets put first. I think it's crazy to put the partner first. A couple that gets a baby and doesnt put that baby first, that's selfish. The one that gets put second will notice. If both put the kids first, they have each other first too.
 
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By the way, I think that man was selfish too to marry someone he's gonna put second. Then he puts himself first.
 
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Locoponydirtman

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One or the other gets put first. I think it's crazy to put the partner first. A couple that gets a baby and doesnt put that baby first, that's selfish. The one that gets put second will notice. If both put the kids first, they have each other first too.
The divorce rates for people who have been married for 25 years or more is near 30%. It's called empty nest, it's because people didn't put things in proper order. Roles, there is a correct way, the Bible is the source for the correct information.